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返學做大仔, 對孩子心理有影響嗎 [複製鏈接]

吉吉媽

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發表於 04-9-22 13:12 |只看該作者

返學做大仔, 對孩子心理有影響嗎

兒子 Nov 出世, 因為聽過很多專家的講座及 BK 家長的留言,對於做大仔還是細仔, 要視乎孩子的發展快慢, 因人而異, 很多時候在小學階段才發現追不上, 所以都建議做大仔. 但當我觀察現實情況, 和專家的建議背道而馳, 差不多沒有細仔的家長讓他們做大仔 (可能是我識人少), 仍然是未夠6歲讀小學, 我相信家長們如此安排, 一定有他的優點.

但現在兒子還小, 我未能知道他是發展快還是慢的類型, 又不想到K2或K3才多讀一年 (我想年紀越小重讀, 對他的心理影響最小), 想問有經驗的家長, 到了小學、中學階段, 當他明白自己比同學大, 對心理有影響嗎?

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justjust

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發表於 04-9-23 13:59 |只看該作者

Re: 返學做大仔, 對孩子心理有影響嗎

I am not sure 當他明白自己比同學大, 對心理有影響嗎. This is my concern too as my girl was born in Jan. But I can give her a good reason that she has not reached the min. age by 1 Sep and therefore she will have to enter K1 at 3 yrs 7 mths.

But 當自己比同學小, 對心理有影響嗎. 我想是有的. I was born in Oct and therefore a "small girl" in school. When I realized I was several mths younger than my classmates, I always felt proud as I was doing exactly the same as they were doing even though I was younger. I always thought the ones who were born a year earlier must have repeated school before and so they still studied the same class as I did. Although I did not share my thoughts with my classmates, I still felt the same even when I was in secondary school.