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at777777


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Re: 有無全職爸爸?希望各位分享經驗.

[size=medium]1. 做一個全職爸爸比一個女人做全職媽咪好一倍
2. 做半職爸爸仲辛苦
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Re: 有無全職爸爸?希望各位分享經驗.

chanellis,

加油ar!! 我都係第一次見有爸爸咁"愛"個仔女咋!! (可能我
見識得少啦~~ ha ha)

我睇完你o既message....... 我都有o的愧!! 因我愈來愈忍
受唔到個仔o感反叛!! 佢哩牌突然好唔聽話, 所以我成日都
後悔生o左佢出o黎........... :-( 係唔係我唔夠母愛呢??
最慘係我蝦子餅佢完全唔會分擔BBo既o野!! 我拖緊地, 叫
佢同BB換片, 佢都寧願話佢幫我拖地, 叫我去換片~~
佢都唔多理BBo的o野, 有陣時我覺得好似自己孤身作戰
o感!!

點解你o地可以對個BB充滿愛!????

可能我同蝦子餅本來都唔想生BB............ 所以........
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Re: 有無全職爸爸?希望各位分享經驗.

chanellis:
你好偉大呀!我覺我得做全職爸爸真係需要好大勇氣!
我之前做個份工時間長壓力又大,老闆又成日鬧我,做得好唔開心,又成日開OT,.(OT又係 無錢!!).回家已很晚,返到屋企,仔仔又係呆呆地,又鍾意同工人玩多過我,雖然我好鍾意返工,但衡量得失,結果我自己唔做,全職做"師奶"
現在仔仔學野又快,又同我日日去公園玩,都幾開心呀,雖然冇錢使,但做人最緊要開心,好過搵到錢但個仔蠢過人呀!
努力呀!雖然我唔係男士,但願我們全職daddy,媽咪一起全力以赴!!!
臭B生活照>.<得閒入嚟睇吓啦!
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發表於 04-7-6 16:22 |只看該作者

Re: 有無全職爸爸?希望各位分享經驗.

再次多謝各位支持!!!我會努力!!
對不起o甘耐先回應大家!! 因為公司又忙,湊仔又忙,沒有時間上綱,連太太也催促我早d回應.
上星期終於放了幾日假期,因太太有事,所以BB由我湊.現在才知道全職媽媽好叻!!
個仔唔扭計還可以,好似喂奶,換尿片,沖涼等等, 絕無問題. 但星期六那天早上打了混合針(4個月,第三針),回家好地地,飲完奶奶,之後睡覺. 下午醒來就弊啦!!喊到唔停,又抱又氹都攪唔掂.check 過身溫正常.總之論盡!!
個仔平時好像小暖爐,加上那日又熱,抱著他時真覺做了蒙古皇帝(大汗加小汗,其實有開冷氣!),父子全身汗.但想放他落床,又喊!如事者,喊了個多小時.慢慢才肯飲奶.唔喊. 我想可能bb打針後不舒服.

有時聽到一些朋友說何必要生bb,辛苦照顧他長大,倒不如兩口子生活,愉快得多.以前我也這樣認為.但自有我們的孩子後,體會不同了.照顧他雖然辛苦,但是看著他每天的成長和發展,由只可睡在床上到現在可轉身,坐起,伸手拿東西,其實他帶給太太和我很多歡樂. 我常對太太說我的心情如台灣民歌"蘭花草"(胡適的詩)一樣,對孩子又擔心又盼望.
另一方面,孩子也可令父母增加知識, 好像買甚麼奶粉,怎樣換片,育嬰護理等等...無孩子怎會去學?我們這一代人在這一方面比不上上一代父母,好多知識開始失傳.人一生缺少了這環節, 就不圓滿!!

我很同意PY337的想法",雖然冇錢使,但做人最緊要開心,好過搵到錢但個仔蠢過人呀!"

+MaMiAKiRA+不要氣餒!! 其實我佩服像你一 樣的媽媽,可以人一個人照顧BB, 你從上述就知我仲是一新手爸爸.有好多方面請教你!!

