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[全職媽媽] 你地點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom? [複製鏈接]

MaggieMaMa

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發表於 04-11-5 15:07 |只看該作者

你地點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom?

好想知道其他FTM係點樣決定由在職人士"轉行"做FTM...

我依家番緊工, 供緊樓, 屋企有個7個月嘅bb女(非常得意...), 遲d仲可能會生個細佬妹...

咁嘅情況, 梗係想full time湊女(s)啦, 邊個唔想多d陪bb. 但係一諗到, 如果唔返工, 老公負擔重咗, 驚佢壓力大, 加上多個bb, 使費又多咗, 遲d bb返學又多d 錢要使...

你地有冇咁嘅情況, 你地又會點揀呢?

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發表於 04-11-14 13:22 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom?

I also have the same concern, I have a 6 mths bb. I always think of being a full time mother.

I plan to have another bb when my baby is 1.5-2 years old. I am now thinking should I resign now or should I wait until the 2nd bb born ???

If I resign , the financial burden is quite heavy and my hubby will have pressure ! 如果唔返工, 老公負擔重咗, 驚佢壓力大, 加上多個bb, 使費又多咗, 遲d bb返學又多d 錢要使.

So I am still stuggling

Any mother can give opinion ?-( ?-(

No worry be happy

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發表於 04-11-14 23:25 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom?

轉做part-time, 循序漸進, 又可試下自己同老公係咪適應到個轉變.

比較不正常而靈裡較感貧窮的人, 比起正常而靈裡不感貧窮的人, 成長的更多......

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發表於 04-11-17 07:58 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom?

我都是剛剛由在職媽媽轉做Full Time Mom，分別是：

好處：
以前兩個女比阿媽奶奶湊，好少時間同女女相處，而家日日對住個女，日日同我分享心事，日日送返學放學同老師感情都好D。
可以自己做飯煲湯比老公仔女，好開心。

壞處：
以前老公比錢我分配屋企事同埋自己冼自己錢，而家事事都要問老公羅錢！
以前有我阿媽奶奶幫手湊兩個女，好多私人時間，而家自己一手湊三個，無假放。

點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom？一句到尾，我係為左個家羅，老公仔女都覺得以前自己少時間陪他們。

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發表於 04-11-17 14:44 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom?

Hello,

我都是剛剛由在職媽媽轉做Full Time Mom>>>> Same as me la.

I live with my father & mother in law (nine nine) and I have two daughters la. The Elder one is eight years old and the little one 11 months only. It is because my little Bobo was too naughty and I need to stay at home now. Firstly I also change to Part-time Job and let me and my husband to try the change of my job. Then I change to Full time mon in last month and sometimes I feel a bit boring in the afternoon. I feel the Full time Mon is busy than a working Mon because you need to take care the Baby 24hours le.
I agree that your opinion as follow :
好處：
以前兩個女比阿媽奶奶湊，好少時間同女女相處，而家日日對住個女，日日同我分享心事，日日送返學放學同老師感情都好D。可以自己做飯煲湯比老公仔女，好開心。
壞處：
以前老公比錢我分配屋企事同埋自己冼自己錢，而家事事都要問老公羅錢！
以前有我阿媽奶奶幫手湊兩個女，好多私人時間，而家自己一手湊三個，無假放。

點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom？一句到尾，我係為左個家羅，老公仔女都覺得以前自己少時間陪他們。

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發表於 04-11-17 16:43 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom?

Like you, I also have the same concern and similar plan like you...If not work, we may have heavy burden. Especially after I saw my colleague was fired a few months ago. He is a father of 2 and with a full-time-housewife. Therefore, continue lor...and wait..you know too much unknown nowadays...and try to delay and think until I am pregnant again....

kyy 寫道:
I also have the same concern, I have a 6 mths bb. I always think of being a full time mother.

I plan to have another bb when my baby is 1.5-2 years old. I am now thinking should I resign now or should I wait until the 2nd bb born ???

If I resign , the financial burden is quite heavy and my hubby will have pressure ! 如果唔返工, 老公負擔重咗, 驚佢壓力大, 加上多個bb, 使費又多咗, 遲d bb返學又多d 錢要使.

So I am still stuggling

Any mother can give opinion ?-( ?-(

:-D

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Re: 你地點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom?

我都就快做f/t 媽咪了, 其實我小朋友已九歲, 都冇諗住要唔做, 但就因為要轉職位, 新部門

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發表於 04-11-22 10:48 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom?

Hi, J&D

我同妳case差唔多, 不过自己都算幾好彩！

話說未生囝囝(現已19 mths 大)前一年試小产無过一次, 之後隔9个月再有, 但头3个月都作小產, 医生要我瞓足1个月床, 自己連地下都唔敢落, 厕所都唔敢去,因為驚見红;自己已三張幾, 驚小產多一次, 以後想生都难。

但自己份工做咗 over 10 yrs, benefit非常好, 包哂 medical, 可惜我有個女魔頭上司知道我有左後, 仲再作小產, 佢知我試过無过一次BB, 仲"調我去搬搬抬抬做filing, 又係其他同事前單單打打我,成日想聊交哎,我試过俾佢鬧到blood pressure升至190,攪到我產前抑鬱咁濟,。当時已想即刻 quit, 保住BB, 就係這個 timing, 公司推出咗"自願離职plan, 叫肥鴿歺, 想走有得陪, 1年陪1個月"

我個衰女上司即刻日日同我照肺, 迫我辞职, 即刻要我走,medical 都唔準攞, 最後我bypass佢同Personnel Head倾, 順便compliant佢, 足之bargain 到我可以 after 前4 後6才last day, 仲可以claim 足 medical, 連人哋都話佢係癲婆。

最攪笑係我放完maternity, 即我last day, 佢竟然放張memo係我枱, topic 叫 "Last Day Assignment", list out 我last day果日, 每小時要同佢做D mug!

我無理佢, 仲周圍派 cakes, 緊係佢無份食,say farewell, 最係去 Personnel 攞 cheque 走人。

而家自己睇番轉头, 都覺得make 咗個right decision, 否則生完仲留係度, 实俾佢虐待死! 不過, 最最最.......仲要係我好珍惜 & enjoy 而家湊BB, 做C9 的生活。 :lol:

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發表於 04-11-22 15:19 |只看該作者

Re: 你地點樣決定由在職人士轉做Full Time Mom?

我結婚之後就冇返工,因為老公話我唔大駛養我唔難.而且結婚之後開支反而冇拍拖時咁大.因為多數係屋企睇電視同食飯.bb出生雖然開支係大咗,但都係有限錢,如果請工人照顧bb咪一樣要比人工,既然係咁,當然自己照顧bb啦!我又唔駛大魚大肉,最緊要同老公囝囝一齊,而且自己照顧bb真係唔同d,個個見到我囝囝都讚我好心機,平日幾辛苦都值得.

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