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a maid referred by BK mom


民房

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發表於 07-4-23 13:53 |顯示全部帖子

a maid referred by BK mom

Not a complaint. But just a sharing of my experience only!!

I was v happy to find a maid from BK. But this arrangement just last for 4 months. All my family members now scared to have another new one.

The bk mom said she is loyal & never tell lies. But she tell lies everyday & every minute. The maid loves to go outside during work because her ex-job, no body to check her. She can help her ex-employer's son to sleep because they slept together & shared one bed. So when she & my son slept on separate beds (in same room), she can't hear my son cough at night & she never help him to cover the blanket because she always got deep sleep.

This Sunday morning(she left already), she called (using undisclosed no.) my husband & my mobile & cut the lines after listen our vocies. She then called our home no. again. She want to check if we are at home or not. We can't believe what a good maid (as per her ex-employer) would do these things. We all treated by her pleasant, gentle & shy faces.

Good luck to BK moms!


大宅

國民生產總值:3507


發表於 07-4-23 15:19 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

As an employer, would like to share my story....

My previous maid is a bun bun, she worked in my house almost 4 years. In the first 2 years, she works okay but she become lazy and don't follow my instruction after the 2nd contract. She did many bad things so I fried her suddenly.

After she left my home, she call me and would like I can tell her new employer everythings are good regarding her. She mention to me, if I won't do that, I will got the big problem....after that, cut the line.

Then, some employers called, I tell the true how bad she did... (basically, I don't know how come so many employer willing to hire the maid who cannot finish contract). I asked one of the employers, have you asked the maid for the reason I fried her, she said: the maid said you misunderstand her....

After that, the old maid called and very angry to me, she said why I saying bad, she is confidence her interview is good, but final the employer won't employ her, the maid asked the employer why, the employer told her : you have to ask your previous employer then left" ..... I talked the maid for I have to tell the true, if you call again, I will call the police. :-(

作為香港人,應團結,更何況我們 是一班請外傭之僱主呢,不能靠政府,只能靠大家互相團結及報料。
這次經歷有很深感受,一方面不想幫外傭向新僱主說謊,另一方面,又擔心她會不會做出一些事對家人不利,因他仍可在港14天。 :-(

寄望各位僱主一方面不要向新僱主說謊,另一方面,新僱主不要告訴工人舊僱主的說話 ,如不請,大可告知他你有更好的選擇就算吧...

As I know, may some of the employers don't want to get in trouble, they will saying good...


民房

國民生產總值:45


發表於 07-4-23 15:42 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

That's what my husband said some employers want to get rid of the maid and troubles in order to "順利送客" so they would say their maid is good.....


大宅

國民生產總值:3507


發表於 07-4-23 15:44 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

yes.


侯爵府

國民生產總值:21395


發表於 07-4-23 15:47 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

講真啦, 真係甘好既話, 都留返比自己人/朋友啦, 幾時會流出黎係bk比d 素未謀面既網友呀..................講笑咩


珍珠宮

國民生產總值:40934


發表於 07-4-23 16:20 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

個前僱主會唔會係d扮媽咪既agent呢


大宅

國民生產總值:3683

2018勳章


發表於 07-4-23 16:48 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

好同意你所講:

"寄望各位僱主一方面不要向新僱主說謊,另一方面,新僱主不要告訴工人舊僱主的說話 ,如不請,大可告知他你有更好的選擇就算吧... "

希望各位新僱主一定要明白, 唔好咁輕易相信d工人的謊言, 否則自吃苦果的係自己, 要緊請鬼容易送鬼難. 好似我個舊bun bun, 開始佢搵工時話新僱主要求睇舊僱主的reference letter, 但我話要完約先可以俾, 後來我知佢應該係整作封假我 (呢要唔奇怪), 但奇在新僱主點解唔打來問下, 或者要求舊僱主的電話. 我唔續佢約因為我覺得佢唔適合照顧小朋友, 因為無愛心, 但偏偏新僱主請佢照僱小朋友, 因為有另一位工人專負責家務,

唉, 香港人太易信人了
:-( :evil:


子爵府

國民生產總值:10826


發表於 07-4-23 16:50 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

另一方面,新僱主不要告訴工人舊僱主所講的說話 ,如不請,大可告知他你有更好的選擇就算吧...


