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sabinacsh


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發表於 04-8-19 13:28 |只看該作者

寶寶不親自己了﹗

我的小BB是交給我先生的媽媽及爸爸顧的，以前，在很多人的時候，小BB都會只看著我的，但現在他沒有看我，看其它人，而且會很開心地玩、笑呢﹗若他看我，便會好像不耐煩的在叫，要我抱他。我以為是否我要上班工作，少親近他才會這樣子。但後來，發現他也會很愛對著他父親時，我才覺得很傷心呢，同樣大家都要上班，下班後才能看他的，為什麼他不會這樣子對我呢﹖每次他看著我都在不耐煩地叫，我抱他才會停止的。

我已經一回去抱他、幫他洗澡及跟他同睡了，為什麼會這樣子呢﹖
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發表於 04-8-19 17:01 |只看該作者

Re: 寶寶不親自己了﹗

我個女由細到大(差不多3歲)都係鐘意PAPA多D﹐我以前都有唔開心﹐但而家就無勒﹗我每日都係負責同佢沖涼﹐刷牙﹐唱歌﹐講故事﹐而家佢已經錫多左我LU﹐但都係錫PAPA多D﹐算啦﹗我自己諗﹐個女大大下都一定錫MAMA多D﹐而家比D機會老公﹐遲D就到佢想痴都無得痴LU。
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sabinacsh


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發表於 04-8-19 20:06 |只看該作者

Re: 寶寶不親自己了﹗

我看到很回應，原來大家都有這個問題，可以分享下，人都會開心d了。謝謝您﹗
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發表於 04-8-19 23:37 |只看該作者

Re: 寶寶不親自己了﹗

其實我都係一樣, BB 只係跟我老公同個工人, 而對我就一
D 反應都無, 只係識向我發脾氣, 我已經一有時間就陪佢, (因我都係在職媽媽),結果亦是一樣, 仲要成日俾奶奶話我失敗, 真係好唔公平同激氣.

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發表於 04-8-20 02:06 |只看該作者

Re: 寶寶不親自己了﹗

做媽咪就是咁煩的,bb唔跟自己會好唔開心,bb太跟自己又好煩.各位姊妹,最緊要令自己做個開心靚媽咪.
我個囡是我幫她洗,一回家就同她玩,陪她睡,但她始終一起身就要找daddy.成日都要陪我老公做野,只是睡覺要我.我就樂觀d去想.同我老公講"嗱!而家你有多條女要追,追到你老,追到你死.唔洗想出去作反,你溝到這條女才算.
做媽咪其實要全能,就算你是全職,都要付出很多比家庭.
唉!唉!唉! :exclaim: :exclaim:
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發表於 04-8-20 19:05 |只看該作者

Re: 寶寶不親自己了﹗

他是不是你的兒子啊?
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發表於 04-8-23 09:47 |只看該作者

Re: 寶寶不親自己了﹗

angelultima

I'm exactly the same situation as yours. BB only needs my maid and husband. She refused me to feed her even my maid is on holiday. She does not drink milk until my maid comes back home. I'm a bit worried if my maid resigns, I really don't know what to do.

Last night, I was extremely upset and couldn't sleep well. It's because my baby cried when my maid was trying to feed her. Then, my husband and I made funny faces to cheer her up. I pretended to "hit" my husband to make her laugh. All in a sudden, she cried loudly and couldn't stop. We told her that we were just playing, it's not true. Then, she stopped crying. My husband pretended to hit me but this time, she laughed. I was very upset.

After she finished the milk, I carried her and told her again I didn't hit her daddy. However, she cried loudly again and refused my carry. My maid then pampered her and made her facing me. However, the baby turned her face to my maid's body, just wanted to escape from watching me. No matter what I said to her, she still moved her head somewhere else. I was really hurt.

What have I done wrong? I care about her all the times. I worried about her when she was sick. I rush home everyday after my work. I carry 6 cans of milk powder and two bags of diapers by myself all the times.

Why does she do this to me? Why didn't I get her love? :cry: :cry: :cry:
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sabinacsh


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發表於 04-8-23 13:29 |只看該作者

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loumaomao,

Don't upset! I think that your BB still know you are mom. My friend told me that it is a process. Be patient!
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發表於 04-8-24 00:35 |只看該作者

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我都係一個呷醋媽媽, 雖然我個囡都算好痴我, 但我記得佢細個得3個月大個陣, 如果我同工 人平排咁坐係度, 而泳泳(我個囡)係望住個工人笑而唔係我的話, 我就會細細力拉住BB隻腳一路向下拉, 等佢的視線剩係可以望到我唯只.
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發表於 04-8-24 11:34 |只看該作者

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My bb also donont want me only want maid. Sometime even bit me if I want to kiss her or hold her. Hai, what can I do? I have to work. I hope when she is bigger she will know I am her mother and the most love her one.
Hi, there are 2 happy bbs in our happy family. Let's become good friends!!! :-P :-) :-P :-P
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發表於 04-8-24 19:38 |只看該作者

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Hello,

My bb love to stick with maid, play with daddy, hide at the back of my mother-in-law (99) when doing something wrong but nothing special with me.

My 99 said all the children are like that, they know who is the mother - the one who loves them most, so they will argue with you, against you, do not smile at you, because they know that you will forgive them all the time. 99 said: BB will only find mother when they are sick and sacred from nightmares.

Don't worry wor, many friends of mine said their bb forgot about the maid when grew up and they will know who loves them most, if the mother is really love her.

Anthea

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發表於 04-8-24 22:34 |只看該作者

Re: 寶寶不親自己了﹗

loumaomao,
我都有問過人, 呢個係過度期, 等佢大D 就會變kar la!
其實, 可能我成日罵佢同咩都say "NO", 所以佢咪唔跟我
LAW. 而家我已經少O左罵佢, 情況又好似好D, (雖然都唔係太大改變) 希望大家都學習忍耐, 互勉之!!!
:lol:
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發表於 04-8-25 10:18 |只看該作者

Re: 寶寶不親自己了﹗

angelultima

don't be so unhappy, I've got the same experience with you before. I think this is the effect of hormone (yourself) and is a temporarily stage of every bb. don't give up and try to play and sing with your bb more. as I'm a working mom, I play and sleep with my b at night, if he cries, i'll carry him to the window side to see the street and calm him. i've taken one or two weeks to get my b to 'learn' that he should follow my pattern. in fact, it's really a hard time
be patient! support you, I believe that your b will love to play and see you after this 'crucial' stage!
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Re: 寶寶不親自己了﹗

twg,

Thank you so much! You really gave me support and
I feel better now la!
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發表於 04-8-27 00:09 |只看該作者

Re: 寶寶不親自己了﹗

loumaomao,

Fully understand your situation. I recalled that when I was taking maternity leave, just the first two months, my baby wants the maid more than me. Sometimes she cried for a long time, I was holding her, she's still crying. But if the maid held her, she stopped.

After I returned to work, I spent all my non-working hours with her, took her bath, fed her milk, made her sleep. I just didn't want her to "stick" with the maid too much. So, during holiday, I will try to bring the bb out alone. It's a hard time as you have to bring many things but let the bb rely on you only. It will build up a relationship and bb will wholely depend on you during that period.

It takes time. Be patient! Your relationship is buidling bit by bit daily. For sure you will get your return later.
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