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發表於 14-5-5 12:27 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

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My wife and I have 2 boys, aged almost 10 and 6. She was found to be pregnant again last week. She's in her mid 30s and I'm close to 40. I'm a professional and have a small mortgage to pay off on the house so financially, we have no problem. The only problem is: I can't retire in 10 years :(

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發表於 14-5-5 13:13 |只看該作者

回覆：Should we keep the BB

点解唔做好安全措施？

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發表於 14-5-5 14:42 |只看該作者

如沒有生活及財政問題，隨緣吧！免得後悔。

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henrychancfh

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發表於 14-5-5 15:39 |只看該作者

有能力, 點解唔要!? 其實平有平養, 貴有貴養, 我覺得你一樣可以10年內退休, 只要唔好逼個小朋友一個月學十樣野, 同埋唔好讀名牌幼稚園

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發表於 14-5-5 17:07 |只看該作者

Shame on you for even think about abortion

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jasontlcheung GOOD 發表於 14-5-8 20:35

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我愛Corina

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發表於 14-5-5 17:14 |只看該作者

回覆：Should we keep the BB

If i were u, I'll support wife to keep the baby. But have to discuss with your wife to see what she think.

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發表於 14-5-6 10:51 |只看該作者

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There is a big age gap between the children and it's a big burden to pick up. Retirement seems to be "a bridge too far".

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回覆我愛Corina 的帖子

My wife was completely in shock when she found out about the BB. Both of us didn't plan for the third one, but it's God's will for us to have the baby. Maybe God thinks we need the baby to make our family relationship complete.

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發表於 14-5-6 10:57 |只看該作者

回覆 henrychancfh 的帖子

We are not "monster parents" who forced our boys to learn 10 things at the same time. The older one likes playing on the piano and swimming. The younger one enjoys arts. We enrol them into different classes based on their interests.

They both go to public schools, not private schools. Financially it is affordable, but we are more worried about how the two boys will think of the new member in the family. They have already been talking about how to "deal with" the baby (which we think is completely inappropriate.)

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發表於 14-5-6 11:06 |只看該作者

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下？會5會諗多左？
好多太太30幾都未生第一胎添！

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Maybe you are right but the last birth was rather dangerous.

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May I ask how do you manage the relationship between your oldest daughter and the youngest son? My oldest son has listed a lot of "requirements" that must be satisfied and asked for our personal guarantees after the baby is born. My younger boy is upset and feels pessimistic about the future.

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johnnywalker 發表於 14-5-6 12:03
大女識諗，無論細妹定細佬出世，都好期待，無呷醋，我地亦無特別心理輔導。細女都係，細佬出世前已經好期待 ...

Oldest one is almost 10 but is intellectually equivalent to a 13 year old. Younger one is 6 years old. They have already been discussing about the possibility of having their toys destroyed, their books torn apart and their work books got drawn on. The younger one asked a lot of questions. We tried to answer them all, but he was pretty upset about it. He was worried that he wouldn't be loved anymore.
When the younger one was born, the older one didn't like it because I spoilt the younger one more. Now the older one doesn't want history to repeat and starts making demands.

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發表於 14-5-6 19:13 |只看該作者

回覆：Should we keep the BB

我想問下樓主，如果決定唔要，會如何告知兩名子女？話自己隨意可以扼殺小生命？抑或將"殺人"罪名推落兩名子女身上？
如果無經濟困難或太太健康理由，我睇唔到有咩理由可以咁狠心。

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lee d 咁嘅問題，好難答，人命，39唔識7實叫你留啦，自己慢慢諗，問清楚自己同另一半先決定啦

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