少年成長

跳至

首頁
1

尾頁
   0


民房

積分: 28


1#
發表於 07-2-16 02:45 |只看該作者

How to get your child to brush his/her teeth?

Hi,
My son is 30 months old, I have a hard time getting him to brush his teeth everyday, I tried getting him new tooth brush; threaten to throw away the tooth brush; asked him to brush teeth with mommy and daddy; help mommy to brush her teeth etc; everyday is a struggle!!! :-( please share your experience.


大宅

積分: 3680


2#
發表於 07-2-16 07:30 |只看該作者

Re: How to get your child to brush his/her teeth?

我個仔好細個時,已經俾第一階段的牙刷佢咬,
好似流星槌咁款,佢當時鐘意咬野嘛!

咁跟住轉第二階段,我同佢當玩遊戲咁,佢同我一齊玩!
佢又唔抗拒喎!

你仔係咪試過一d不愉快經歷?所以咁抗拒?
最好搵出原因!

你有冇用牙膏?如果佢唔鐘意用牙膏,
咪用住清水先,等佢習慣下先囉!

不過兩歲半,我個仔已轉了大人用的牙膏了!
所以你都要諗諗法!

或者可以同佢講數,如果佢肯自己刷牙,
就俾一樣佢鐘意的(食物?)佢,
睇下佢肯唔肯?

你買的新牙刷係咪佢自己揀架?
你最好帶佢一齊去揀佢鐘意的款喎!
而家有好多款架,我個仔都係帶佢一齊揀,
佢應承我會用,我先買俾佢架!


民房

積分: 28


3#
發表於 07-2-16 08:55 |只看該作者

Re: How to get your child to brush his/her teeth?

Hi Seven7,

I don't think he ever had any bad experience when it comes to brushing teeth. When he was small, I used to brush his teeth with a thing that fit onto my finger with a brush head, I don't know what it's called, I haven't seen anything 好似流星槌咁款 here in Toronto.

I think I will try your suggestion, let him pick the tooth brush when we go shopping, maybe then he would want to do it himself. I haven't let him try the adult toothpaste yet, he will eat it for sure , I used the gel type without floride.

It's hard to 講數 with him, for he would say yes and then when he has to do it, he would say " I don't like it" and ran off.

Speaking of 講數, it never worked with my son, I don't know if he is still young or he is being so stubborn, I need input for this too. For example, last night, we were trying to get him to go to bed and he promised us that after daddy took him to say goodbye to goldfish , he would sleep, he kept saying " I promise", then afterwards, he wanted to go again and again and started crying when we didn't let him. Another time was he wanted something and i told him he got to do this first, As soon as I said "No" , he flipped out and started crying, he always cried to the point that he would throw up.
What can I do??? help


大宅

積分: 2804


4#
發表於 07-2-16 10:19 |只看該作者

Re: How to get your child to brush his/her teeth?

我仔仔三歲半,兩歲開始用bb牙膏刷牙(可以吞那款).
一個月前改用小童牙膏,他們極抗拒,每天早晚也要威逼(鬧)利誘(送貼紙),幸好當時剛剛學校有愛牙運動,加上我用獎勵方法(用電腦劃了10格,第10格有雪糕圖,每一次自己刷牙有一TICK,TICK到雪糕那格就有雪糕食.表貼在他們房,趣時可看到),SO FAR好有效,由我們強逼刷到現在自己刷,當中當然有鼓勵.現在,對他們來說,自己畫TICK已是一個獎勵,每次刷完牙就來找我"認叻",然後拿筆在格上TICK.前前後後搞了個幾月才有進步,你也要慢慢來.


大宅

積分: 3680


5#
發表於 07-2-16 13:49 |只看該作者

Re: How to get your child to brush his/her teeth?

Ansie,

恕我直言~~~你唔夠堅持,做媽咪唔夠堅持就好難教小朋友!

佢喊由佢喊,總之佢應承左,就要做...
無得話左又唔做架!

點解你個仔咁stubbon?因為你唔夠佢堅持囉!
我個仔都係咁,但我真係好硬淨,佢試過喊,喊,喊,
我都唔俾佢達到目的,咁佢試多幾次,
知道媽咪係扭唔到計,咁佢就佢慳返啖氣架啦!

你一定要堅持,一次都不能退讓(如果你想第日有好日子過)
否則,以後佢係你boss啦!你諗諗啦! :wink:


複式洋房

積分: 106


6#
發表於 07-2-17 22:08 |只看該作者

Re: How to get your child to brush his/her teeth?

唔可以佢話唔刷就由得佢,一定要佢早上刷完牙先食早餐和玩,夜晚要刷咗牙先可以上床,要堅持.要幫佢將刷牙成為一種習慣.


民房

積分: 28


7#
發表於 07-2-17 23:22 |只看該作者

Re: How to get your child to brush his/her teeth?

I tried to give him stickers as reward, it worked sometimes but I will try Meggie 3493's suggestion.

Seven7 and coei, I am not offended at all, I understand what you mean, I know I have to put my feet down to let him know who is the boss. I am trying to be more firm with him too. Hope that it will work. Oh, I also started to ignore him and leave him alone when he started crying and he actually stopped crying and look for me after a while, that's a good start I guess


大宅

積分: 3680


8#
發表於 07-2-18 00:33 |只看該作者

Re: How to get your child to brush his/her teeth?

Ansie 寫道:
I tried to give him stickers as reward, it worked sometimes but I will try Meggie 3493's suggestion.

Seven7 and coei, I am not offended at all, I understand what you mean, I know I have to put my feet down to let him know who is the boss. I am trying to be more firm with him too. Hope that it will work. Oh, I also started to ignore him and leave him alone when he started crying and he actually stopped crying and look for me after a while, that's a good start I guess


Ansie:

有進步喎,繼續努力啦,
記住:一定要堅持,堅持,堅持,咁你個仔以後會好教好多!

到佢做到你要求,咪俾個big hug佢囉!


珍珠宮

積分: 33215


9#
發表於 07-2-18 21:37 |只看該作者

Re: How to get your child to brush his/her teeth?

Ansie 寫道:
I tried to give him stickers as reward, it worked sometimes but I will try Meggie 3493's suggestion.

Seven7 and coei, I am not offended at all, I understand what you mean, I know I have to put my feet down to let him know who is the boss. I am trying to be more firm with him too. Hope that it will work. Oh, I also started to ignore him and leave him alone when he started crying and he actually stopped crying and look for me after a while, that's a good start I guess


May be you can also read this topic H E R E
I think it will certainly help you in teaching your baby.
教仔心得:媽咪容易犯的錯誤
http://www.baby-kingdom.com/forum.php?mod=viewthread&tid=951856&extra=&page=1

成日話「讚」可以改正小朋友壞行為,到底點解同點讚?   
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com//v ... page%3D1&page=1

首頁
1

尾頁

跳至