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複式洋房

積分: 350


1#
發表於 11-5-2 18:28 |只看該作者
hi everyone, my pr is going to expire this June. Now i haven't decided whether to go to oz or not. What will you choose if ur husband can't go with you? Our plan is: i bring the 5.5 yrs old twins to oz, the 3.5 yrs old girl stay in hk with my husband for two yrs. I am afraid that i can't take good care of the kids by myself. Would life in oz be hard in my case? thanks for your opinions.


大宅

積分: 3920


2#
發表於 11-5-2 19:08 |只看該作者
妳3.5歲的女兒會唔會2年後覺得同妳"唔熟"?
妳在澳洲有無親友? 有無朋友? 有無在澳洲生活過?
從兒童發展心理角度睇, 6歲前的小孩子需要媽媽多些, 但6歲後就需要爸爸多些.


複式洋房

積分: 350


3#
發表於 11-5-2 19:17 |只看該作者
回覆 lillymarie 的帖子

i stayed in melbourne for 4 yrs then back hongkong, got some relatives in sydney, therefore, will choose sydney if go back oz.


大宅

積分: 3920


4#
發表於 11-5-2 20:27 |只看該作者
5.5歲要返小學了, 又有親人幫忙睇下(有咩病痛時都唔驚). 都唔係唔得既. 係3.5歲的女兒可憐些少囉.


大宅

積分: 1891


5#
發表於 11-5-3 10:06 |只看該作者
本帖最後由 田心 於 11-5-3 10:13 編輯

I wouldn't go to Oz if my whole family can't go with me. It will not be good for the family members not just kids but you and your husband as well!


複式洋房

積分: 340


6#
發表於 11-5-3 11:21 |只看該作者
回覆 田心 的帖子

I am similar case with you! I am planning to go with my 5 yr old boy to Sydney and father will stay at HK. I do this because I consider my son can be earlier to cope with the school life and English environment with the Kindegarten here. It's really a difficult decision to make, a child without father must be psychologically unbalanced but consider the big competition in studying nowadays, I am afraid if send him back few years later will be hard for him to start in primary schools here.


子爵府

積分: 14265


7#
發表於 11-5-3 11:50 |只看該作者
life is short. To me, being together is more important.
I would like to spend as much time with my hubby and kids as possible. Especially if world is really end in year 2012, i will have nothing to regret.

Have you heard of comet Elenin ? Do some research on the internet. Something terrible will happen this Sep and Nov.


複式洋房

積分: 350


8#
發表於 11-5-3 13:50 |只看該作者
回覆 REGAL123 的帖子

same here. Hard to make a decision. My twins were born prematurely at my 28 weeks' preganancy. They are very weak. Considering the studying environment here in hongkong, i am really worried about their development. The main reason we go is that-maybe they will have a better future in oz. Sigh!~


子爵府

積分: 14716

馬年勳章 母親節2025勳章 親子王國15週年勳章


9#
發表於 11-5-3 14:42 |只看該作者
5 年前我老公系英国做工,我同小朋友留香港,那短短一年真的很难(度)过。

你 2 个小朋友o甘细,有咩头晕身兴你要一力承担。重有,你还有一个细o既系香港,你放心吗?


大宅

積分: 1891


10#
發表於 11-5-3 16:07 |只看該作者
celina_wei, if you have relatives in Sydney, will it be possible to bring your youngest girl along?


大宅

積分: 1891


11#
發表於 11-5-3 16:45 |只看該作者
回覆 celina_wei 的帖子

Regal123/celina_wei, it is difficult to make a decision in this situation. We need to evalute who will get the most benefit of this move. Of course kids are important, however, hubby cannot be neglict! I just wondering will your husband to consider to join you in Oz after sometimes?


公爵府

積分: 25364


12#
發表於 11-5-3 18:53 |只看該作者
hmm....what about your relationship with your hubby? 2 years...not long, but not short either.

what make your hubby want to stay in Hk for another 2 years? want to make more $$ before move?
Birth 15/3: W:4.2kg  L:52cm HC:37.5cm
Day 09: W:4.37kg  L:55.5cm HC:37cm
Day 46: W:7kg L:62m HC40.5cm
Day 82: W:~9.2kg L:~66cm
Day 112: W:~10.4kg


大宅

積分: 3920


13#
發表於 11-5-3 20:39 |只看該作者
我身邊都有些朋友係太空人家庭.
好在澳洲學校一年有四個長假, 呢D家庭就不住經濟上支持航空公司, 我飛來你飛去咁, 每10個星期左右就團聚幾天.
澳洲地大人少, 我都接觸到一些家庭, 丈夫在一個城市工作, 妻子和兒女就在另一個城市住. 呢D家庭都唔少. 見到佢地係額外付出努力去維繫彼此間的關係.
其實"單親"不易為. 可以的話就唔好揀.


複式洋房

積分: 350


14#
發表於 11-5-3 22:48 |只看該作者
Thanks for all your sharings. i think i will probably give up my PR.

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