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Ciaomama

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發表於 04-8-26 23:03 |只看該作者

Re: 妳地去到奶奶屋企,會唔會幫手煮飯或洗碗

I've a very long story to tell. I used to live with my parents-in laws and had a very very hard time. My mum-in-law has a habbit of getting rid of my domestic help. She generally discontented with everything our thai maid did. I used to have to work in a bank for long hour. Afterwork i'll have to run to market for the stuff for dinner. If it was too late (say after 7.00pm) I'd have to go to supermarket to do the shopping. My in-laws were retired and will go out everyday for their own enjoyment, but NEVER help buying the ingredients for dinner. If I don't help the maid to seasons the food and made the dishes, she complained alots (say this is too salty and that has no taste etc etc). I once bought some fresh expensive fish to do the deepfry but I didn't know how to make it nicely, she suspected that I had bought some cheap stuff for the family. In fact who doesn't want to spend some quality time with our old child after a hard days' work? All she did was not trying to help but continuouly ruin the harmony of the family. Now that my husband had had enough of them and we moved out. I realised that life can be so good!! I'm very happy living with my son, husband. The thai maid is doing ok as well. My husband has an elder sister, she married to a man that my in-law didn't like. She lives in overseas now and has NO contact with the family at all - not even a phone call in the new year, not to mention coming back to visit. Now they live alone but they complained about no-one takes care of them. I though- who take care of me then? Wasn't it true that they had a very very easy life then when we lived with them? Did they treasure the time? I put no pressure on my husband because he has had much hard time already. Now a bright new start for me.
Enough for me and thanks for the patience of reading. I am ashame of not knowing how to type chinese. Perhaps it's time to learn.

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carriechan

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發表於 04-8-28 13:58 |只看該作者

Re: 妳地去到奶奶屋企,會唔會幫手煮飯或洗碗

我奶奶從來都唔鍾意煮飯ｋｅ，每次返佢屋企佢都係坐晌梳化度等食，但係我又唔想煮俾佢食，為免佢老人家辛苦同我辛苦，我依家就無再返佢屋企喇！

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pinky_to

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發表於 04-8-28 15:26 |只看該作者

Re: 妳地去到奶奶屋企,會唔會幫手煮飯或洗碗

唔會,因為佢都唔比我幫手...
有左之後連行快dd 都會比佢叫我小心...
不過食前/食後有時都會幫手問台.

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smartlinus

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發表於 04-8-29 22:47 |只看該作者

Re: 妳地去到奶奶屋企,會唔會幫手煮飯或洗碗

唔會.奶奶一家人都好錫我,通常其他新抱做.

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siuso

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發表於 04-8-29 23:10 |只看該作者

Re: 妳地去到奶奶屋企,會唔會幫手煮飯或洗碗

其實我做女時, 係屋企乜都唔使做, 所以咪乜都唔識做.

但做左人新抱係, 禮貌上我都會問下有乜野幫手, 但我奶奶好好人, 冇擺奶奶款, 所以通常都唔使做, 而且我又唔係好識煮飯, 所以一定唔使煮, 至於洗碗, 好似洗左唔多過2次. 我都係幫下手開飯和執碗囉.

siuso

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damiergirl

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發表於 04-8-30 01:29 |只看該作者

Re: 妳地去到奶奶屋企,會唔會幫手煮飯或洗碗

我幫手執碗佢都叫我唔好整污糟對手, 洗碗唔比洗, 執碗一定做 :mrgreen: :mrgreen: :mrgreen:

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kityi39

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發表於 04-8-30 19:27 |只看該作者

Re: 妳地去到奶奶屋企,會唔會幫手煮飯或洗碗

煮飯就未必會, 但洗碗就會幫手,
我應為洗碗比較易d!

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YokoLai

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發表於 04-9-3 19:30 |只看該作者

Re: 妳地去到奶奶屋企,會唔會幫手煮飯或洗碗

雖然同奶奶唔係好感情，但見佢煮得咁辛苦，以前我多數都會幫佢洗嫁！點知有次我老公都覺得，佢d屋企人唔幫佢呀媽洗，次次要我洗咪同佢地嘈囉！(o個時我地未結婚嫁！)之後我奶奶就自己洗，叫我出去座........有時佢大嫂都會幫手洗，但佢家姐同二佬個女友就......，到左我地結左婚都係久唔時幫佢洗到一次，所以我同老公有時都寧願出街食，每人一份起碼唔洗佢咁辛苦丫嘛！

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monalam

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發表於 04-9-4 07:20 |只看該作者

Re: 妳地去到奶奶屋企,會唔會幫手煮飯或洗碗

煮飯或洗碗都無幫手, 我奶奶吾使我做,煮飯我煮得無奶奶咁好食架, 碗佢自己洗, 佢話吾使我洗, 我剩係試過洗一次, 果次我奶奶好吾舒服.

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Eunise

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發表於 04-9-4 10:46 |只看該作者

Re: 妳地去到奶奶屋企,會唔會幫手煮飯或洗碗

好彩奶奶有工人....從來都唔洗我做任何野...最正既係..我又唔洗扮 '好新抱'去做家務...

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