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WinChi


男爵府

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發表於 06-1-20 17:30 |只看該作者

I am not a Christian but I pray ....to forgive my husband

My husband is work on shift. Last year Oct 2004, I discover that my husband had go to China on his holiday and pretended to work for more than a year. I feel hurt and angry, even he promise me not to go China anymore, I cannot accept him to do such a dirty things. One day on Dec 2004, After office hour, I went home and disccuss with him that I want to divorce. He lost control and said that he will die with my lovely daughter. Then he go out for all day night. At night, I cry and pray to God, "please let me have the ability to forgive my husband as you forgive us."
After.......I feel quiet deeply in my hurt and feel not so angry to my husband and I had never that feeling during these 2 months. I have crazy for more than 2 months. Feel angry, Cannot sleep & cannot eat............
Now, although I cannot forget but I forgive my husband.
Is that the God's power to let me to forgive my husband. How he's respond my pray?
I really feel more comfortable after I pray to God that night.
I am not a Christian but that's my experience!!
有捨必有得 有得必有失
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林太太


大宅

積分: 1058


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發表於 06-1-20 19:15 |只看該作者

Re: I am not a Christian but I pray ....to forgive my husband

Win Chi,

Thanks for sharing your experience of how God answers you prayer. The Bible says:

"You are forgiving and good, O Lord, abounding in love to al who call to you "(Psalm 86:5)

"The Lord is near to all who call on Him, to all who call on Him in truth"(Psalm 145:18)

二OO五年十二月號的中信月刊有兩篇名為 "覆水能收" 的見證文章, 是一對婚姻曾經觸礁（第三者）但蒙主恩典覆水收回的夫婦(二人）分別寫的，　希望從中也給妳一點鼓勵：
http://www.ccmhk.org.hk/ChineseToday/2005/051200.htm

很欣慰見神親自回應了妳的禱告。如妳在與丈夫重建關係方面需要更多的專業幫助，可考慮聯絡這一群基督徒轉導員（心暖心輔導中心），他們樂意為基督徒或非基督徒服務：
http://www.prayinghearts.org.hk/service.htm
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lenglengma


大宅

積分: 1279


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發表於 06-1-20 21:29 |只看該作者

Re: I am not a Christian but I pray ....to forgive my husband

Dear Winchi,
I feel deeply touched by your message. I am a new Christian too...I think you are indeed very blessed to be touched by God. It was a wonderful experience to learn personally from God how to forgive your husband. If you read the bible, you will understand that a boy will eventually leave his parents to join his wife, because God made woman out of a man's rib. Although it sounds like we are the inferior ones...but if you truly believe then you know what I mean. God made Eve by using Adam's rib. Therefore, a man, when he grows up, he needs to reunite with his "rib" meaning his wife. You are part of him and he is part of you. Marriage is holy and I know it hurts to be betrayed like that...but since marriage is holy and you have only one husband no matter what...(even if you get married the second time, only your first husband counts), then it will probably make you easier to forgive. Think about it this way...if you forgive him now and if your husband sees the change in you....then he will be touched and be very surprised how you can ever do such a thing. To truly love a person is hard. It is also a test for you...and I really hope that you can do it...pray not only for yourself but also for your husband. Pray that he will not do it again and explain to him that it is God who gives you the power to forgive.
Blessings,
Lenglengma
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mrsamyamy


民房

積分: 89


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發表於 06-1-20 21:41 |只看該作者

Re: I am not a Christian but I pray ....to forgive my husband

In the passage referred by 林太太, I would like to say, isn't it too "easy" for the husband? In the article, the husband's main emphasis is on how much God has changed his wife. Although he mentions a bit that he feels guilty, it seems that he has done his wife "the favour" of going back home mainly because his wife has become a more lovely person than before, instead of feeling he was really wrong.

I indeed don't like this man. Can anyone tell me how God will treat this kind of man? Just forgive, that's all? Then one can do anything bad and just asks God's forgiveness? Just like 信義會的那個侵犯弱智女教友的牧師一樣，still gets support from his brothers and sisters of the church? Such an irresponsible person !! It's really evil.

What do you think?

:mrgreen: :mrgreen: 8-)
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lenglengma


大宅

積分: 1279


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發表於 06-1-21 00:08 |只看該作者

Re: I am not a Christian but I pray ....to forgive my husband

Dear mrsamyamy,
I agree that it was too "easy" for the man. In this case, only the wife was willing to accept Christ's love and change but the man didn't. So we also need to pray that the husband also has the heart to accept that he had done wrong..instead of getting away from it. I also do not agree on the 信義會的那個侵犯弱智女教友的牧師. He should really get his punishment. May be he repented..may be he only pretended to repent. Only God knows.... Like I said earlier....as Christians we believe that it is God's plan to give you that husband...and if things go wrong in your marriage...although sometimes it is very unfair...think of it as an accessment test from God. He has plans of his own which we will never understand....but we need to believe that it is all under his good will. We are only human beings. Only he can see the future and understand why he wants to make "bad" things happen in your life. Things might seem "bad" in your eyes...but in the long run, it should be good, not neccessory in your point of view...may be you are affecting someone's life too. May be the so called "bad" thing which happens in your life seem bad to you but it indeeds have a certain good impact on someone's life...you never know...
But i feel sorry for the man who takes his wife kindness and forgiveness for granted.
Lenglengma
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