在這裡想請教各位, 我的BB現4個月大 , 16磅多, 由3個月開始飲少了奶,以前每次可以一口氣飲180ml,每日飲4至5次,但現在幾經糾纏,扭盡六壬,也只能令他飲到100ml,有時仲少,每日飲4次, 已試過一房獨處,安靜環境,亦不成功,
另外BB曾經大便有少少血, 醫生說是飲水少, 所以大便硬,請問有無辦法??

希望各位媽媽及爸爸多多指教!!!多謝!!!

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發表於 04-7-9 12:52 |只看該作者

Re: 有無全職爸爸?希望各位分享經驗.

hi!chanellis
我是個全職媽媽,大家都係沙田友!首先我真係要讚你一句"你好勁呀!"你不但有勇氣,而且有許多男性少有的細心和耐性!我一定支持你!"奸爸爹"!!!


我個女又係由3個月開始飲少了奶,醫生話係厭奶期,但我個女一厭就厭到而家!(佢鍾意食固體食物多d)我諗個個bb唔同,但你千萬唔好逼佢(幾經糾纏,扭盡六壬),只會使厭奶期拖長,其實佢4個月大,你可以俾固體食物佢試下,咁就算佢飲少了奶都唔怕唔夠營養啦!
另外BB曾經大便有少少血,(我個女而家都係咁)但佢飲好多水,但食生果少,你也可以俾果汁你個bb飲 大家努力

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發表於 04-7-13 14:33 |只看該作者

Re: 有無全職爸爸?希望各位分享經驗.

Hi chanellis,

Parenting is a hard work. You are doing a great job! You are great! I pick up some information about your baby 4 months old for your reference:

What's It Like to Be 5 Months Old? (Baby's development)
How I Grow
I rock, roll, and twist my body.
I kick my feet and suck my toes.
I keep my head and back straight when I sit, if you support my body.
I stand up (if you hold me under my arms), jump up and down, and stamp my feet.
I have pretty good aim when I grab something.

How I Talk
I watch your mouth and try to imitate you when you talk to me.
I make sounds like "ee, ah, ooh, da-da, byebye, ma-ma."
I babble to myself, to my toys, and to people-I get attention that way!

How I Respond
I may cry when I see strangers.
I smile at familiar faces and voices.
I look around when I hear sounds.
I make sounds and interrupt your conversations because I want attention.
I want to touch, hold, turn, shake, and taste everything.
I put a lot of energy into everything I do.

How I Understand
I recognize my name.
I can tell the difference between myself and others in the mirror.
I am beginning to learn about my feelings.
I look for something if I drop it.
I remember what I just did.

How I Feel
I cling to you when you hold me.
I stop crying when you talk to me.
I show fear, anger and disgust.

About Feeding (4 months old):
Introducing Solid Foods
"Babies used to be given solids before they were a month old," says Dr. Sue Snider, University of Delaware Extension food and nutrition specialist. "But we now know that this frequently causes allergic reactions. In addition, an infant's suckand-swallow reflex makes it difficult to actually eat much solid food at an early age."
Between four and six months, most infants are able to sit up alone. By then they usually have developed control of their neck muscles. Being able to do this indicates a readiness to eat from a spoon, and solids can be introduced. This is an important time to talk with your doctor about infant feeding.
Consider these suggestions when your baby is ready for solids:
Iron-fortified cereals are the first solid foods introduced in the diet because a baby's increasing need for iron can't be met by milk. Dr. Snider says these cereals are usually non-wheat to guard against possible allergic reactions.
Gradually add other cereals, then vegetables and fruits. Strained vegetables or fruit juices are often added when Baby is about 6 or 7 months old. Strained fruits and strained meats are usually included at about 8 or 9 months.
Start with small amounts-one teaspoon per day-and only one new food a week. Watch for signs of allergy, such as rash, diarrhea, or vomiting. Temporarily discontinue that food if any of these signs appear. If there are allergies in your family, your doctor may suggest delaying the introduction of wheat, eggs and dairy products.
The first feedings will probably be messy. Don't forget, your baby has only been used to sucking up to now. But she will soon learn to swallow solids. With a little patience, you can help your baby learn to eat and to like different foods.
Don't feed your infant honey, even on a pacifier, until he is at least a year old. Bacterial spores found in honey can grow in an infant's gastro-intestinal tract and cause botulism-an illness that has been associated with sudden infant death syndrome. When babies grow older, they produce enough stomach acid to destroy the spores of this organism.
Pediatricians differ in their opinions as to when fruit juices should be added to infant's diets. They generally agree, however, that to prevent tooth decay, fruit juices should not be given from a nursing bottle.
To make swallowing easier, place food well inside your baby's mouth. Food placed in the front of the mouth will be pushed out by the tongue before it can be swallowed.
Some pediatricians advise that strained meats be added to the diets of breast-fed infants at about six months of age. This is because the protein content of mother's milk gradually decreases.
Babies have a keen sense of taste and some show very definite, but changeable, food preferences. Present each food with a positive attitude. If something you've prepared is rejected, don't take it personally. Serve it again a few weeks later, and he may like it. Relax-let your baby develop his food preferences based on many experiences with nourishing, simply-prepared foods.

