SUSANNA: How 痛苦? Mine was OK, as my husband's side are all overseas, so we just had a dinner and get into the main topics. But my sister is going to 雙方家長見面, and according to my sister, the guy's parents are very bad temper. A bit worry for her.
It was unforgetable. At that time my father in law was a 'big man', don't respect woman who hold the family. As my mother and father has devoiced, only my mother and sister will go for meeting, but have 2 nieces to follow as no maid take care of them. Then my so called 'father in law' disageed. He even said if take with the children he would not come. And also my mother heard me talking over the phone with my husband, she even said, if then she would not come out. She sensed that my husband's father was looking her down as no husband at home. Then we didn't go out. Until the day we registered we only had tea in that morning, but said nothing to each other. At that time I found his family was so unreasonable. Heard from husband's mother (revert by husband), his father doesn't like broken family. However this was not woman's fault, that's what they men's problem. Always has '2nd wife' outside.