Re: 好心煩,唔知點做
whywhywhy
i'm a working mama & i have a 6 yrs old boy too. 1st of all, i think u have to find out WHY your boy acts like that; kids always follow adults, do u trust your maid? how she reacts at home? will it be possible that the maid shouts at him whenever he moves when he's young?
i don't mean that i won't trust the maid, in fact i rely on mine most of the time. however, i truly know that the maid (your boy's closest guidance) may affect your boy's temper/character a lot.
my example:
my maid loves to chat on phone (non-stop for 2 hours type). do u know what? my boy hates phone calls! it's because whenever the maid is on the phone, he will be left behind playing alone. my boy feels that phone calls will lead to miscaring. even now, he refuses to talk to us thru phone too. what can i say? he just hate it!
as long as u have clues why your boy acts like that, u may sit down & ask your boy gently to solve it out together. trust me, a 6 yrs old boy knows what's going on. since u mentioned that your boy is willing to say sorry, it means that he knows it (he's a good boy), but he doesn't know how to express/clam down/control himself when things happen. there must be something that he cannot figure out whether it's right or wrong that mislead him.
don't give up! try it & let us know if it helps.
tigerboy
tigerboy - born in october 1998 - i'm proud to be his mama!
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