我覺得哩樣最重要, 大家互相合助嘛! 我老實同你講左, 你咪做金手指督我出黎先得架! 如果唔係, 邊仲有人肯講老實 reference.
「多元社區,和諧並存;你我出手,聾健共融 」


大宅

國民生產總值:2772


發表於 07-4-23 16:51 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

其實, 好認同'靚媽媽'講法, 僱主要齊心, 唔好比D'衰人'串通D工人來騙我們, 如果是有問題工人, 一定要'實話實說'.
由其唔好相信佢地是'有什麼信仰'而相信他們, 如果佢地真有神在, 佢地一定唔會做出咁多'神'唔喜悅事程, 要我地做假見證, 我地味會得罪神.
網上世界, 你都唔知所謂'人'是 真還是假, 佢地可以化身多人, 你一句, 我一句, 讓你覺得好真一樣, 要小心分真假.


大宅

國民生產總值:3507


發表於 07-4-23 17:31 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

"我覺得哩樣最重要, 大家互相合助嘛! 我老實同你講左, 你咪做金手指督我出黎先得架! 如果唔係, 邊仲有人肯講老實 reference."

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Yes, that is totally what I means.

So, before hiring a maid, below is a must:
- a reference letter from previous employer
- contact # of previous employer (talk to them and understand more what are the maid's duty).
- passport copy (if they tell you have work in Singapore before, check the chop/record carefully).

I'm now using the yan yan for 2 years and she will going to finish contract this July. what my planning is, I will give her one month notice on June, she can find new employer and asked employer call me anytimes if need. No reference letter will be issued to her until the last day, I also will show my phone no. on the reference letter.

My agent is my old friend, she teach me if my maid asked the letter on June, I can tell her:
- Agent said I cannot give the ref. letter until the last day. I don't know if you doing well during this month. I will give you the last day in front of the agent.
- I will tell my maid, even we won't sign the 2nd contract, you have to keep your performance well before you left. I will tell your new employer on the last day. you know, all the maid will change after got the confirmation from new employer. So, in case any new employer call, I will explain to them for why I want to keep their contact#.

Even not 100% good measures, these also the good ways to protect ourselves.


別墅

國民生產總值:639


發表於 07-4-23 19:05 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

話分兩頭...
我都見過唔少上手僱主讚到上天,下手僱主彈到喊...
其實每個人對"好"工人既定義都唔一樣...
都好睇上手0個個要求高唔高...
有d因為上手要求高, 真係去到邊都受歡迎...
但如果上手要求低...去到新0個個僱主度而個新既要求高...個工人好多時都唔會覺得自己未夠班...只會覺得人地mean..
因為佢地會覺得舊0個個都讚自己, 新呢個居然...

呢d係現成工人中好常見...


珍珠宮

國民生產總值:32294


發表於 07-4-23 19:44 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

ellieku 寫道:
話分兩頭...
我都見過唔少上手僱主讚到上天,下手僱主彈到喊...
其實每個人對"好"工人既定義都唔一樣...
都好睇上手0個個要求高唔高...
有d因為上手要求高, 真係去到邊都受歡迎...
但如果上手要求低...去到新0個個僱主度而個新既要求高...個工人好多時都唔會覺得自己未夠班...只會覺得人地mean..
因為佢地會覺得舊0個個都讚自己, 新呢個居然...
呢d係現成工人中好常見...


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大宅

國民生產總值:4187


發表於 07-4-23 22:20 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

雖然我今期請工人...都真係同網上媽咪介紹既好工人唔係太夾,

但係...我而家用緊 (即將會去加拿大既姐姐)又真係哩度三唔識七既媽咪介紹...都係O個句啦..請工人..講夾唔夾~


hinhinmummy 寫道:
講真啦, 真係甘好既話, 都留返比自己人/朋友啦, 幾時會流出黎係bk比d 素未謀面既網友呀..................講笑咩


