hehe... coz' she doesn't want BB to be attached to you mar!! my 99 also has similar tendency~ she will treat the maid like the mom of BB more than I am the mom of BB.... she won't think most of the things my maid does are ordered / instructed by me gar la~~ she always think the maid will do this and that automatically.. soooo NAIVE!
i will minimize the chance to 出街 with her la~~ to minimize me to get unstable emtionally!!
my 99 also doesn't think BB treat 個工人做阿媽 is a problem gar~~ i think she thought 工人 nowsday is similar as the old style 工人 in her days gua??!?!?
ohhhh... 條紗巾就咁放响張檯度, 又拎黎抹我個囡個咀... so dirty ar~~ my 99 also use my son's handkerchief (to 抹咀)... to 抹 her 手~~ And always doesn't wash her hands before touching my newborn~~ (she said she washed hands at her home already bor.............even though she only lives 2 building away... but she touched the lifts and doors ma!!!!!!)