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大宅

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發表於 11-3-2 11:07 |只看該作者
現在工人就快完約, 基本上OK, 一般家務ok, 有時叫她做野都會黑面, 但她也有耐性, 照顧兒子亦ok. 有少許聰明. 但一個月前, 問她會否續約, 她說要考慮 (心想, 我和老公都要上班, 家裏沒有人看住她, 只是照顧一個bb, 仲話要考慮), 故較早前再問她, 她答應續約.

但上一個星期, 比我發現她有少少姣滑, 她簡接地用了我的$$, 經我發現後, 她不但不承認, 不道歉, 還說不想跟我續約.

後來經我再一次問她, 她說要再三考慮, 昨天我要她答覆我 (因若她不續約, 我開始要搵人), 她想了一陣, 又想續約.

你地覺得, 我應該跟她續約, 還是請另外一個? (註, 我害怕請了一個奇怪, 麻煩的工人, 因之前試過一次)


大宅

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2#
發表於 11-3-2 11:23 |只看該作者
首先想問佢點樣間接用你既$(買佢私人嘢?)幾多錢? 銀碼細仲可以忍(當佢買餸打斧頭囉).
至於續吾續約, 佢好似好反覆, 又續又吾續. 萬一佢臨尾反嘢又話吾續咪搵著你來搞?!

原帖由 msbeauty 於 11-3-2 11:07 發表
現在工人就快完約, 基本上OK, 一般家務ok, 有時叫她做野都會黑面, 但她也有耐性, 照顧兒子亦ok. 有少許聰明. 但一個月前, 問她會否續約, 她說要考慮 (心想, 我和老公都要上班, 家裏沒有人看住她, 只是照顧一個bb, ...


大宅

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發表於 11-3-2 11:33 |只看該作者
是的, 我只是恐怕她之後又說不續約, 我就麻煩了. 但平心而論, 她是一個正常的工人, 可能是一時貪念, 我已原諒她, 但最大問題是, 她一不滿 (比我拆穿她做錯事), 又話唔續約, 咁到時我要馬上找另外一個, 會煩d囉....



原帖由 晟媽 於 11-3-2 11:23 發表
首先想問佢點樣間接用你既$(買佢私人嘢?)幾多錢? 銀碼細仲可以忍(當佢買餸打斧頭囉).
至於續吾續約, 佢好似好反覆, 又續又吾續. 萬一佢臨尾反嘢又話吾續咪搵著你來搞?!

...


伯爵府

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4#
發表於 11-3-2 11:34 |只看該作者
佢點樣間接用你既$??? This is important. A matter of honesty...


大宅

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發表於 11-3-2 11:46 |只看該作者
佢用我給她的八達通 (平時她帶我兒子返學搭車時用的), 在她的假期時用了搭mtr. 經我發現後(因我可以check回最近十次的record嘛), 她一直不承認, 後來又承認只用了一次, (我check到至少兩次, 因太耐之前的record我check不到).

我都有想過她不honest, 是不可以的, 但我又想, 可能是一時貪念, 是否可以原諒呢?


原帖由 iusiube 於 11-3-2 11:34 發表
佢點樣間接用你既$??? This is important. A matter of honesty...


男爵府

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6#
發表於 11-3-2 11:47 |只看該作者
My previous maid said continue contract 2 months before her contract end. But after 1 month, she said no. Then I found out she has been finding jobs and got one...

Maid can change their mind and find job easily. But we are opposite..


別墅

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發表於 11-3-2 11:53 |只看該作者
我個人覺得應該搵個新人, 因為見樓主已經表明了想同個姐姐續約, 但個姐姐好似覺得樓主無咗佢唔得, 所以成日用唔續約黎威脅. 咁樣, 倒不如趁早搵個第二個好過.


子爵府

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發表於 11-3-2 11:58 |只看該作者
點check佢八達通record? 我都喺比八達通佢用, 但sat晚要交番比我, 到sun晚我先比番佢


原帖由 msbeauty 於 11-3-2 11:46 發表
佢用我給她的八達通 (平時她帶我兒子返學搭車時用的), 在她的假期時用了搭mtr. 經我發現後(因我可以check回最近十次的record嘛), 她一直不承認, 後來又承認只用了一次, (我check到至少兩次, 因太耐之前的record我che ...


子爵府

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發表於 11-3-2 12:00 |只看該作者
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原帖由 msbeauty 於 11-3-2 11:46 發表
佢用我給她的八達通 (平時她帶我兒子返學搭車時用的), 在她的假期時用了搭mtr. 經我發現後(因我可以check回最近十次的record嘛), 她一直不承認, 後來又承認只用了一次, (我check到至少兩次, 因太耐之前的record我che ...


