| ellen332 | 2012-05-24 09:22 |
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Sandralo: 睇左，係唔係即係小朋友未發脾氣前，揾過好時機讚佢無發脾氣，無罵人...啱唔啱呀？ 仲有，佢初初返N班好唔適應，成半個月先返學唔喊，已經返左5個月啦，近排開始強烈話唔返學，又喊又唔肯坐校車，我問老師佢係學校情況，老師話佢係任性小小，但都OK~~ SO 我都唔知佢點解唔鐘意返，一般小朋友都會好鐘意返學.....都唔知可以點做？ |
| bpwwp | 2012-05-24 12:32 |
| Hi Sandra: I have followed your posts for long. Thanks for your advices. I have the same situation like ellen that my son is 3.5 years old now, he has been to a full day school for 1 year now, still crying for not going to school. He stick with me like glue, and I think he doesn't like to follow the rules at school. Even at school, he has playtime, school still have some rules that he has to follow. How can I impose some rules at home? and make him feel that "home" has rules also. His timetable at home is as below: 8 am - wake up and get ready to school, but he can keep on crying or making things difficult (like crying for not taking breakfast, changing clothes) ending up we will be leaving house like at 9 am 9 am - 4 pm: at school (nap at school for 90 mins) 4:30 - 5 pm: back to home after school 5 - 5:30 pm: dinner/snack 5:30 - 6:00 pm: play time (free play: he can play the toys that he likes) 6:00 - 6:30 pm: bath time 6:30 - 8:00 pm: play time (he will eat some food when we have dinner also) 8 pm - milk time 8:30 pm - I will start taking him to his room (play with him and read story etc.....) but he won't sleep until almost 10 pm. He avoid going to bed, and then doesn't want to wake up and go to school the next morning. Evey morning, he will ask me do I need to go to school today? If I said "yes", he will start crying and make things difficult...... How can I solve this problem? |
| Huiwangmama | 2012-05-24 14:40 |
| Dear Sandra, 我bb一歲兩個月, 男仔, 半歲左右換片時巳開始用手扯自己的陰莖，他表情是很喜歡的樣子:igiveup:, 我會用力打他手仔說不可以, 但其實咁喺正唔正常呢?:question:其實其實 如果是正常, 應不應用力打他手仔說不可以？ |
| SandraLo | 2012-05-24 22:09 |
Quote:ellen332 發表於 12-5-24 09:22  回覆 SandraLo 的帖子 Sandralo: 睇左，係唔係即係小朋友未發脾氣前，揾過好時機讚佢無發脾氣，無罵人...啱唔啱呀？ ellen332： 相信小朋友每日起碼有80%時間都唔係發緊脾氣, 我地就係捉住冇發脾氣嗰d timing 好開心/真心咁讚！(唔好等發之前呀, 等唔到架！) 你有冇可能去學校「裝」吓佢呢？睇吓佢有冇d 乜嘢唔開心, 再作決定. |
| SandraLo | 2012-05-24 22:23 |
| Quote:bpwwp 發表於 12-5-24 12:32 Hi Sandra: I have followed your posts for long. Thanks for your advices. bpwwp : 除左瞓覺, 佢邊部份唔肯 follow ? 有冇玩棋或者 game之類係有 rules 嘅呢？ 8:30入房, 玩完講完故事係幾点？佢唔瞓响房做乜？你陪住？ |
| SandraLo | 2012-05-24 22:38 |
| Quote:Huiwangmama 發表於 12-5-24 14:40 Dear Sandra, 我bb一歲兩個月, 男仔, 半歲左右換片時巳開始用手扯自己的陰莖，他表情是很喜歡的樣子:igive ... Huiwangmama : 由半歲到現在？有幾頻密呢？ |
| ellen332 | 2012-05-25 09:17 |
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Sandralo, 想再請教一下當佢不斷講" 我打你" , 我嬲你" ，" 死八婆" 時，我應IGNORE佢MA？因佢講得太多啦，一講就講唔停。 THanks！ |
| ellen332 | 2012-05-25 09:22 |
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Sandralo, 我要返工無可能去學校" 裝" ，加上佢學校d WINDOWS全部chi 左貼紙，我望唔到入面，我都有懷疑係唔係佢唔乖比老師犯，所以唔想返...... 琴日佢學校生日會，理應玩得好開心至係，但佢今朝又話唔返學啦，雖然下年k1會幫佢轉校，但我擔心問題都係未能解決...... |
| Huiwangmama | 2012-05-25 10:02 |
| Quote:原帖由 SandraLo 於 12-05-24 發表 Huiwangmama : 由半歲到現在？有幾頻密呢？ Dear Sandra,
謝謝回覆,
每次換片時都會的. :igiveup:
(今早我試吓在玩片前用一些物件给bb拿住, 因他好奇所以拿着玩, 而且终於忘記了第一時間放隻手在陰莖位置, 至玩完片時也只是顧住手上的物件， 希望這樣能保持下去. )
但也想知道bb咁樣是否正常呢?
之前打他手仔是不對的嗎?
現在的方法可以嗎?
謝謝！
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| japoton | 2012-05-25 10:17 |
| Quote:SandraLo 發表於 12-5-23 22:23 japoton : 1歲半言語能力未夠快表達到佢想即要嘅嘢, 所以會出咗手先, 你要先 stop 佢, 睇吓佢到底想表達 ... SandraLo 我會努力,有好消息告訴你 |