About Health:
Get Some Helpful Tips on Making that Medicine Go Down
Before You Start
It's no treat to wrestle a squirmy, inconsolable child to get three drops of medicine into him. But when your baby is sick, medicine is often a must. Here are some effective techniques that can make your job a little easier in helping the medicine go down.
Make sure you're measuring the right amount. Over-the-counter and prescription medicine for babies comes in "infant drops," which are usually prescribed in milliliters (ml) or cubic centimeters (cc), or in a liquid or "elixir" form that's measured in teaspoons (tsp). To measure, use the dosing instrument that comes with the bottle, or use one of the tools available at your local pharmacy.
Administering Methods
There are several different ways to get the medicine down the hatch. Deciding which one can depend on your baby's age, his feeding style, and the medicine itself. Here are your options:
A calibrated syringe: This method gives you the most control. Insert the syringe between baby's gum and cheek, which will make it harder for her to spit the liquid out.
Your baby's bottle: Detach the nipple with its collar from baby's bottle and let her suck on it; then use a syringe to squirt medicine into the nipple. As baby sucks, she'll swallow the liquid.
Medicine dropper: When using a medicine dropper, it will help to have the baby sitting up with his head tilted back so the medicine can go straight down the hatch. Use an infant seat for kids younger than 9 months, or sit an older baby in his stroller or high chair.
Spoon: For kids who are 1 year or older, try a hollow-handled medicine spoon. Hold the spoon up to fill it, then tilt it down and let your child drink the medicine off the spoon's end.
Dos and Don'ts
Ask your doctor whether medicine should be given before or after meals, and if the drug needs to be refrigerated.
Inform your doctor if baby is taking any other medicine -- mixing certain OTC medicines with prescription drugs may not be safe.
Write down what time you administer medicines so you don't get confused.
Don't "double up" on the amount of medicine if you've missed a dose. Skip it, and give your baby the regular amount at the next scheduled time.
Don't store medicine in the bathroom; temperature changes and humidity can affect a drug's stability.
Never give baby medicine without asking your pediatrician first.
What If Your Baby Just Won't Take His Medicine?
These are the next steps:
If your baby is over a year old, try this squirm-free position. Place a syringe filled with the right amount of medicine on a table next to you. Hold your child on your lap, facing you, with her legs on either side of your body, and lean her back on your knees. Her head should fall over the ends of your knees, slightly lower than her body. Use both arms to push hers out of the way, and then support her head with one hand. With the other hand, insert the syringe in between her cheek and teeth, and squirt in a small amount of the medicine while you gently blow on her face. With her head lower than her body and the distraction of your blowing, she'll tend to swallow as a reflex. Continue until the syringe is empty.
Talk to your doctor. She can select a more-concentrated form of the medicine so you'll need to give fewer doses or smaller amounts each time. She can also try to prescribe better-tasting medicines.
Mix the medicine with juice or food. But first ask your doctor if that's okay; some drugs lose their potency when combined with food. Use only a small amount of applesauce or grape juice so you can be sure your child has consumed all the medicine.
If she's old enough to talk, give your child a choice of how she wants to take her medicine. She can pick dropper, spoon, or medicine cup. Sometimes having a little control makes kids more cooperative.

