| SandraLo | 2012-05-26 23:38 |
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Quote:bpwwp 發表於 12-5-25 23:25  Hi Sandra, He sleeps with me. I should say I help me to get into sleep, and I leave him, then my 99 ... bpwwp : 我估你都明其實係一個惡性循環................. 依家問題响你度, 你唔夠 firm, 冇堅持要做/佢要做嘅嘢, 因此, 佢反為可以堅持, 只須用喊, 扭！ 先搞瞓覺嗰度啦, 先嚟一個協議, 唔好太早迫佢入房, 一步步嚟, 唔好再响房玩, 俾佢知入房就係 bed time story然後瞓, 亦等佢玩夠先, 例如9:15pm 先入房, 講故事後約9:30pm就瞓, 講咗瞓你就熄燈坐响旁邊陪, 天塌都唔再出聲, 佢要玩要喊就由得佢, 佢試過幾次引你唔到, 或者喊到攰, 自然就會瞓, 再穩陣d 就揀 Friday 先進行, 跟住兩日都唔駛返學, 更加冇壓力！ (待績) |
| SandraLo | 2012-05-27 21:33 |
Quote:bpwwp 發表於 12-5-25 10:29  回覆 SandraLo 的帖子 Sandra,先回答你問題：佢只3.5歲，其實學校都係玩玩具，我估有可能係老師要佢放下手 ... bpwwp : (續昨) 你個 timetable 寫 milk time 8:00 pm, 而 5 - 5:30 pm係 dinner/snack....................... 我覺得呢度要執執, 3歲半應該跟大人一齊 dinner食飯做正餐, 就算補支奶, 都應該瞓前, 而外國有研究話小朋友同大人一齊食飯, EQ 都高d, 事實食飯時間, 可以學唔少規舉同 table manner. 另外你話「屋企佢唔願意放下玩具，佢會叫我比佢再玩，我會話再玩5分鐘」~~ 係咪真係5分鐘就放下冇扭？咁係冇問題喎！ |
| SandraLo | 2012-05-27 22:23 |
| Quote:star128 發表於 12-5-26 22:16 hi, sandra, 小兒4.5歲,最近兩個月當他做不對,例如:放玩具入口或大叫時,我們只輕輕提醒他,怎樣正面講,如:玩 ... star128 : 即是說兩個月之前, 他若有做得不對, 你們話他他是會乖乖聽話？ 4.5歲該知道玩具不是放入口的, 會不會他是故意這樣做引你們話他然後發難？ |
| SandraLo | 2012-05-27 22:32 |
| Quote:littlestar_2009 發表於 12-5-26 23:16 Hihi,我女兒2歲，令我頭痛是吃飯的問題，她一向去嬰院，在校，她各方自理都很好，飯也可自己吃完，回家吃晚 ... littlestar_2009 : 你意思係數餐中淨係晚餐先係咁？佢有冇飲夜奶？幾点欽？有d 小朋友知瞓前一定有奶飲, 係一定唔會餓, 晚飯可以完全唔食架！ |
| star128 | 2012-05-27 22:35 |
是的，他會乖乖聽話。不只放玩具入口，仲有好多情況他都是這樣對我們。例如：叫他快點專心食飯，刷牙，....
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| SandraLo | 2012-05-27 22:46 |
| Quote:star128 發表於 12-5-27 22:35 是的，他會乖乖聽話。不只放玩具入口，仲有好多情況他都是這樣對我們。例如：叫他快點專心食飯，刷牙，.... ... star128 : 你睇咗点用讚未？ 你將話佢嘅嘢改為讚, 放玩具入口嗰d 明知故犯嘅就 ignore................. |
| ellen332 | 2012-05-28 09:29 |
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dear sandralo, 多謝你回覆呀！ 上星期五見老師，同老師講左佢係屋企情況，老師話佢係學校唔算難搞，都算守規矩，當然都會同同學仔爭玩具，但老師話佢，佢都會聽，所以我稔可能真係如你所料，係屋企問題，我同屋企人會開始唔好縱佢，希望有改善。 |
| ellen332 | 2012-05-28 09:50 |
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SandraLo: 謝謝你！ 已向你教GEI方法，好似開始有改善，但屋企人未能配合，特別係仔仔gei爺爺，每次聽到佢講死八婆，都大聲話要叫佢嘴仔，唔知可以點同爺爺講.......煩！ |
| bpwwp | 2012-05-28 10:07 |
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Hi Sandra, thanks for your advise. I know I should be more insist and firm to my son. I will give it a try and follow your timetable. Last night, he was also trying to delay the sleeping time, and I was firm, and he cried and anygry for awhile, but he finally has given up. I think he needs time to learn that I am firm on what I ask him to do. |
| bpwwp | 2012-05-28 10:16 |
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Hi Sandra, 屋企佢唔願意放下玩具，佢會叫我比佢再玩，我會話再玩5分鐘」~~ 係咪真係5分鐘就放下冇扭？咁係冇問題喎！ - He used to really palyed 5 more mins then say "bye bye" to the toys. But recently, he breaks his promise. After 5 mins, he will ask 5 more mins or more. What should I do? Be firm also? |