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父母問9266係咪比好大壓力比我~? [複製鏈接]

丁丁Kit~

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發表於 08-7-10 18:49 |只看該作者 |倒序瀏覽 |打印

自從個日雙方見完家長之後~
我爸媽都冇講過d乜.我諗係唔想我諗咁多野啦~
但係佢地feel到6299比左好大壓力我~
成日見我唔出聲就問我諗緊乜.關心我~

其實個日見面~
只係係茶樓~
6299已經勁話自己冇錢~
99仲話好多人叫佢一齊做生意佢唔想做~
62又話唔想再返工.好辛苦~
呀62呀.你好耐冇返工啦.你唔係因為冇賭本你又點會咁乖去返工呢?
6299仲講到出口等d仔女比錢養佢地~
等c6行開左就登大對眼望住我~
叫我一定要迫c6讀完大學~
唔好比佢唔讀~

其實c6由搵大學開始佢地已經成日咁樣同我講~
次次都係c6唔係到個時講~
好似方死我唔比c6讀咁~
咁佢咁大個仔識諗架嘛~
唔通真係我叫佢唔讀佢就唔讀咩~?
佢都有腦諗架嘛~

受左佢地成年錢呀.大學呀ga壓力~
因為我最近大左肚~
已經開始頂唔順啦~
諗起都會喊~
之前就唔想比返壓力比c6~
但係尋晚忍唔住~
叫c6同6299講~
唔好再比壓力我啦~
佢地每次同我講個時我都覺得我有左係咪錯?
再係咁落去我真係會忍唔住買機票返大陸姨媽到住~
我已經唔係第一次有呢個諗法架啦~
如果有一日我真係唔出聲走左返大陸~
就證明我真係就黎痴線囉~

我爸媽見完面之後已經好擔心我~
我真係唔敢做個樣出黎比佢地擔心囉~

6299呀.你地都有個女係男家受好大壓力~
你地都會心痛佢同擔心佢啦~
點解你地唔識將心比心呢?
放過我同BB啦好冇?

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Siuchoi

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發表於 08-7-10 22:16 |只看該作者

好老實講, 人地既性格你係改變唔到的, 如果你c6講唔掂你6299, 或者你真係好好孝慮一下行開下, 去第二度養胎, 咁對bb都好D.

長期情緒下跌, 好易有病架~ 要好好保重~ BB最緊要啊!

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moondream3003

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發表於 08-7-11 09:39 |只看該作者

保護自己, 保護BB呀. 加油加油.

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A.C.C.

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發表於 08-7-11 10:53 |只看該作者

對付呢D怪獸，唯一可以做嘅就係避不見面。

如果避到無得避，你就要開始催眠自己，睇唔到聽唔到唔知道佢地講乜做乜，直頭當佢地係空氣。佢地講嘢咩，當風吹；約飲茶咩，當搭枱；打電話來哦你咩，當XX電訊推銷，同佢地講"唔得閒"收線。

做到呢種境界，唔容易架，因為怪獸嘅招數層出不窮，鑊鑊新鮮，而你屋企又唔係怪獸一族，所以佢地D騎呢嘢你好難唔上心......

未練成"睇唔到聽唔到唔知道"呢招絕世奇功之前，你可以當佢地唔係你老公屋企人，而係街坊，你係街見到D咁嘅街坊，只會覺得佢地可笑，而唔會上心。

另外，試下同你媽咪夾下，叫你媽咪開口同老公講，再傳話俾怪獸，你由依家到坐月之後，需要安靜休息，請佢地兩老唔好上你屋企，就算生完BB都係。

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丁丁Kit~

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發表於 08-7-11 13:36 |只看該作者

真係真係好大壓力....
我就連諗起都會想喊~
佢地比說話我聽~
搞到我由有左之後都成日諗係咪我唔岩~
痴線架...佢地再講.我真係會係佢地面前喊~
喊到c6出聲話佢地~
佢地成日都覺得我分薄左c6比佢地d錢~
成日都叫c6讀完大學要養佢地~
鬼唔知養自己父母係天經地義ga事咩~
有錢就緊係會比你啦.但係唔好迫囉~
我而家連買條大肚裙著都要諗過先~
唉...唔見佢地個期我心情真係好好~
但係一見完佢地/收完佢地電話~
我就心情差到爆....
日日都好易喊~
我20號都考試啦.比d空間我溫書好冇~
大住個肚d情緒真係好難控制到....

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ac321

侯爵府

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發表於 08-7-11 14:04 |只看該作者

Do you live with your 62/99?
Do your husband gives $ to your 62 99 now?

