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heymom


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1#
發表於 09-1-21 14:29 |只看該作者
我就嚟被C6佢屋企人搞到顛！已經忍佐幾年，而家唔想再忍啦！
因為我同C6住緊間屋係6299一早買定來俾C6結婚時住，所以99一直keep住條鎖匙，初初結婚時，她來時都會按門鐘先，然後就自己開門入屋，而且都唔係成日上嚟。自從我生咗BB後，佢就連門鐘都冇按，鍾意就嚟，唔鍾意就唔嚟，總之無時無刻佢都會突然間係我屋企出現，時時都要提心吊膽(寫到呢度，我已經好想喊，我而家要一個人湊2個B+煮飯，已經好大壓力+好忙，出街好困難)，最恐怖的經驗我試過晏晝同BB訓緊覺，一轉身竟然見到佢係我床邊！如是者，過了幾年，我已經唔想再忍啦！又無能力搬走，都唔知可以點做？為此事，而家同C6冷戰緊，我現在打算反鎖度閘，但唔知會有咩後果？
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Melody_Che


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2#
發表於 09-1-21 14:33 |只看該作者
點解唔叫老公開口同99講要黎一定要打電話先呢?? 依d係禮貌, 尊重別人
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mother904


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3#
發表於 09-1-21 14:38 |只看該作者
結婚前我已經同c6講明唔可以俾鎖匙99，佢俾幾多次我換幾多次鎖...

有時我覺得真係要好強硬咁表明立場，男人先會認真處理問題。
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heymom


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4#
發表於 09-1-21 14:41 |只看該作者
原帖由 Melody_Che 於 09-1-21 14:33 發表
點解唔叫老公開口同99講要黎一定要打電話先呢?? 依d係禮貌, 尊重別人


我c6好驚佢屋企人，一講即係反面，況且99佢一早講佐話唔駛打電話，但係冇要求我同意。

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Melody_Che


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5#
發表於 09-1-21 14:46 |只看該作者
你老公唔尊重你, 又怕佢屋企人, 可唔可以發佢一次脾氣, 令佢知道你係幾反感呀??
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6#
發表於 09-1-21 14:48 |只看該作者
唉~我同你差唔多情況,一年後我哋就要搬去99間屋,依家都驚緊呀...
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ac321


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7#
發表於 09-1-21 14:48 |只看該作者
It is because she is living in her 99's flat.
i.e. her 99 visite her won flat........

原帖由 Melody_Che 於 09-1-21 14:33 發表
點解唔叫老公開口同99講要黎一定要打電話先呢?? 依d係禮貌, 尊重別人
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ac321


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8#
發表於 09-1-21 14:49 |只看該作者
If I am your 99, I will do the same =>況且99佢一早講佐話唔駛打電話，但係冇要求我同意. Your 99 don't need your 同意 when she visit her flat.

原帖由 heymom 於 09-1-21 14:41 發表


我c6好驚佢屋企人，一講即係反面，況且99佢一早講佐話唔駛打電話，但係冇要求我同意。
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ac321


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9#
發表於 09-1-21 14:51 |只看該作者
It is difficult for her husband to 強硬......
If he do that, her mother (99) may ask them to move out!

原帖由 mother904 於 09-1-21 14:38 發表
結婚前我已經同c6講明唔可以俾鎖匙99，佢俾幾多次我換幾多次鎖...

有時我覺得真係要好強硬咁表明立場，男人先會認真處理問題。
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ac321


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10#
發表於 09-1-21 14:52 |只看該作者
Never do that. It is because you are depend on your 99 now........

原帖由 Melody_Che 於 09-1-21 14:46 發表
你老公唔尊重你, 又怕佢屋企人, 可唔可以發佢一次脾氣, 令佢知道你係幾反感呀??
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asd1234


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11#
發表於 09-1-21 14:52 |只看該作者
好簡單之麻, 話最近新年,治安唔好,所以你鎖了個門,咪得law.
我亞媽都有我家門匙,她和我住得好近,
她都是不按鐘就入來的了,情況和你一樣,
有時和老公要搞D私人事,
咪鎖門先,費時佢無啦啦入咗間屋都唔知.

唔好咁煩啦,好易解決,鎖好門就得了.
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mother904


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12#
發表於 09-1-21 14:58 |只看該作者
原帖由 ac321 於 09-1-21 14:51 發表
It is difficult for her husband to 強硬......
If he do that, her mother (99) may ask them to move out!



