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發表於 04-11-24 10:43 |只看該作者

有碩士學位的全職媽媽嗎？

很好奇

書念得多
就一定要外出工作嗎？

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發表於 04-11-24 13:27 |只看該作者

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一定有. 我以前d 最叻既同學而家都無做野. 做fullｔｉｍｅmama, maybe　佢地咁叻，　佢地ｄ老公重叻掛．

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發表於 04-11-24 14:05 |只看該作者

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一定有!
我表嫂係兒科醫生, 一樣在家裏照顧兩個小朋友喎! 多麼偉大的媽媽.

summer123 寫道:
很好奇

書念得多
就一定要外出工作嗎？

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發表於 04-11-24 23:09 |只看該作者

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有呀! 我係音樂master的, 不過為了女兒成長, 一切都值得.

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發表於 04-11-25 05:53 |只看該作者

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你在家里授课吗？
如是

真是顾得家庭也可以继续发展自己呢！

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發表於 04-11-25 08:17 |只看該作者

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I have a MBA and also plan to stay home with my baby daughter. I think making money is less important than taking care of my family.

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發表於 04-11-25 08:44 |只看該作者

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I don't teach at home, I just help the church to arrange some music during my daughter's nap. Looking after a girl is busy enough, I have no time to teach.

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發表於 04-11-25 13:49 |只看該作者

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I have a master and am now studying another degree in HKU on a PT basis. I love my children so much, so I quitted my job 5 yrs age. Certainly worth it- one mom produces two good children. 　有媽媽錫的小朋友是最幸福的.

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發表於 04-11-29 12:43 |只看該作者

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I have obtained my master's degree in 2001. I'm now expecting a baby. When I knew that I'm carrying a baby, I quitted my job. 'coz I have history of depression.

I plan to be a full-time mother for at least 3 years and then plan afterwards. My husband supports me, though sometimes I feel anxious when alone...間唔中有d莫名其妙的憂心。

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發表於 04-11-29 13:05 |只看該作者

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NewSnoopy,

DOn't worry and be happy!

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發表於 04-11-29 13:37 |只看該作者

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Take it easy, Snoopy!

Remember it's only because of your hormone. I often cried at night when I was pregnant. This also happened just after the delivery of my first baby. Suddenly I became very worry, and I recalled all the sad things during my childhood. Maybe because my job was too demanding at that time.

Now I would say that how silly I was. Life is always hard, but it all depends on how you look at it. Having a baby is the most wonderful thing in the world. If you always smile, your baby will always smile to you too.

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發表於 04-11-29 15:10 |只看該作者

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Hi Everyone

I have a masters degree and two B degrees.
I m a full time mum and I enjoy it very much.
I cant think of anything which is more rewarding than looking after your own child.
I have my whole life to work but my son only has his first few years once.
I just love being with him.

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發表於 04-11-29 18:28 |只看該作者

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emma & summer,

多謝關心! 唔好意思，我可能誇張左少少。

我係在有bb之前知道有"焦慮抑鬱"，經醫生跟進至無咩症狀，跟住先有bb。所以我好明白開心的重要。

但有時突然間會又有番果d納悶、恐慌的感覺，正如大家所說，係hormones的影響。所以我每次都同自己講，d"傷風"又來了 (我同自己講"血清素"偏低，當係"傷風"，雖然唔舒服，但過一陣會好的。)

有時會食朱古力，我情願肥。同埋一定唔睇悲情的片集。

我同意大家的說法，小孩成長只有一次。你陪唔陪佢，光陰都係咁過。我又唔係什麼事業心重的人，我唔覺得我老來會為自己賺多個$而happy。反而，如果小孩成長健康，有一個正確的人生觀，先至係我們做媽咪最proud of 的。

係哩，有無人睇過"哈佛天才"果本書。你們點睇果個理論。我只係glance through，唔係好catch，not totally buy。或者，得閒又再"溫"多一次，睇下有無第d啟發。

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發表於 04-11-29 21:40 |只看該作者

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Snoopy,
You are totally right!
I love my children so much and in return, they also love me so much. Their cuddles and smiles are invaluable.

聽聞那個姓劉的女孩去到哈佛大學後成績不大好, 遠比香港的留學生差! 那本書是她媽媽寫的, 可見她的而且確全心全意照顧孩子, 但效果能否放諸四海皆準呢? 不過, 作為準媽媽, 看多些這類書也是好的.

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發表於 04-11-30 04:22 |只看該作者

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Dear snoopy
You are very right.
Please take care and be happy.
I had depression when I was young.
My doctor said that I will be more likely to have post (or ante) -natal depression.
I had a very difficult child birth and was sick seriously after my son was born.
I then had PND and was not able to take care of my son.
After a few months of counselling, I m feeling much better now.
Please dont worry and be happy!!

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發表於 04-12-1 00:38 |只看該作者

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NewSnoopy 寫道:
I have obtained my master's degree in 2001. I'm now expecting a baby. When I knew that I'm carrying a baby, I quitted my job. 'coz I have history of depression.

I plan to be a full-time mother for at least 3 years and then plan afterwards. My husband supports me, though sometimes I feel anxious when alone...間唔中有d莫名其妙的憂心。

Hi NewSnoopy,
I completed my master in 2000 and my son was born in 2002. As you are an well-educated mom, you can spend your time in reading. During my prenancy, I read a lot of books related to prenancy and taking care of newborn. These books must be read before you give birth. These knowledges are very valuable in coming 1-2 years. If possible, share with your husband so that he can have some idea when he takes care of baby in the future. Reading occupies your time and you will know more about your baby and your body then you won't feel anxious. Remember, you are not alone, you are with you baby.
P.S. Taiwan translated books or English books are better than local ones.

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發表於 04-12-1 01:33 |只看該作者

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要向大家指教下............我依家讀緊呀~~~都係因為bb, resign左份做左8年既工, 好多人都問我驚唔驚第時搵唔番, 入唔番行喎? 少少啦........不過, bb係自己有份帶嚟呢個世界, 就要履行這個天職! 我搵唔到唔resign既理由, 因為我覺得自己絕對係照顧自己個bb既人選! 當然, 都要老公有同一樣睇法同支持先得....至多食少d, 用$$$時儉點d就行囉~

不過, 邊讀書邊揍b(自己一個人揍), 有時都幾辛苦既

哥哥係04年2月13日出世, 祈姐係06年8月29日出世, 殷妹妹就係08年1月4日出埋黎喇! 一家5口樂也融融![url=http://www.babyhome.com.tw/bb/14331]快d入黎<舜祈殷 's love channel> 探下我啦!

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發表於 04-12-1 10:21 |只看該作者

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Hi Iris,
我6年前辭去政府工時的心情和你一樣, 心囉囉攣差不多一年, 不過, 回頭一看, 那時的決定絕對正確.

不過, 除了揍b, 記得給自己一點生活的空間, 讀書是一個好方法, 定時讓鐘點, 老公或奶奶之類揍, 不但可以使b與老公培養感情, 自己也不會感到frustrated.

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發表於 04-12-2 16:29 |只看該作者

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Hi all,

I'm planning to quit my job and be a full-time mom.
How can you gain support from your husband and other members (i.e. parents of you and yr husband) cos my mother give me a lot of pressure?
How long have you prepare for this?
Just want to know your experience. Would you mind sharing with me?

Emma1999 -- How did you persuade your family cos you had a very "stable" job?

Thanks,
sumi-mama

My baby -- Sumi & Selene

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