I think every 99 is the same. We moved out for more than a year. Usually she will come over when I am not home. So when she came over and I am home she would just stay for a short time. And she ask my bun bun what did we do, where did we have dinner, did I go back to my parents' place etc etc. I don't understand why she has to spy on us. She just has nothing better to do and have to mind the other ppl business. And one time, my c6 heard my 99 asking my bun bun again for where did we have dinner, my c6 said "why didn't you ask me directly?" then she said, "nothing, I just wanna know.". Then my c6 said, "then you should ask my directly rather then asking my bun bun!" Then my 99 was so angry and said "you only care about your wife's family!!!" then she stormed out the door.....I dunno what usually she will ask my bun or what my bun tell her, but this just made me mad since why she have to judge or control our lifestyle???