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發表於 04-9-9 14:05 |只看該作者

Teacher said my son hit the other kids

What should I do :-( :-( :-(

Although teacher said he has improved im the past two days (able to stop him before he really hit someone and feel/say sorry afterwards) but already received complaint from the kid's parent which make me really feel bad.

He is actually a happy child loves to play with elder kids but doesn't like to play or I should say has problems with kids at his same age especially for those quiet ones. We have been teaching him to share and play with other when we have a chance...while he has a chance to play with other children such as in a large toy shop and he is pretty ok after we have explained to him.

About 2 months ago he was hitted quite hard by an older kid in a park and from that day onward he always tell me that "Gor Gor" hit tummy.

I am not trying to say my son is always right but he might not be the one to start hitting or he just fight back.

He is the only child at home and rarely have chance to play and share toys with others.

I want to help him but what should I do. Please could you give me some advise. :-( :-( :-(
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發表於 04-9-9 17:36 |只看該作者

Re: Teacher said my son hit the other kids

可否叫老師同你夾下,說教之餘,如那天他沒打人,誇張D稱讚佢,1week都沒打人送個貼子之類的小禮物(你買定比老師),吾知work吾work呢。


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發表於 04-9-9 17:57 |只看該作者

Re: Teacher said my son hit the other kids

Thank you for your suggestion. I will call the teacher next week see if my son improves and suggest to her about the "rewards" programme.
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發表於 04-9-9 18:22 |只看該作者

Re: Teacher said my son hit the other kids

另外,問下老師有冇D野比佢負責做,如我仔的班主任,安排學生每周輪流負責幫老師提取及交還點名book到校務處,如你仔校有這類duty,同佢講乖至有得做,咁人地做一week,而你仔吾再打人continue做2weeks,佢會感到自己乖被重視,呢份憂越感仲好過打人啦,仲係其他同學的榜樣....。

而且你propose比老師,老師起碼覺得你好有心改善他的行為,萬一有家長向佢complain你仔,佢都企係你嗰邊,安撫他們,不致你&仔太難"hum"。


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發表於 04-9-9 18:27 |只看該作者

Re: Teacher said my son hit the other kids

He is in K1, 3 years old and I don't see teacher will assign him for some special mission, I will check with the teacher and ask for her recommendations if he keeps on hitting other child.

Basically I don't think he is really hitting just sometime he wants to take somebody's toy or he doesn't want to give his toy to other child. I understand that he need to learn share and care and that's why I am worry.
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發表於 04-9-9 18:58 |只看該作者

Re: Teacher said my son hit the other kids

咁呢個問題都好common,我仔都有其他問題,大家都比多少少耐性教lor。


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發表於 04-9-9 19:51 |只看該作者

Re: Teacher said my son hit the other kids

I know, but just worrying that the teacher some how will identify him troublesome and dislike him.
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發表於 04-9-10 12:29 |只看該作者

Re: Teacher said my son hit the other kids

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發表於 04-9-10 14:31 |只看該作者

Re: Teacher said my son hit the other kids

Thanks Hei&Ching,

My son is exactly a copy of your daughter. He loves to communication and play with kids very much would expect immediate response from a kid that he wish to play or communication with that's why he has problems with kids at his age because they might not able to give him immediate response he will even sometime he will scare other kids while he was trying to give them a hug or shake hand.

I always tell him to be gentle while trying to get attention from children whenever there is a chance and he is quite ok with this.

I shall try explaining the situation with his teacher the next time when we will talk on the phone hoping that she would willing to work something out to have this problem solved.
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