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大宅

積分: 1935

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發表於 04-10-27 10:31 |只看該作者

有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

Hi, 我快要返工了, 我老公決定將BB交比奶奶揍, 故現在奶奶己經搬來我家住.
但由於大家生活習慣不同, 難免會有拗交; 而且, 她不接受我們揍B的一套; 當抱着BB時, 只顧抱着他而又不和他玩; 我已多次要求她多點和BB說一些有意義的說話, 但她依然故我。
請問有冇人遭遇和我一樣呢? 你怎去應付呢? 可否和我交流一下。
謝謝


水晶宮

積分: 51182


2#
發表於 04-10-27 11:26 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

Lok-Lok

我仔仔又係比奶奶揍,我地又係同奶奶一齊住,奶奶同我地揍仔方法係唔同,我同你一樣又係要返工,你bb依家幾大呀


大宅

積分: 1935

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3#
發表於 04-10-27 12:28 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

Hin_BB,

我BB現在2個月大了,佢鍾意人同佢講嘢;但奶奶只抱住佢,有時BB唔鍾意,就喊囉!都唔知點樣同奶奶講,她才會接受我哋的一套?


水晶宮

積分: 51182


4#
發表於 04-10-27 12:52 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

Lok-Lok

你試下叫你老公同你奶奶講,你奶奶可能會聽


別墅

積分: 958


5#
發表於 04-10-27 15:32 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

你地就好啦!有奶奶幫手!!!我奶奶重來無問過bb會比邊個揍.而我同老公都知佢性格..所以都無求佢揍bb..(bb一o咸奶奶就即刻比返我抱..你估佢會唔會幫手)唉!!!自己生o的.人地未必要幫你!!所以我都係揾我媽咪的朋友揍過夜..11月我要返工!咁就要母子分離啦! 真係唔捨得! 我真係好羨慕你地!就算奶奶點疼壞..都好過驚擔工人唔知點對bb呀!!(所以唔請工人)
如果奶奶唔係咁過份就忍得就忍啦.或者都係宛轉o的同佢講啦!除非你唔驚佢"炒你尤魚"啦 :mrgreen:


男爵府

積分: 6788

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6#
發表於 04-10-27 17:49 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

loklok
你好,我個女都差唔多兩個月,我都就離返工呀,我會交比我呀媽揍及有一個印印幫手.其實老人家的揍仔方法與我們好唔同,例如,bb喊唔好抱佢,但我立


大宅

積分: 1935

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7#
發表於 04-10-27 18:48 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

Maymei,
你都說得對的,比奶奶揍,總好過交比其他人,因始終都是自己人。

May123,
多謝你的分享。


大家一齊努力吧!


別墅

積分: 835


8#
發表於 04-10-27 19:33 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

我都係十一月返工啦, 我囡囡將會比我媽媽揍過夜, 真係好唔捨得, 但又唔敢請工人揍 (驚佢對BB 唔好), 無法啦要搵食.


男爵府

積分: 9822

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9#
發表於 04-10-27 23:26 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

Lok-Lok ,
我亞b都係比奶奶揍,都不知幾多問題出現, 她完全不接受我們揍B的一套, 講又唔聽, 激死我


民房

積分: 27


10#
發表於 04-11-1 17:47 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

Definately right!
You cant bear the risk to trust "bunbun"

At first, i was thinking too much and always over analytical, sensitive...stuff like that... I didnt agree the way Lai Lai to look after my B. Many many...

But now, my B is 14 months... and he is healthy.
Just dont thinking too much, it will hurt your relationship between your Lai lai and your husband.

Lai Lai also have to pay out her time, spirit and body to look after your baby. She will take a good care to her child, teach the baby how to talk, learn or eat....

On the other hand, Bun bun just care the feeding, no other interactive communication.

Sometimes, i think that I have to rely on her, cant say too much. Just leave it into your heart or talk with your friends.


民房

積分: 27


11#
發表於 04-11-1 17:47 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

Definately right!
You cant bear the risk to trust "bunbun"

At first, i was thinking too much and always over analytical, sensitive...stuff like that... I didnt agree the way Lai Lai to look after my B. Many many...

But now, my B is 14 months... and he is healthy.
Just dont thinking too much, it will hurt your relationship between your Lai lai and your husband.

Lai Lai also have to pay out her time, spirit and body to look after your baby. She will take a good care to her child, teach the baby how to talk, learn or eat....

