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複式洋房

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發表於 09-3-24 15:50 |只看該作者
事例一、籌備結婚期間,99問我同老公「攪唔攪得掂,夠唔夠錢」,咁老公就話「你咁講,係咪會幫手呢?」,99九秒九即刻話「唏,我好窮架,你咪旨意我幫到你喎」。點知結婚前三個月,99話要執執間屋,卒之豪裝左差不多廿萬。當時我有d嬲,因為佢同62真係一個仙都無幫過手。但而家覺得,算啦,佢唔幫,我講野仲大聲d tim
事例二、同62農曆年旺季去韓國(99係主婦、62返工但有annual leave),團費貴一個double,兩個人成萬二、三蚊,報名之後專登打長途電話俾老公(當時我地响日本旅行),叫我老公俾錢,又話無錢,激到老公話佢「無錢?咁撻訂啦!」。6299去到韓國竟然買左成二萬蚊人蔘,係隔離屋師奶爆響口。
事例三、天氣潮濕,99將洗完d衫掛晒入屋,開風扇吹,一邊呻話潮濕,又話d衫唔乾,咁老公話「你講左10幾年嘞,買部抽濕機law」,99答「等你買吖ma,我邊有錢呀。」 。正當我同老公差d想買部送俾99,就發生T恤事件
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/viewthread.php?tid=2143774&extra=page%3D1
咁老公就嬲到唔買嘞。
99對錢既觀念,唉……我最唔鍾意係佢覺得個仔既係佢既,但佢既就係佢既


大宅

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發表於 09-3-24 16:45 |只看該作者
哈,又真係幾難相信佢係無錢囉,佢咁講都係想咩都係個仔比晒,唔洗用佢個份囉,不過咁,老人家係咁架啦~


伯爵府

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發表於 09-3-24 16:49 |只看該作者
嚴重缺乏安全感, 所以打屎都留錢係身邊, 連個仔都唔信, 我估應該係咁吧.


大宅

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4#
發表於 09-3-24 16:53 |只看該作者
係啦係啦,大概係咁~


別墅

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5#
發表於 09-3-24 16:57 |只看該作者
果然係親生仔不如近身錢....


侯爵府

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發表於 09-3-24 17:20 |只看該作者
Let me share my story......

結婚前(few years before),99話 she want to live in a bigger flat, 要 my husband buy a flat for her (share mortgage with another brother).....卒之豪裝左廿多萬=> my husband paid and get 10多萬 personal loan from the bank!!!!!!
When, he paid back all the personal loan to the bank, we start to 籌備結婚, My 99 know that my husband haven't got any $ at that moment, 期間99問 my parents how much ($) did they want to have, how many tables did they want to have, and how many cakes did they want to have ...............
She said that my parents can ask for anything as they like, and she will give them (in front of us). Then, my husband ask her : will you pay for me?
my 99: ofcourse not. However, you can borrow $ from the bank and then I can help you to give those $ to your parents in-law in my mane!
Finally, my parents know our conditions and ask for nothing ($0, 0 cakes, 0 tables....... ). And my 99 speaked loudly and declare in front of my parents that: I would like to give you (my parents) all you request, however, it is your problem....... you don't want to have anything! Don't regret and don't tell others that I haven't given anything to you (my parents)..........

My 99 and 62 travel around monthly, as both of them don't need to work........ =>Use the $ given by their sons and travel around monthly....

Last year, 6299去Taiwan,竟然買左成18萬蚊人蔘powder......... and request us to buy those 人蔘powder from them!!!!!!!!

At least, your 99 will buy some clothes for you.......
My 99 bought my son 2 piece of new bron clothes in the wet market, $5 each when I gave birth of my son!!!!
And that's the only things she bought to my kids.

Your 99 is not gready, just don't want to use $ on you!!!!