大宅

國民生產總值:2792


發表於 07-4-24 17:18 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

agree

雪瑩媽咪 寫道:
雖然我今期請工人...都真係同網上媽咪介紹既好工人唔係太夾,

但係...我而家用緊 (即將會去加拿大既姐姐)又真係哩度三唔識七既媽咪介紹...都係O個句啦..請工人..講夾唔夾~


[quote]
hinhinmummy 寫道:
講真啦, 真係甘好既話, 都留返比自己人/朋友啦, 幾時會流出黎係bk比d 素未謀面既網友呀..................講笑咩
[/quote]


伯爵府

國民生產總值:15430

好媽媽勳章


發表於 07-4-24 17:37 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

我上次個工人幾好, 不過因為亞女返學唔使用, 所以我都有係度介紹俾bk既媽咪, 我亦認同每人標準不同, 所以我覺得好或者人地未必覺得咁好, 所以我諗又唔係因為個工人衰先至"送俾人"既, 如果佢衰, 炒左佢唔理佢總好過咁煩麻仲要係度介紹俾人啦. right?! :wink:

雪瑩媽咪 寫道:
雖然我今期請工人...都真係同網上媽咪介紹既好工人唔係太夾,

但係...我而家用緊 (即將會去加拿大既姐姐)又真係哩度三唔識七既媽咪介紹...都係O個句啦..請工人..講夾唔夾~


[quote]
hinhinmummy 寫道:
講真啦, 真係甘好既話, 都留返比自己人/朋友啦, 幾時會流出黎係bk比d 素未謀面既網友呀..................講笑咩
[/quote]


伯爵府

國民生產總值:18051

好媽媽勳章


發表於 07-4-24 21:50 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

我而家個工人, 雖然唔係講得話十分之好, 不過都信得過丫, 都係兩年幾前 bk 媽咪用開轉俾我既

我都相信介紹工人俾網友既都係一番好意, 同工人相處真係好講緣份, 就算同人地夾, 未必等於同自己夾既
hinhinmummy 寫道:
講真啦, 真係甘好既話, 都留返比自己人/朋友啦, 幾時會流出黎係bk比d 素未謀面既網友呀..................講笑咩


珍珠宮

國民生產總值:48909

2018復活節勳章 夏天玩到顛 hashtag旅遊勳章 DHA勳章


發表於 07-4-25 15:39 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

我也應承了介紹照顧父母的印印給另一 bk 媽咪, 死啦! 諗諗吓唔知人地會唔會咁諗我 ~ "因為個工人衰先至"送俾人".

另一位媽咪亦講得啱 ~ "每人標準不同, 自己覺得好或者人地未必覺得咁好". 哎呀! 真係唔做中唔做保....點算好...

hinhinmummy 寫道:
講真啦, 真係甘好既話, 都留返比自己人/朋友啦, 幾時會流出黎係bk比d 素未謀面既網友呀..................講笑咩
          You may say I'm a dreamer but I'm not the only one.


侯爵府

國民生產總值:21395


發表於 07-4-25 16:08 |顯示全部帖子

Re: a maid referred by BK mom

呵呵, 大家反應吾駛甘大wor, 我自己呢, 都係果句, 吾做中吾做保, 吾做媒人三代好, 真係要介紹, 我都介紹比自己fd 先,but都吾會

講真, 學大家話齋, 係我樹好既, 去到人地屋企, 可能生活習慣有改變而變吾好, 我吾想因為甘樣, 而比人話返轉頭

況且, 果個只係工人, 吾係我親戚, 我無必要幫佢去搵工, 吃人不討好既野我吾會去做................

再者, agent 我都吾會介紹比人, 費事比人話我係agent, 更何況係工人.......................

呢個係我既心態..................

如有得罪, 吾好怪我......................



anixon 寫道:
我也應承了介紹照顧父母的印印給另一 bk 媽咪, 死啦! 諗諗吓唔知人地會唔會咁諗我 ~ "因為個工人衰先至"送俾人".

另一位媽咪亦講得啱 ~ "每人標準不同, 自己覺得好或者人地未必覺得咁好". 哎呀! 真係唔做中唔做保....點算好...

[quote]
hinhinmummy 寫道:
講真啦, 真係甘好既話, 都留返比自己人/朋友啦, 幾時會流出黎係bk比d 素未謀面既網友呀..................講笑咩
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