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你會接受囝的女朋友向你屋企訓嗎？ [複製鏈接]

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KATRINE

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我肯定唔ｏｋ，我要教個囝有經濟能力後有錢供樓，佢同女友同居我唔會理會，但間唔中要返來屋企訓／住就萬萬不能
講真我真唔ｌｉｋｅ有個外人係屋企自出自入
好似我細佬個女友逄星期六都係我媽度訓，我老豆好唔ｌｉｋｅ，一間屋４個大人，而經廁所都唔夠用，再加多個大人，真係．．，有時我妹話若我爸佢哋去旅行會日日都係度訓，我妹都唔ｌｉｋｅ架
雖然而家女仔唔ｍｉｎｄ，但做人哋媽咪ｏｒ屋企人會ｍｉｎｄ架

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唔接受啦.

要一早同細佬或個仔講定唔可以帶女仔返嚟瞓.

不過依個世代, 唔明d女仔好似冇咩所謂, 我估'矜持'呢個詞語可以廢除左佢.

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ac321

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Me too!!!!
I have already told my son (he is 4 years old now) that he 唔可以帶女仔返嚟瞓. If he want to 同女友同居我can't control him. However, please move outside and earn your live by yourself!!!!!
I just read a post here, the girl move in and live in her boy firend's mother's flat. They eat ther, live there...... Then, the girl have bb and want the mother pay for their marry!!!!!!! Then, the mother ask them to move out of the flat. Then, the girl compain here and say that her 99 is so gready and selfish. She have $ and don't want to help her son!

原帖由 beagledog 於 09-6-24 10:35 發表
唔接受啦.

要一早同細佬或個仔講定唔可以帶女仔返嚟瞓.

不過依個世代, 唔明d女仔好似冇咩所謂, 我估'矜持'呢個詞語可以廢除左佢.

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好媽媽勳章大廚勳章

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一定吾得！

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月師奶

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唔會!!!

佢出去同個女仔我管唔到, 但住係我呢度就唔得啦!~

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原帖由 月師奶 於 09-6-24 11:17 發表
唔會!!!
佢出去同個女仔我管唔到, 但住係我呢度就唔得啦!~

same here!

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-6-24 10:58 發表
Me too!!!!
I have already told my son (he is 4 years old now) that he 唔可以帶女仔返嚟瞓. If he want to 同女友同居我can't control him. However, please move outside and earn your live by yourself!!!!! ...

YES, I SAW THIS POST AND I FEEL SON'MOTHER IS VERY POOR.

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我冇仔，但會教個囡去大個後唔可以去bf屋企訓。

有能力自立既，自己搬開住我管唔到，係父母屋企一定唔得。

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我都係接受唔到,我絕對拒絕外來人入侵我的家園,就算同亞仔結婚都唔該搬開住啦!我會覺得咁會對大家都好.

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我都覺得果個呀媽好慘，一定好心酸

原帖由 ac321 於 09-6-24 10:58 發表
Me too!!!!
I have already told my son (he is 4 years old now) that he 唔可以帶女仔返嚟瞓. If he want to 同女友同居我can't control him. However, please move outside and earn your live by yourself!!!!! ...

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shalala1997

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一定吾得

但我覺得點解而家Ｄ女仔咁架, 人地屋企成屋人, 有男有女, 碰口碰面, 鬼咁尷尬, 攪到自己鬼咁cheap, 自己送上門, 你想人以後尊重你都難la

好老實講, 女仔真係要自重呀, 如果太隨便, 你就唔好話男家唔尊重你呀

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所以如果呢度有邊個 sis未結婚, 而又bf 屋企住
就唔好成日話bf mama 對自己唔好, 自私之類喇
好好諗吓自己, why 要向人地屋企住, 唔返自己屋企呢~~

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ac321

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好媽媽勳章

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yes, she is so poor........
A single mother who hardly take up of her 2 kids (a son and a daughter).
However, she is great!!!! As she sell her flat so that her son (and his girl firend + bb) can't live there anymore. If not, I am sure she must be more poor now as she need to take up of his son's family (her son, his girl friends, baby). They will eat her, live in her flat, and she may need to take care of bb. And I am sure they won't give $1 to his mother!

原帖由 KATRINE 於 09-6-24 11:19 發表

YES, I SAW THIS POST AND I FEEL SON'MOTHER IS VERY POOR.

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一定唔會接受個仔或女既男女朋友,未結婚就響我地屋企過夜,雖知道,家規家規,每個屋企都有規有矩,我會要求d仔女,12點前就要返到屋企or送女朋友送到屋企,將來工作係將來既事,但係夜麻麻唔返屋企響條街度都危險啦,何況邊個父母唔錫自己既仔女先得架?有意外,出左事點賠咁大個仔/女比番人地?
雖然做媽咪既我態度強硬,但係將來仔大女大,佢地有本事既,我就唔理佢地咁多架喇,始終管唔到一世,要比自由佢地自己同比佢地自己學識點叫尊重及體諒,一家人先會開開心心!

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原帖由 chaklongma 於 09-6-24 11:40 發表
所以如果呢度有邊個 sis未結婚, 而又bf 屋企住
就唔好成日話bf mama 對自己唔好, 自私之類喇
好好諗吓自己, why 要向人地屋企住, 唔返自己屋企呢~~

agree

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其實你地有冇試過係bf屋企過夜嫁?

只係想知,唔喜歡唔好鬧

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睇情況, 因為都好多變數.
好似之前, 堂細佬係外國讀書, LAST YEAR啦, 同女朋友(唔係香港人)番來放暑假同見吓長輩親戚, 唔通叫個女仔自己住酒店?
但如果個女仔係香港有屋企, 咁就唔好啦.

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原帖由 A.C.C. 於 09-6-24 12:02 發表
睇情況, 因為都好多變數.
好似之前, 堂細佬係外國讀書, LAST YEAR啦, 同女朋友(唔係香港人)番來放暑假同見吓長輩親戚, 唔通叫個女仔自己住酒店?
但如果個女仔係香港有屋企, 咁就唔好啦. ...

呢d case反而無所謂喎，一次半次唔會俾人睇低，但係如果係搬入bf屋企同居，就一定唔得啦。

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ac321

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agree!

原帖由 shalala1997 於 09-6-24 11:37 發表
一定吾得

但我覺得點解而家Ｄ女仔咁架, 人地屋企成屋人, 有男有女, 碰口碰面, 鬼咁尷尬, 攪到自己鬼咁cheap, 自己送上門, 你想人以後尊重你都難la

好老實講, 女仔真係要自重呀, 如果太隨便, 你就唔好話男 ...