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複式洋房

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發表於 04-10-4 15:03 |只看該作者

My girl still cry at class, how can I help ??

My little girl aged 27 months & she has been to school on Sept 1. She crys everyday when she's at class. She asking for home.

I have try all sources like giving her belongs accompany her, promise to pick her up on time; give her my pics etc.

I have discussed with the principal & she assure my little will settle soon & ask me not to worry. The principal also suspects my girl is a "gift kid" 7 thats why she is different from others. She is so insists at her feeling. I can under that. She had attended playgroup for 6 months at another kinder & she got an idea that going to school should have grandma or mom with her. She present school is different & she don't like that.

It drives me crazy. She still cry this morning (for the entire 2 hrs session). The teachers lost patient & I'm afraid my girl will be "labelled" as problem kid. I really want to find the way out & help my girl to overcome it.


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發表於 04-10-4 16:30 |只看該作者

Re: My girl still cry at class, how can I help ??

My girl is 4 now and she is an out-going and socialable type of child, she sharted her playgroup and other activities when she was 16 months old. She seemed she was really enjoy her life at playgroup, although she was a late speaker but she would say hello to all other mother during playgroup session. So I think she should enjoy kiddy life, so I sent her to nursery when she was 2, and the nightmare started from the nursery, she keeps on crying and crying for couple hours a day.

We did talked with the principal and she said my daughter just not get use to the nursery environment becuase my child could feel there is difference between playgroup and nursery. In playgroup, an instructor, my helper and/or I were taking care of them all the time, and she has lots of attention. But in nursery, the ratio of teacher and children is 1:10, so she didn't feel comfortable about.

Anyhow, we shifted her to the afternoon becasue the teacher/children ratio is not as high as morning class, and it seemed she was getting better but still crying. Anyway, we stopped sending her to nursery because of SARS. However, she is ready and love kindergarten life when she started her kiddy when she is 3.

So I think if your girl is in nursery, u can take her home and send her to the nursery again in couple months time when she is more ready for school life. But if she is in K1 then you may have to talk to her and give her some more time to adjust the life there,


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發表於 04-10-5 15:34 |只看該作者

Re: My girl still cry at class, how can I help ??

For your daughter, it looks to me that she is not get used to school life or does not like the present kindergarten (or the way that the school is teaching).

She may probably scare now. If I were you, I will let her stop for three or four months.

If you have paid for misc. fees and uniform for the school, you may consider trying the same school after three or four months. If money or fees paid is not a concern for you, you should try another nursery. When babies get older, it should be better or easier for them to get used to new environment.

You can also call the other kindergarten to ask if they have trial lesson and whether they allow you to try for one month and then to decide to buy uniform and pay for misc. fees.

This is the way I am doing now. My son is almost 29 months now. My son joined a nursery at end of August. For a few days, I do not know that he can get used to school life. I then talked to the teacher and they allow me to try for one month without paying misc. fees and without uniform. At about Sept 20 when my son gets used to school life, he just yelled for about one minute when I left him alone. The teacher said that my son should have books now and ask for my decision.

In this way, I can save misc. fees and uniform if my son is not get used to school life. I can just let him stay at home for some more time before joining schools. This year is optional. You can actually join nursery any time as long as seats are available.

Of course, not all kindergarten allows you to just pay school fees but not paying misc. fees and not buy uniform. You need to check with them.

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