it is very common la..
my 99, she asked us to give her USD3000 per month since I came to US.. fine.. as we still able to afford, until last Sept04, my husband's factory closed down, then,------> cool! I finally have a excure, I don't have money anymore.. so from that time, I seldom give her a cent,.. as I know she must give me a Black face!!.. so I don't go over to her place, not once a month.. just we only met in the chinese new year.. but I still did not give her a cent.. no money ma... as I am not her ATM anymore...
櫃員機.......... really a good word
before I came over to US.. my husband gave her USD2000 per month, not included the homeload for his brother's house.. crazy...
That is good.. I would rather don't have relatives like them.. now .. I told them.. this house I am living, half payment is given by my father, if my husband got money, he has to return money to my father sin la.