原文章由 丁丁Kit~ 於 08-7-11 13:36 發表

真係真係好大壓力....
我就連諗起都會想喊~
佢地比說話我聽~
搞到我由有左之後都成日諗係咪我唔岩~
痴線架...佢地再講.我真係會係佢地面前喊~
喊到c6出聲話佢地~
佢地成日都覺得我分薄左c6比佢地d錢~
成日都叫c6讀完大學要養佢地~
鬼唔知養自己父母係天經地義ga事咩~
有錢就緊係會比你啦.但係唔好迫囉~
我而家連買條大肚裙著都要諗過先~
唉...唔見佢地個期我心情真係好好~
但係一見完佢地/收完佢地電話~
我就心情差到爆....
日日都好易喊~
我20號都考試啦.比d空間我溫書好冇~
大住個肚d情緒真係好難控制到....
...

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KoyeBaby

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發表於 08-7-11 14:22 |只看該作者

唔想自己父母擔心嘅心情我好明白,我都係奉子成婚,我父母都好錫我,突然離開佢哋,我仲要同6299一齊住,佢哋都驚我會受氣,好多時有事我都唔同佢哋講!

但係我覺得你要俾你c6知道佢阿爸阿媽俾好大壓力你,搞到你好唔開心,心情好唔好直接影響個b嘅成長架!如果你屈下屈下屈到抑鬱就好危險啦,你一定要正視呢個問題!!

可能你覺得自己奉子成婚,講嘢無立場所以你6299先會成日俾說話你聽你都唔出聲,某程度上佢哋係想向你宣示權威,要你聽哂佢哋話!!!但係佢哋次次都唔喺你c6面前話你就即係佢哋有避忌,驚自己個仔知道佢哋烚你啦!下次佢哋再叫你一定要迫你c6讀完大學,你不妨同佢哋講"點解你哋會咁諗呀?我從來無叫過c6唔讀喎!係咪佢同你哋講佢唔想讀呀?我陣間話下佢先!"到你c6返嚟你就當住佢哋面問"你唔想讀大學啦?"你c6實話唔係,你跟住就話"6299叫我勸你一定要讀,我以為你唔想讀添..."等你c6知道佢哋同你講過呢d嘢,亦都俾佢哋知道你唔係好蝦!!!

我以前就係太"林",99成日話我呢樣話我嗰樣,又做d我唔鍾意嘅嘢,我都唔出聲忍佢,到我有一次忍唔住向我c6哭訴完,我c6就撐我,為咗個女我亦都唔再忍佢,佢依家講嘢我都當佢透明,再激起我把火就串到佢無聲出!!!你係嫁俾佢個仔咋,唔係賣身俾佢哋做妹仔呀,"受6299氣"呢個item係唔包括喺婚姻度架,尤其是你依家有咗bb唔好成日唔好開心~同你c6分享下你感受啦!!!

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丁丁Kit~

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發表於 08-7-11 15:14 |只看該作者

我同c6都係同我爸媽住~
佢而家又返工又供緊自己讀大學~
連住係我到咁耐都冇比錢我屋企啦~
緊係冇比6299啦~
何況比錢99咪ja係比錢62拎去賭....

原文章由 ac321 於 08-7-11 14:04 發表
Do you live with your 62/99?
Do your husband gives $ to your 62 99 now?

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丁丁Kit~

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發表於 08-7-11 15:18 |只看該作者

我諗我要係6299面前喊出黎先得囉~
一唔係就係c6個家姐面前喊出黎囉~
如果唔係6299係唔會收手囉~
c6成日都覺得個個係佢爸媽.長輩.唔可以咁樣話佢地~
咁我都真係冇計...

原文章由 KoyeBaby 於 08-7-11 14:22 發表
唔想自己父母擔心嘅心情我好明白,我都係奉子成婚,我父母都好錫我,突然離開佢哋,我仲要同6299一齊住,佢哋都驚我會受氣,好多時有事我都唔同佢哋講!

但係我覺得你要俾你c6知道佢阿爸阿媽俾好大壓力你,搞到你好唔開心, ...

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ac321

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發表於 08-7-11 15:38 |只看該作者

Do you get a job?
I know what you feel now............
My husband also 又返工又供自己讀大學 1x years before.
At the same time, he need to pay the mortgage for my 62 99..............
My 99 told him don't wast $ for the university. If he have extra $, he should gave to her (99) and not gave to the gov. (university). She also requested me to stop his son to 讀大學.
My parent borrowed $ (in my name) for him so that he can finished his university degree. And now, my husband treat my parent nice and my 99 always complain about this (compare how we treat difference between my parent and 62 99..........unfair ! )............

Remember that, your 99 have her right to ask money from your husband (son). Even 比錢99咪ja係比錢62拎去賭 it is her business. However, when you earn $ one day, don't forget who treat you nice and who treat you badly!