my children also don't want to sleep on their own. they have their own bedroom, but they just don't want to sleep on their own. now i sleep with my son, n my husband sleeps with my daughter.my mother-in-law also always say something to upset us, like"you spoiled them", "you shouldn't sleep with them when they were babies" but she would never understand how difficult it is when you have to wake up a few times every night.