A case for my friend, she is also a 受害者.
她在evening school 認識了一男子, 他為人唔錯, 一起了好幾個月. 他從來無提屋企的事, 有時同我個friend 去街到半夜兩三點. 後來, 我朋友開始多問他私人生活的事, 開始覺得怪怪地, 他似避而不談, 後來發現點解他手機從來唔響 (可能已關機), 一響就按關機--話打錯. 太約半年, 在我朋友追問下, 他承認已有老婆, 還有孩了, 但話已經無感情, 活得很辛苦........
我朋友struggle a few months, at the end, she left him. She believed her wife never knows her husband has a girlfriend outside for a few months. And we think, my friend may not the first girl he stay with.
If you found your husband so strange, you see how to ask him or follow him silently.
I have another case :
At the beginning, her husband did business in China,.....then seldom went back HK and did not pay for children's 生活費. Her husband finally admitted he has a second wife in China. Then, divorced at the end.
若你要知真相, 請有心理準備. 有時真相好恐怖!!!! 可能選擇做個無知婦人較好.
祝你好運