所以我成日話，唔好貪男家有乜有物，有時拎左著數就要付出代價，雖然係好可能根本就唔想要佢地既著數，好似樓主咁，99一早買定樓等個仔結婚，根本就無得反對。

唯有勸樓主睇開些少。
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juicypig


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13#
發表於 09-1-21 15:04 |只看該作者
我同我奶奶感情好好,,,但我相信我都唔能夠接受佢自出自入囉
一個人之所以快樂,不是因為她擁有得多, 而是因為她計較得少
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ac321


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14#
發表於 09-1-21 15:04 |只看該作者
Yes, she can choose not live in that flat.
However, she said that: 我已經唔想再忍啦！又無能力搬走，都唔知可以點做？
i.e. They 拎左著數 already in those years.... and will continuous 拎著數 (live in 99's flat). That's why she always worry about her 99.....
The only solution is: move out, and don't 拎著數 from your 99 anymore.

P.S. I won't buy a flat for my son even I am rich when he get marry 2x years later. It is because I know that my daughter in law will never thanks for me (and keep complain about me).


原帖由 mother904 於 09-1-21 14:58 發表


所以我成日話，唔好貪男家有乜有物，有時拎左著數就要付出代價，雖然係好可能根本就唔想要佢地既著數，好似樓主咁，99一早買定樓等個仔結婚，根本就無得反對。

唯有勸樓主睇開些少。 ...
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ac321


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15#
發表於 09-1-21 15:09 |只看該作者
me too =>我都唔能夠接受佢自出自入

Therefore, when I share living expenses with my husband (when we got marry), I chose to pay the mortgage and my husband pay for other living expenses.
It is because when my 99 ask my husband for our key........
99: I want your key. I am your mother and you should give me a set of your key.
husband: Sorry, the mortgage is paid by my wife. If you want the key, you should ask her. I am no 'right' to do that.
me: Sorry, it is my flat. I pay for it. Therefore, I won't give the key to other unless he share the mortgage with me!

Until now, my 99 haven't got my key.

原帖由 juicypig 於 09-1-21 15:04 發表
我同我奶奶感情好好,,,但我相信我都唔能夠接受佢自出自入囉

[ 本帖最後由 ac321 於 09-1-21 15:10 編輯 ]
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502


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16#
發表於 09-1-21 15:17 |只看該作者
一句说话 - 因为你们住在6299间屋！

只有间屋是自己买的， 你才有权换锁！
:-D :-D :-D :-D
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heymom


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17#
發表於 09-1-21 16:16 |只看該作者
原帖由 ac321 於 09-1-21 14:49 發表
If I am your 99, I will do the same =>況且99佢一早講佐話唔駛打電話，但係冇要求我同意. Your 99 don't need your 同意 when she visit her flat.


我都好同意99佢係"she visit her flat"這個道理，唔係都唔會忍到幾年。已計畫請工人，之後會做反野，希望到時D情緒會好D，但這過度期真係好難捱。
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bonnie1103c


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18#
發表於 09-1-21 16:19 |只看該作者
雖然間屋係你同你 C6 住緊 , 但係係你 6299 買ge , 所以你 6299 就覺得你地冇權唔比佢來 , 佢來亦都唔需要通知你 , 因為間屋係佢 ge , 所以樓主你如果你做緊野 or 唔想佢來 , 你可以反鎖 , 你 99 如果問 , 你就話換緊 cloth or 沖緊涼 ,
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19#
發表於 09-1-21 16:30 |只看該作者
鬼叫間屋係佢買,佢話Q之你啦!
佢梗係覺得自己有權喺度自出自入,間屋係佢既,駛咩問過你!
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ac321


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20#
發表於 09-1-21 16:40 |只看該作者
You are lucky...........
Your 99 bought a flat for you 2 when you married.
You should thanks for your 99.

If you want to have your own flat (family), then you should work hard and earn more $.
However, you will loss a lot of time to stay with your kids. Just like a lot of mothers here, they work outside everyday and miss a lot of 'pictures' of the growth of their kids. They have no choice. It is because their 99 haven't bought a flat for them. And they should work hard to earn their life. Some are more worst........ like me, we need to pay for 2 flats (families), one for my 99's flat/family (share with other son) and one for ourself!!!!!!!!

If my 99 bought a flat for us, I will said 10000 thanks for her......... I don't mind she 隨時可以開門入屋企 as it is her flat => impossible la!!!!!

If she don't need my husband pay for her flat/family, I will said 100 thanks for her......... => day dream!!!!! Forget it!!!!!!!






原帖由 heymom 於 09-1-21 16:16 發表


我都好同意99佢係"she visit her flat"這個道理，唔係都唔會忍到幾年。已計畫請工人，之後會做反野，希望到時D情緒會好D，但這過度期真係好難捱。 ...
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