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樓主: wonwhy

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ac321

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發表於 09-6-19 12:55 |只看該作者

Let me ask you a question. Can you live independently without the share of living expenses of your 99?

18k monthly...........
give 3k to 62 99 (as a son, you should do that)
i.e. 15 k for rent a flat, living expenses, transportation...........

I think your living standard will drop so much!
And now,at least your husband will have a flat 10 years later! Your 99 already help you a lot.

原帖由 wonwhy 於 09-6-19 11:49 發表

但我ｃ６１個月都只是搵得１萬
他每個月都是得１千用，坐車返工都無左啦

所以我的人工（８千）就係我們兩公婆的開支
所以連ｂｂ都唔敢生．． ...

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-6-19 12:55 發表
Let me ask you a question. Can you live independently without the share of living expenses of your 99?

18k monthly...........
give 3k to 62 99 (as a son, you should do that)
i.e. 15 k for rent a fla ...

你比個見意我呀．．
我依家都唔知點．．同ｃ６已經冷戰左一日啦
我就來傻啦．．．

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ac321

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發表於 09-6-19 13:46 |只看該作者

How old are you now?
If you are young (say 2x), then I will keep pay the mortgage for the flat, and live with 62 99.
It is because 10 years later, the flat will be fully paid. Then, even you 2 can't make more $ at that moment, you still can have 2 kids as you don't need to pay rent/mortgage.
If you don't like to live with your 99, then you can move out and rent a flat at that moment. You don't need to worry that you have no flat to live when you are old. It is because at that moment, you 62 99 have already died and the flat will belongs to you 2.

If you are already 3x now, then I will move out immediately. I will remove your husband's name in that flat and give the flat to 62 99.
However, I will promise to give 3k for 62 99 monthly as their pocket $.
Use 5k to rent a small flat.
And the l0k are for living expenses. May be you can save for 3-4 k monthly. And then have a kid 2 or 3 years later. Then, you 3 can apply for a public house.

原帖由 wonwhy 於 09-6-19 13:12 發表

你比個見意我呀．．
我依家都唔知點．．同ｃ６已經冷戰左一日啦
我就來傻啦．．．

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-6-19 13:46 發表
How old are you now?
If you are young (say 2x), then I will keep pay the mortgage for the flat, and live with 62 99.
It is because 10 years later, the flat will be fully paid. Then, even you 2 can't ...

勁, 分析得好好 ^^

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發表於 09-6-21 03:13 |只看該作者

我都非常認同你的分析

樓主搬出去,或可解決與 62 99 的相處問題,可是壓力不代表會消失,反而新增了其他壓力
(1) 以樓主和 c6 的收入,可能只租到很細間的樓
(2) 沒有 62 99 幫手,一切起居生活都要自己負責,時間和金錢上也有壓力
(3) 將來生 bb 可能要請工人,到時又係另一經濟壓力

樓主 c6 而家俾緊 $8500 屋企,相比起佢份人工當然是多,但都要諗下,呢 $8500 已經包了住包了食,還有 10年後層樓的業權. 如果咁計,其實 $8500 已經 "好抵", 因為若搬出去住的話, $8500 應該解決唔到基本的居住和生活開支

相見好同住難,一齊住一定會有磨擦,始終一家人,不如諗下點樣改善關係啦 ~

原帖由 ac321 於 09-6-19 13:46 發表
How old are you now?
If you are young (say 2x), then I will keep pay the mortgage for the flat, and live with 62 99.
It is because 10 years later, the flat will be fully paid. Then, even you 2 can't ...

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