Preventing Shaken Baby Syndrome
The facts about Shaken Baby Syndrome
Shaking an infant can cause brain damage, blindness, mental retardation and even death.
Head trauma is the leading cause of disability and death among abused infants and children. Violent shaking is involved in many of these cases.
Less than half of all Americans are aware that shaking a baby can lead to brain damage and death.
Never, ever shake a baby!
Shaken Baby Syndrome most often occurs when parents or caretakers become angry or frustrated with a child. Instead of shaking your child, try one of these safer ways to handle a crying baby:
Check first to see if the baby is hungry, wet or uncomfortable.
Try giving the baby a pacifier or teething ring.
Take the baby for a walk or ride in the car.
Try hugging, rocking, or carrying the child gently.
If you find yourself getting upset or angry, ask someone trustworthy to watch the baby while you take a break.
If all else fails, leave the baby in a safe place, such as a crib, and step out of the room or outside until you feel more in control.
Play safely!
Occasionally a parent or caretaker causes unintentional harm by playing too roughly, throwing a small child into the air too vigorously, or hitting an infant too hard on the back. Although parents should not be afraid to handle their children, or to let others play with them, they should remember to be gentle.
Always take care when handling a child under. Remember that a young child&iexcl;'s head and neck are especially vulnerable.
Make sure that anyone who cares for your child-grandparents, your boyfriend or girlfriend, babysitters or other relatives -- knows that children should never be shaken for any reason.

About Games:
Smart Baby Activities
Make a lot of eye contact with her.
When talking to your baby you should be always smiling, happy, demonstrative and enthusiastic
Let her know that you are interested with her.
Sing to her as often as possible.
When you notice that she is getting bored, sleepy, or inattentive stop your learning activities or interactions. Give her a break.
Use short and simple sentences.
Notes:
Make your sentences as interesting as possible.
Change your tone, tune, and volume of your voice for emphasis.
Speak slowly. Pause between each phrase or short sentence.
Give her turn to talk with her eyes. You stop talking for one minute or two.
Use a lot of repetition of words or phrases.
Recipe poems or nursery rhyms.
Teach her simple sign language with your fingers, hands, face, and arms.

I-Can-Move-to-Keep-Things-in-Sight Game
Purpose of Game: Teaches your baby to use his body, and to lift his head and part of his upper body when watching a moving object.
How to Play:
1. Put your baby on his stomach and sit facing him.
2. Use a ring of keys, or a box or can filled with buttons or rocks.
3. Dangle the noise-making object in front of your baby's face and say, "Look at the keys."
4. Raise the object slowly in the air to encourage him to lift his head and push up with his hands.
5. Say something like "Follow the keys," or "Keep your eyes on the keys."
6. Watch your baby and see if he can lift his chest off the floor.
Another Eyes-and-Body Game
Move object slowly behind your baby's head. See if he will move around to find the object.

Wiggle Worm Game
When your baby's feet press against a solid surface, she stretches out her legs. This is called the walking reflex. Use this reflex to help your baby practice for crawling.
Learning skills: Motor control; Precrawling exercise; Cause and effect.
What you need: Soft, nonslippery floor surface; Colorful toy.
What to do:
1. Place your baby on a soft floor, on her tummy.
2. Place a colorful toy a few inches from your baby's head and call her attention to it.
3. Sit behind your baby, with your legs or hands pressed against her feet. Your baby will push against the pressure, causing her to propel a few inches forward, toward the toy.
4. Keep moving the toy and pushing against your baby's feet until she has inched forward and covered some ground.
Safety: Be careful not to move your baby too fast. Don't let her get too close to the toy, or she may hit her head against it.

I hope it helps. If you need other information you can email to: [email protected]. Good luck!

