I can't leave him coz i still love him so much. Will he change his mind ?? I don't know. but at this moment, i don't want to give a broken family to my child.
how about you, are you still with your c6 or you have separated already.
When I turned around and left him determinately, he felt he was really losing me and came back begging me to stay. I kept a distance with him and made myself more difficult to get. Of course hanging out with friends all the time and make a lot of new friends, signed up to study a master degree, learning Latin dancing and kept myself look stunning. When he found out he was not the only choice of me, he was going nuts and following me around all day and calling like a crazy man. I played hard with him as much as possible, i.e. you don't like me to hanging out with guys....well, you have no say, I am going out with guys no matter you like it or not! He even sent me for a date with a sour look! Make him feel worry and uncertain, he didn't even care about the third party anymore, because he was too busy to think what I was doing! Eventually, after 4 months, I gave him a chance and we got back together. Now is already the 6th year, and he's not dare to even look at any other women, because he knows I will do the same, and really scare who I talk on the phone and who I meet with.... Men are like that, they won't treasure you if you are always there for them coz its too easy. If you're being weak, he would just dump you and go for someone else. You must always keep yourself active in your social circle and make yourself beautiful both inside and outside! Even now I have baby, I dress nicely and go out with friends on every Friday night!! That's why I keep telling my friends, we ladies must keep our pride! If he still loves you, he will come back to you, if he doesn't, there is nothing to talk about anymore and please move on.
worrymama, you can pm me if you need someone to talk to, be good to yourself!
I wrote to him and told him that I don't mind you go as long as you feel happy. however, after that, he comes back every night but he becomes quiet, using your back to face you. No conversation, no talking all night. What do you think he intends to do.
I think he may feel shame about what he did, but it doesn't mean he changes his mind. Or maybe he's wondering what you intend to do and curious about why you change your attitude all of the sudden.
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