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發表於 04-11-18 10:53 |只看該作者

anger? disappointed?

Recently, I bring my daughter to have interview for some famous kindergarten. During the interview , my daughter is performed very well. She can answer all the question, polite to the teacher, behaaved good. My husband and I are working as the professional career with resaonable and attractive income. However, they alway put my application in waiting list or offer another campus for my daughter.
Actually, I feel very disappointed for the result. And it is quite discourage for me. Because I always think my daughter is ok and quite smart.
Can anyone tell me what is the standard of the kindergarten to consider of the application? Even perform well and good family backgroung is not enough?
Or maybe I 'm over-estimate my daughter's ability ?
Now I can unstand why the partent said its like to win the mark 6 if their kids have a seat in a good school.

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東京mewmew

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發表於 04-11-18 14:40 |只看該作者

Re: anger? disappointed?

你報邊間幼稚園呀? 可否講黎聽下, 可能其他媽咪可以幫到手呢?

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tigerboy

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發表於 04-11-21 05:56 |只看該作者

Re: anger? disappointed?

ks

no need to be disappointed. those famous kindergardens somehow need relationships (generally).

nowadays, good career background of the parent may not be enough for enrolment requirement, in fact close family relationship (親子關係) is very important. they concern how much time u can spend w/ your girl either on studies or leisure time.

maybe u can show the interviewers how u allocate your time between your girl and your work. when my boy went to those primary one interviews, they all asked us the daily schedule of my boy & how we spend our weekends. u see, they pretty much love to know that the parents can share times w/ kids every single day.

relax! trust your girl and i'm sure she is smart too. don't give up! it's still a long long way to go.

tigerboy

tigerboy - born in october 1998 - i'm proud to be his mama!

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大宅

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發表於 04-11-21 22:43 |只看該作者

Re: anger? disappointed?

Dear tigerboy,
Thank you for your advice. Actually, I'm working for few hours a day. Most of the time, my daughter is take care by myself. And my husband go for work at 8:30am and back to home on 5:45pm daily. We spend a lot of time with her. We love our daughter very much. Therefore, we're planning to send her to the victoria kindergarten for education. Because my husband don't want me to push or affect my daughter's psychological development especailly for the primary school allocation. And he ask me a very simple question. If I were my daughter which school you perfer to study?
Anyway, I don't want to waste time for this trouble decision making. Especailly, after I read the book called 告訴孩子你真捧! There are many relevant situation for reference. And I'm a christian . We belive that God must give the best thing to us.
Anyway, thank you for you and other supportive BK mom to "listen"my message.