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wingchingchu

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發表於 07-4-9 03:06 |只看該作者

super nanny is back!!!

看了嗎? 勁好看!!!! 最衰我不會用個錄影機....

是pearl (sunday) 1:45這集我學到:

1) too many choices--don't offer too many choices coz that doesn't work for bb, instead, tell him what to do
2) different tones--use the low tone to blame and the high ones to praise
3) routine---biuld up the routine for the bb, that's impt
4) taming skills--if bb is not behaving well: first, use the low and firm tone to stop him being naughty, if this doesn't work, tell him what will happen if he's not behaivng, if he still beign naughty, do what u have told him (sit on the naughty steps in this apisode) and it's very impt to tell him why he has to sit there until he cooperate, p.s. missing any step would ruin this method and makes bb confused
5) explaning--always tell bb what u're doing and why in details, this is also very impt when he's being blamed or praised
(e.g we 've to put the used toilet paper in the toilet becoz it's dirty; you're a good boy becoz you put on your pajamas)
6) count down--tell bb what u're going to do esp when u want to shift him from sth he lkes to do (e.g. 1 min later we're going to finish bath time and we're going to have some stories)
7) quiet time -- before going to bed (bathing, reading)
8) communication--give time for bb to express what he wants, otherwise he'll get annoyed
9) position--when u have sth impt to tell him, get down to his level and let him look at ur eyes and talk to him
10) don't slip---coz this will ruin everything that you set and you'll let your bb slip

I think i can applu this to my bb girl too coz these days she likes to hit me esp when she's told not to
do so
i think my tone is wrong, coz i don't want to always use a low tone and i'm afraid that would deterioate our relationship and turn mummy into a bad guy, and also i don't give her any punishment when she insist being naughty
but i\m still thinking about what punishemnt hshould i give coz my home is very small so i ahve no place to lock her up like the naughty steps and i don't want to hit her coz i'm telling her that hitting is wrong, what can i do? do you have the same case?? let's share

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hayden06

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發表於 07-4-9 11:52 |只看該作者

Re: super nanny is back!!!

尋晚我都睇左呀! 好好睇

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tramtram

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發表於 07-4-9 12:41 |只看該作者

Re: super nanny is back!!!

thank you

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BABALALA

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發表於 07-4-11 01:12 |只看該作者

Re: super nanny is back!!!

是否馮sunday做呢?中午做呀?

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yanlongma

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發表於 07-4-11 10:31 |只看該作者

Re: super nanny is back!!!

wingchingchu 寫道:
....but i\m still thinking about what punishemnt hshould i give coz my home is very small so i ahve no place to lock her up like the naughty steps and i don't want to hit her coz i'm telling her that hitting is wrong, what can i do? do you have the same case?? let's share

我的屋企也很小，我會罰呀女企門口，面向大門。收聲先開始計兩分鐘。