Parentingsoft
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Dear parentingsoft,

Thank you very much!! It is very useful to me.Would you pls give me more advise of carrying baby if you have time. :-P :-P
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Re: 有無全職爸爸?希望各位分享經驗.

Hi chanellis,

The following information for your reference:

Baby Talk: How You Help Me Learn
Let me reach for hanging toys and cradle gyms while lying on my back.
Encourage me in play activities that use both eyes and both sides of my body.
Play with me in front of a mirror.
Encourage my babbling, but don't try to "correct" the sounds.
When I figure out how to click my tongue, click your tongue back. I think that's a great game!

Stranger Shyness
At around the age of 4 months, many babies start showing preference for certain people. With members of their immediate family, babies will talk, coo and laugh. But when a stranger (yes, even Grandma!) picks up baby, he may scream and wail. This is normal behavior-and a mark of Baby's intelligence. He's learning that not all people are the same, and he probably just wants to associate with those who he's tested out and found trustworthy.

Make Sure All Toys or Objects Given To Your Baby Are Safe
Here are some thoughts to keep in mind when considering toys for your baby. The National Safety Council recommends that toys should be:
Washable
Large enough so that they won't fit in your baby's mouth, ears or nose
Light enough so they won't cause injury if your baby drops them on himself
Made of non-brittle material (NEVER GLASS)
Here are some suggestions for safety in toys:
Avoid toys with spikes or wires in them.
Make sure toys do not have parts that can catch fingers.
Remove any loose metal squeakers from squeaky toys.
Remove the eyes on stuffed animals if they are loose or pinned on; add your own touch by embroidering eyes on the animal.
Avoid hanging pacifiers or toys from long strings above your baby's bed. They can come loose and get tangled around your baby's neck. Don't hang them around his neck either.
DON'T GIVE PLASTIC BAGS TO YOUR BABY AS PLAYTHINGS!

Child Care Safety Checklist for Parents and Child Care Providers
CRIBS: Make sure cribs meet current national safety standards and are in good condition. Look for a certification safety seal. Older cribs may not meet current standards. Crib slats should be no more than 2 3/8" apart, and mattresses should fit snugly.
This can prevent strangulation and suffocation associated with older cribs and mattresses that are too small.
SOFT BEDDING: Be sure that no pillows, soft bedding, or comforters are used when you put babies to sleep. Babies should be put to sleep on their backs in a crib with a firm, flat mattress.
This can help reduce Sudden Infant Death Syndrome (SIDS) and suffocation related to soft bedding.
PLAYGROUND SURFACING: Look for safe surfacing on outdoor playgrounds - at least 12 inches of wood chips, mulch, sand or pea gravel, or mats made of safety-tested rubber or rubber-like materials.
This helps protect against injuries from falls, especially head injuries.
PLAYGROUND MAINTENANCE: Check playground surfacing and equipment regularly to make sure they are maintained in good condition.
This can help prevent injuries, especially from falls.
SAFETY GATES: Be sure that safety gates are used to keep children away from potentially dangerous areas, especially stairs.
Safety gates can protect against many hazards, especially falls.
WINDOW BLIND AND CURTAIN CORDS: Be sure miniblinds and venetian blinds do not have looped cords. Check that vertical blinds, continuous looped blinds, and drapery cords have tension or tie-down devices to hold the cords tight.
These safety devices can prevent strangulation in the loops of window blind and curtain cords.
CLOTHING DRAWSTRINGS: Be sure there are no drawstrings around the hood and neck of children's outerwear clothing. Other types of clothing fasteners, like snaps, zippers, or hook and loop fasteners (such as Velcro), should be used.
Drawstrings can catch on playground and other equipment and can strangle young children.
RECALLED PRODUCTS: Check that no recalled products are being used and that a current list of recalled children's products is readily visible.
Recalled products pose a threat of injury or death. Displaying a list of recalled products will remind caretakers and parents to remove or repair potentially dangerous children's toys and products.

Help you parenting your baby is our job! Good luck!

Parentingsoft
http://www.parentingsoft.com
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