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如果雙方都同意可唔可以選擇共同管養權，雙方都可以去決定子兒的重要事項，但子女平時都係跟其中一方住, 另一方可以隨時探望子女，有冇人試過？

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網上資料:

香港的法院現時作出「共同管養」(joint custody)命令的次數已較前為多，這是認同令父母雙方盡量保持直接參與子女生活的重要性。

這個比較切合時宜的做法，是強調父母雙方對子女的持續父母責任而非兩者之間的個別父母權利，並且強調如果與父母雙方維持關係是符合子女的最佳利益的話，子女是應該享有這項權利的。

法律改革委員會（法改會）2005年三月七日三月七日發表《子女管養權及探視權報告書》。

報告書的建議重點是把一個新的「共同父母責任模式」引入香港的家事法。這個新做法的目標，是令已離婚的父母雙方更容易繼續積極參與子女的生活。

如雙親希望有共同撫養權，並由雙方共同決定養育子女的一切重要事項，法庭在確定有關安排可行後，可作出此項判決。現今一般都鼓勵共同撫養，因為這樣是有利於雙親對子女負責，並且不會因婚姻破裂而終止責任。但大前提是無論撫養權授予那一方，雙方均需要有充分的協議和合作。

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發表於 10-11-24 20:45 |只看該作者

我都喺網上睇到依D資料，我地雙方都覺得幾好，但點知打電話問律師時，佢話一般案例只會係一歲以下的BB先會用共同管養權，如果我地咁樣做就算雙方同意都要上庭解釋喎，律師話最好揀定一個人有撫養權。我都打電話去法律咨詢熱線問不過要等兩個星期先覆，所以好想知道有冇人試過咁做

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Sadman07

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My lawyer said joint custody is an option for us. It was written down in the separation deed, but not sure how it works when we divorce formally.

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Well, I have consulted three lawyers before to file my petition. All of the lawyers told me that unless you can prove either parent is metal, drugs or violent. Mostly the court would order the joint custody but the mother likely will grant the 'Care and control' which is means the child/ children will be living with the mother, the father will be entitled to the 'access' including staying access.

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原帖由 AndyM 於 10-11-25 10:15 發表
Well, I have consulted three lawyers before to file my petition. All of the lawyers told me that unless you can prove either parent is metal, drugs or violent. Mostly the court would order the joint c ...

I guess joint custody will only be happened when there are mutual agreement between the couple. So the 'care and control' will be deicded by them, not the court. If the case needs to be handled by court, 'joint custody' won't make any sense.

If there is no agreement about custody and need to be settled in court, I think although mother usually has the advantage, the judge will assess case by case to see which party can give the child greatest benefit, so it is not a must to grant the custody to the mother.

Please correct me if I am wrong.

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發表於 10-11-25 17:24 |只看該作者

But i hate joint custody. I have a daughter, 10 years old. I don't like joint custody. The ex only pay $2000 (every month need to urge him to pay it) for the child, never visit and contact my daughter. But he will ask for 子女免稅額 for 40%. That mean he thinks $6000 can take care one child in this year, including, school fee, tutorial fee, travelling...... Then the Tax dept will as me submitte so many many document proof (just as me year 2008/09) for the child expenditure. I cannot settle my mood as every year this guy make trouble and trouble...

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發表於 10-11-25 18:08 |只看該作者

My solicitor said the judge won't give the sole custody to one side parent unless the other parent is metally ill, drugs problems or voilent. This is nothing deal with the maintenance unfortunately. Coz both parents have the same right to make decision for the child. Regarding to the tax allowance and maintenance for the child, it really depense on how much he earn and how much you earn.

For the 'Care and control', it is true the law is favour to the mother most of time, in my case, I am full time working, but I can proof I am the primary career to my children even I have a helper, thanks to my very good solicitor, whose helping me fight and get the 'Care and Control", and quite a reasonable maintenance for my children and myself.

I think you really need to find a good and reliable solicitor, if you get a wrong one it can really ruin your divorce case.

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hellopuffy

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發表於 10-11-25 18:09 |只看該作者

我諗香港比較少做joint custody, 老實講, 如果離左婚之後兩公婆仲可以有商有量既就唔駛離婚啦! 以我所知如果做joint custody既話, 小朋友既任何事項都要兩人有共識先至可以做, 例如讀乜野學校, 上乜野課外活動, etc.

我離左婚之後免得過都唔想再見到隻c6, 仲話要同佢有商有量?! 佢唔發癲鬧人都已經偷笑啦, 仲話傾野?!

請不要轉發我的post, 謝!

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AndyM

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發表於 10-11-25 18:16 |只看該作者

I am surprised what you said, as far as I know quite a lot couples have 'Joint Custody'. I am working in an International school, most of the case both parents are having 'Joint Custody' and want to get involve with the child particular in school event, parents evening, etc.

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發表於 10-11-25 23:29 |只看該作者

我老公同佢前妻係共同撫養架!! 個女跟我地住, 但每星期仍會周媽媽見面, 假期仲會去過夜添!!

剛開始時係會有好多嗌叫, 但日子耐左發覺對小朋友係有好處o架!! 起碼佢見到爸媽係伙伴關係, 唔使帶著成人之間o既仇恨成長。係剛開始時傾offer會辛苦d , 但run順左之後大家適應左之後, 都可以過得好開心!! 但首要條件係「大家都要拋開成見,以小朋友利益行先」!!

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發表於 10-11-26 12:16 |只看該作者

而家仲傾緊，希望快d解決啦

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tricia

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發表於 10-11-26 14:12 |只看該作者

I'm the case of joint custody, I think it's good for the kid as he can see his father as well, however, his father is a "shit", he visits the kid but let the duties of taking of the kid to the maid and to his mother. He even asks the maid to do the homework for the kid. So depends on what kind of person your ex is, joint custody is not always the best solution.