also, u don't have to agree of the money he wants to offer u and your child now. your lawyer can ask that bastard to fill on a form 'E' to declare both of u and his assets. after u know how much he earns and assets he has, u can then deal with the supporting fee.
he has no right to cut off the helper. but if he really wanted to do so, there is nothing u can do now.
the judge will not accept his idea of putting the child 3-9pm with mummy and then back home with daddy. then again weekends with mummy and back to daddy at Sunday night. cos the judge will think the child will not adapt to this new daily schedule, and the child would be too tried running from one home to another. that bastard is crazy.