On the other hand, Bun bun just care the feeding, no other interactive communication.

Sometimes, i think that I have to rely on her, cant say too much. Just leave it into your heart or talk with your friends.


大宅

積分: 4653


12#
發表於 04-11-2 00:19 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

我囡囡都係奶奶湊,佢同我o地一齊住...
不過我都覺得佢唔係幾掂檔,有時好似唔係好clean,
話佢又唔likey,唔出聲我又谷氣...激死
but要返工,無計....
\\(^o^)//


伯爵府

積分: 17542


13#
發表於 04-11-2 09:34 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

我個囡囡今年6歲,返小一之前都是奶奶幫我湊。我地無在一起住,所以"眼不見為乾淨”會好D。

說真的,大家時代唔同,教的方式一定會有很大出入,好彩我姑仔、叔仔同奶奶一起住,他們睇到會出聲,一定好過我尼個“外人”比意見。而我老公都會站出來同奶奶“溝通、溝涌”。

老人家都比較怕小朋友病,所以她都好注重囡囡的身體健康,如有任何清潔問題同她說會生“什麼、什麼”病,她就會注意多些。尤其SARS之後。

囡囡有兩種生活方式:
1)在奶奶家;吃飯慢條斯理;沖涼有全套服務(由取衫、沖涼、洗面、穿衣至吹髮);玩完有人收玩具。
2)在我家,就要全自動。當然,時常都會撒嬌找人幫。

但好在,我對阿囡咁 :evil: ,她都黏著我。


等待驗證會員

積分: 73


14#
發表於 04-11-2 11:51 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

My bb was now taken care by grandma when I am out to work daytime. I will take care BB after around 9pm or on holiday. So, on weekday, I cannot meet BB if he sleeps. I also like to criticise mom-in-law. I am considering to quit the job and my saving can sustain my living for the coming 2-3 year and want to win the attachment with BB. BB is now 5 months old and seems start to like grandma than me. Heart-broken!

Would u mom pls give me some opinion?
Heida


男爵府

積分: 7205


15#
發表於 04-11-2 14:30 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

原本我老公都話要比奶奶湊, 但係我唔想, 好似其它mami咁話, 大家時代唔同, 湊bb o個套一定唔同, 話佢又唔係, 唔話又唔放心, 所以決定請個印印好過, 最多初期叫奶奶過黎睇住個印印做野, 不過點湊bb, 老公應承我一定要個印印聽我地o個套
上次bb滿月全家食完飯, 我地推住bb車, 我奶奶話唔遮實bb會凍, 猛話我老公買架車"come"唔晒個頂, 最後佢同佢家姐(我老公個姨媽)格硬將我地"come"bb個身張被仔遮埋bb個咀, 頂住bb個鼻, 你地話咁點得架, 我幾想問"咁bb點透氣呢 "


男爵府

積分: 6328


16#
發表於 04-11-2 14:58 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

我現在有左六個多月,我都係打算比奶奶湊呀,因為佢講到明要湊,這是佢第一個內孫呀,恨左好耐啦....
所以我地為左慳錢同埋可以成日見到bb,我地搬返去同奶奶住,最重要係奶奶一定要我地搬返去住law....雖然我都好擔心我奶奶湊吾到,因為佢仲要湊我姑奶這個,雖然4歲幾,但都係要麻煩呀....好彩上午我姑奶這個bb要返學,奶奶就可以專心湊我bb,而下午只是睇一段短時間law,我放五點會立即返去睇住自己個bb呀.....講真佢地年紀咁大有時真係睇吾到,而且我姑奶這個好頑皮呀,我怕我bb有咩事....佢地睇少一眼就出事呀......所以我都有點擔心呀


男爵府

積分: 9761


17#
發表於 04-11-2 21:33 |只看該作者

Re: 有冇人將個BB交比奶奶揍?

Hi every mama:

Many mama also feel they don't want their 奶奶揍BB. I have the same feeling too. But my 奶奶 wants to 揍, I already say no, but my grand奶奶 (奶奶個奶奶) just promise her, my daughter will give her after Chinese New Year.

Very unhappy! :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry: :cry:
:-D 我於七月四日在廣華醫院出世 :-D 4/7 = 3.27Kg 13/7 = 3.7Kg 4/8 = 4.2Kg 23/8 = 5Kg

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