原帖由 nahcTAP 於 09-3-24 15:50 發表
一個成日呻窮既99 (信一成都死)


事例一、籌備結婚期間,99問我同老公「攪唔攪得掂,夠唔夠錢」,咁老公就話「你咁講,係咪會幫手呢?」,99九秒九即刻話「唏,我好窮架,你咪旨意我幫到你喎」。點知結婚前三個月,99話要執執間屋,卒之豪裝左差不多廿萬。當時我有d嬲,因為佢同62真係一個仙都無幫過手。但而家覺得,算啦,佢唔幫,我講野仲大聲d tim
事例二、同62農曆年旺季去韓國(99係主婦、62返工但有annual leave),團費貴一個double,兩個人成萬二、三蚊,報名之後專登打長途電話俾老公(當時我地响日本旅行),叫我老公俾錢,又話無錢,激到老公話佢「無錢?咁撻訂啦!」。6299去到韓國竟然買左成二萬蚊人蔘,係隔離屋師奶爆響口。
事例三、天氣潮濕,99將洗完d衫掛晒入屋,開風扇吹,一邊呻話潮濕,又話d衫唔乾,咁老公話「你講左10幾年嘞,買部抽濕機law」,99答「等你買吖ma,我邊有錢呀。」 。正當我同老公差d想買部送俾99,就發生T恤事件
http://forum.baby-kingdom.com/viewthread.php?tid=2143774&extra=page%3D1
咁老公就嬲到唔買嘞。
99對錢既觀念,唉……我最唔鍾意係佢覺得個仔既係佢既,但佢既就係佢既

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翡翠宮

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發表於 09-3-24 17:43 |只看該作者
Last year, 6299去Taiwan,竟然買左成18萬蚊人蔘powder......... and request us to buy those 人蔘powder from them!!!!!!!!




複式洋房

積分: 148


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發表於 09-3-24 18:30 |只看該作者
99們見你有車有樓有錢去旅行,就覺得個仔好掂,一定要奉獻(陰乾)咁d俾佢地至啱數。
最憎99成日响我地面前提人地d仔女俾幾多家用,阿姨媽每月家用過萬,咁姨媽有4個仔女,你得一個仔ja 喎。
我從來唔過問老公俾幾多99,我見佢過時過節重加碼,出左bonus又加碼。99仍然唔知足,成日提住錢錢錢。
我好討厭一家人成日提住錢,我屋企一定唔會,到而家出去飲茶食飯,我爸媽一定搶住俾,媽咪話我俾佢會肉赤,咁我咪閒時買d野佢地食呀,買d小禮物呀咁,唔係咁先係一家人咩?
我本來都同老公講叫佢同6299溝通多d,等佢地知道我地既經濟情況,我地兩個都做野,係鬆動少少,但老公竟然話唔得架,6299知道之後,可能連儲蓄嗰少少都陰乾埋呀。
吓!連個仔都咁講,呢個家庭都好可悲。


侯爵府

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9#
發表於 09-3-25 19:00 |只看該作者
However, she always 呻窮 in front of us!!!!!
And my husband tell me that I should be care of my 99 as she may want to ask $ from me.

p.s. I haven't give her $ monthly, I only pay for meal when we eat outside. My husband give her a fix amount ($) monthly. We are not living together.


原帖由 mother904 於 09-3-24 17:43 發表




侯爵府

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發表於 09-3-25 19:02 |只看該作者
me too.........
=>99仍然唔知足,成日提住錢錢錢。


原帖由 nahcTAP 於 09-3-24 18:30 發表
99們見你有車有樓有錢去旅行,就覺得個仔好掂,一定要奉獻(陰乾)咁d俾佢地至啱數。
最憎99成日响我地面前提人地d仔女俾幾多家用,阿姨媽每月家用過萬,咁姨媽有4個仔女,你得一個仔ja 喎。
我從來唔過問老公俾幾多99,我見佢過時 ...


大宅

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發表於 09-3-26 09:54 |只看該作者
堅得過我隻9,成無$$$...........自巳睇医生,做人情,帛金/花牌,總之要洗$問c6攞,過年時,大伯話99同自已D friends去四季 hi tea,你話火唔火。
仔仔06-12-2003出世


大宅

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12#
發表於 09-3-27 17:56 |只看該作者
好有共鳴...我都有一個好貪心同貪 $$既99呀...
不我我同c6都唔會理佢...叫佢2個女幫佢law..


男爵府

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發表於 09-3-27 18:08 |只看該作者
可能佢地驚d仔將d錢用晒係我地呢d新抱身上, 所以點都叫下窮, 等d仔俾多d佢地, 又成日都話我地後生, 大把時間搵錢, 但佢地又知唔知我地自己屋企都有負擔?

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