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~Tammy~

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發表於 04-11-22 14:46 |只看該作者

衰仔"鍊"地~~點算~

我個仔1 1/2 years old~~最近有咩唔如佢意,佢就用新招------>>>"鍊"地~~~各位媽咪可以用咩招對付呀??!!!係唔係唔理佢唔好""乙水"佢就得????

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發表於 04-11-22 15:59 |只看該作者

Re: 衰仔"鍊"地~~點算~

歲半的小朋友可能未必聽得明你講道理，但盡量簡單D話佢
知媽媽唔喜歡你這樣，如果佢"訓曬"落地就立刻話佢知，地下好污髒，好多小強、老鼠……會咬人…嚇下佢，起碼唔好
俾佢"訓地"！

[img]http://www.fopix.net/d/1156209-2/P1011006.JPG[img]

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Summer

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發表於 04-11-24 09:45 |只看該作者

Re: 衰仔"鍊"地~~點算~

Usually kids around that age will do the similar things.

My son has once "鍊"地 before, and I knew it, we were in a shopping mall, I just let him "鍊"地 and even laid down on the floor, but I talked to him, "oh if you really like sleeping on the floor and if it is comfortable to you then lay down for a little while, but to me, I don't feel comfortable, that's why I will not sleep on the floor, I prefer sleeping in my bed. Now, I going to see something interesting - cars. If you are ready, you can join me". Then I start walking away. After a while he stood up and come to me and never do it again.

Let your kid know that his behaviour will not make you mad, otherwise he will keep practising. But it is no good to him.

Try to bring him to some shopping malls for practising, 'cos even if the lay down on the floor, it is much better than he lays down on the floor of the toilet or even on the pedestrian which has cars nearby.

Do remember to take him a bath and wash all his cloths afterall.

good luck.

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發表於 04-11-24 11:54 |只看該作者

Re: 衰仔"鍊"地~~點算~

Tammy
恕我講出教女心得, 係佢2yrs倒, 我地出街見到d人曳, 例如"鍊"地、大哭、食煙、講粗口等不好行為, 我就叫囡囡睇下佢地幾肉(孫), 問佢學吾學, 現在囡囡4yrs, 佢見到人地做不雅行為, 佢都會主動行開, 見到人地食煙仲會掩鼻, 所以"借鏡"呢個方法也不錯, 你試下吧.

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發表於 04-11-24 15:27 |只看該作者

Re: 衰仔"鍊"地~~點算~

~Tammy~,

我個囝同你個囝差不多大, 早排都有以上問題(不過唔係"鍊"地, 而係瞓係地上), 因為佢都叫細, 有d野你同佢講佢都未必明, 我同老公會用以下辦法, 睇下你用唔用得著

1) 在屋企 - 如果佢不滿瞓係地, 我同老公會立刻彈開, 兩個會若無其事, 照傾計.......各樣, 咁個囝無左觀眾, 好快就起身, 無事........繼續玩

2) 在街 - 盡量係佢不滿前(通常你會知佢既極限)分散佢注意, 或離開現場......所以係街都唔會出事

依家個囝瞓地既情況都已經減少左, 可能la個情況係la個age既過度期, 又或者我la個方式對我個囝有效, 不竟佢la個age話大唔大, 話細唔細, 同佢講係要, 但佢都未必完全接收到, 如果大d仲有la個問題, 我唸到時講道理好d, 希望你用得著

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發表於 04-11-25 01:00 |只看該作者

Re: 衰仔"鍊"地~~點算~

Just leave him alone and hide some where to watch him, try 3 to 4 times, it will be work out.

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發表於 04-11-26 11:48 |只看該作者

Re: 衰仔"鍊"地~~點算~

我都係用呢個方法, 由好細開始, 一係街見到反面教材, 都會同佢講咁樣唔o岩, 會有咩後果. 例如唔跟交通燈過馬路(會比車撞到), 飲茶坐唔定(會比茶6親), 扭計買野(以後無得再來), "鍊"地(以後都無街去), 別人講'痴線' '傻仔'(唔o岩好無禮貌) 等等.. 當然我地亦要做到講得出做的到. 佢而家4歲會話返我地轉頭, 好似管家佬咁.

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Tammy
恕我講出教女心得, 係佢2yrs倒, 我地出街見到d人曳, 例如"鍊"地、大哭、食煙、講粗口等不好行為, 我就叫囡囡睇下佢地幾肉(孫), 問佢學吾學, 現在囡囡4yrs, 佢見到人地做不雅行為, 佢都會主動行開, 見到人地食煙仲會掩鼻, 所以"借鏡"呢個方法也不錯, 你試下吧.