大宅

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發表於 11-3-2 12:02 |只看該作者
多謝你的意見, 其實我都有你的諗法, 但因我兒子很"痴"佢, 而且, 她做嘢是ok的 (不太差, 亦不算好), 最緊要她"話頭醒尾", 不愚蠢.

只是自己恐怕新的工人, 會有好多麻煩野 (因之前請過一個, 簡直不知所謂). 又恐怕現在的工人, 到時又話唔續約... 唉, 好頭痛呀!!!!


原帖由 綾香公主 於 11-3-2 11:53 發表
我個人覺得應該搵個新人, 因為見樓主已經表明了想同個姐姐續約, 但個姐姐好似覺得樓主無咗佢唔得, 所以成日用唔續約黎威脅. 咁樣, 倒不如趁早搵個第二個好過. ...


大宅

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發表於 11-3-2 12:08 |只看該作者
因我都幾信佢, 故在sunday, 我沒有收翻, 點知佢就用咗..... 不過我現在已收翻了....


原帖由 AX21 於 11-3-2 11:58 發表
點check佢八達通record? 我都喺比八達通佢用, 但sat晚要交番比我, 到sun晚我先比番佢


伯爵府

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發表於 11-3-2 12:51 |只看該作者
If you have enough time, go to find a new one. I was like you, my previous helper was exactly like yours, I'm a single mum and need to work. Monday to Friday all day without anyone at home as I take my kids with me to school, work and come home at the same time with me after 6pm everyday. She promised re-new her contract but I need to give her extra half Saturday off on top of her normal Sunday.

Just one week before her contract finish, she change her mind and left for a new job. I am still awaiting for my new helper at least for another 2 months!!

Even they signed all contracts and applied to the immigration, before to collect the visa, they will still looking for better offer(They think)!! So don't take any risk, go for a new one, I am sure if a decent one will be as good as her, and your son will be soon to get used to the new helper.


別墅

積分: 525


13#
發表於 11-3-2 13:02 |只看該作者
其實都唔需要怕再搵過一個會好差, 咁有機會搵到個差的即係都有機會搵到個更好啦.. 如果佢繼續咁落去, 遲早有日佢心情唔好又或者真係搵到另外一份工就同你講唔做咪仲慘. 因為佢地只要一個月通知, 但你要搵一個新的隨時要2-3個月時間, 中間有真空時間到時你仲麻煩. 早啲解決佢, 等佢知道唔可以威脅到你. 至放你個囝囝, 佢幾多歲? 小朋友好容易的, 只要個姐姐有心機對佢好, 咁佢就會痴住姐姐架.


大宅

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14#
發表於 11-3-2 13:09 |只看該作者
agree!!

原帖由 glorio 於 11-3-2 11:47 發表
My previous maid said continue contract 2 months before her contract end. But after 1 month, she said no. Then I found out she has been finding jobs and got one...

Maid can change their mind and fi ...


大宅

積分: 1335


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發表於 11-3-2 13:11 |只看該作者
agree, too,

I have tried many times that the maid left for other jobs during the time of waiting for her (after signing contract) >.<


原帖由 AndyM 於 11-3-2 12:51 發表
If you have enough time, go to find a new one. I was like you, my previous helper was exactly like yours, I'm a single mum and need to work. Monday to Friday all day without anyone at home as I take m ...


大宅

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16#
發表於 11-3-2 13:14 |只看該作者
我都覺得你應該請個新的... 太無保障喇, 你工人好似想用續約黎要脅你咁, 好難確保之後佢唔會再反口~


大宅

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17#
發表於 11-3-2 13:54 |只看該作者
It is better to look for a new one, in case this one changed her mind last minute.


大宅

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18#
發表於 11-3-2 14:20 |只看該作者
Thanks for your ALL Advices, it seems some of you suggest me to employ the New one. Yes, you are right, she may change her mind one day.

But can I ask, if I really employ the New one and pay the $$, but at the End, if she really agrees to continue the contract. So do I still need her?


大宅

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19#
發表於 11-3-2 14:40 |只看該作者
佢個心不在你家, 想走又未搵到工, 反而你自己要小心臨尾話走..


洋房

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20#
發表於 11-3-2 14:55 |只看該作者
咁樣其實佢對你唔忠心表現
送她回鄉吧.....

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