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[全職媽媽] 你們有沒有後悔過做全職媽媽? [複製鏈接]

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vksophie

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發表於 05-1-21 00:18 |只看該作者

Re: 你們有沒有後悔過做全職媽媽?

Mummy 寫道:
都冇後悔既, 起碼唔使o係出面受人氣, 同埋唔使坐o係出面, 但個心就掛住兩隻反斗星先。琴日我都好認真同老公傾過呢個問題, 問佢我咁後生唔做野湊仔, 會唔會屣左d時間, 佢又係老生常談果幾句: 你搵得幾多丫, 你果份比埋工人錢, 出出入入答車食飯都去左一大節, 不如多d親近仔女, 第日佢地聽聽話話, 讀書勤力都係番度啦, 除非真係經濟上唔容許架姐, 既然有得選擇, 當然揀唔好做野啦, o係屋企湊仔係福氣黎架" 你話佢講到咁, 點夠我老公講...

咁似我老公講o既........我都無後悔過,每日可以睇住囡囡成長都好滿足,有 d 朋友就話咁後生唔做野屣左,有 d 就話妳囡囡一定好開心,其實最緊要都係自己點取捨,我都曾經掙扎過驚自己唔適應,但係決定左做全職媽咪後感覺好好,起碼老公都有啖靚湯飲下~

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發表於 05-1-21 19:37 |只看該作者

Re: 你們有沒有後悔過做全職媽媽?

NOV媽媽, WHERE ARE YOU))))))

比較不正常而靈裡較感貧窮的人, 比起正常而靈裡不感貧窮的人, 成長的更多......

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Hellomummy

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發表於 05-1-22 13:57 |只看該作者

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比較不正常而靈裡較感貧窮的人, 比起正常而靈裡不感貧窮的人, 成長的更多......

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4607

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發表於 05-1-29 11:28 |只看該作者

Re: 你們有沒有後悔過做全職媽媽?

I want to be a full time mother also, BUT my husband refused me even I think we have enough money in the bank. It may because I got around $40K monthly salary, he think it is not worth to quit my job with this salary, and he got same salary as me.

But of course we pay a lot to our parants, ~30K.

What do you think, should I quit my job?

Mummy 寫道:
都冇後悔既, 起碼唔使o係出面受人氣, 同埋唔使坐o係出面, 但個心就掛住兩隻反斗星先。琴日我都好認真同老公傾過呢個問題, 問佢我咁後生唔做野湊仔, 會唔會屣左d時間, 佢又係老生常談果幾句: 你搵得幾多丫, 你果份比埋工人錢, 出出入入答車食飯都去左一大節, 不如多d親近仔女, 第日佢地聽聽話話, 讀書勤力都係番度啦, 除非真係經濟上唔容許架姐, 既然有得選擇, 當然揀唔好做野啦, o係屋企湊仔係福氣黎架" 你話佢講到咁, 點夠我老公講...

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發表於 05-1-29 12:13 |只看該作者

Re: 你們有沒有後悔過做全職媽媽?

Hi 4607,

Have the same feeling. My salary is a bit less than by husbands but will be O.K. when both are working. We need to pay a lot to both of our parents, so I have to keep working to support both our parents & 2 kids. We don't have much 老本 can spend. I have been a full time mom for half year, but not that enjoyed it. Because I need to calculate every dollar I spent. It was not enjoyable. My eldest girl (9 years old) prefers me to work, not stay at home & be 師奶.

So I am the working mom again.

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I want to be a full time mother also, BUT my husband refused me even I think we have enough money in the bank. It may because I got around $40K monthly salary, he think it is not worth to quit my job with this salary, and he got same salary as me.

But of course we pay a lot to our parants, ~30K.

What do you think, should I quit my job?

:-)

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浩天靚媽

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發表於 05-1-29 21:57 |只看該作者

Re: 你們有沒有後悔過做全職媽媽?

我仔而家仲未滿月,可能我餵全人奶所E比較累同唔夠訓啦!
當我仔食得密時我會發"蚊"架!個刻我會想過放棄餵人奶!仲會小後悔咁早生BB,(我20歲咋!)早知玩多幾年啦!話晒E前係美少女,加下變左肥C9...(但當然唔會真係後悔啦!)

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發表於 05-1-30 19:18 |只看該作者

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No regret, though I lose financially, as compared to my time as working-mom over the past years, I feel that now I gain much more happiness from taking care of my kids, seeing them growing up so happily. They need me most when they are small, and I hope to spend a few years wholly with them. When they grow up, they won't need me so much and I can go out to work again, and believe that I can keep a better and closer relationship with them if I have been a full-time mom at their early years. :lol:

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Nov媽媽

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發表於 05-1-30 22:48 |只看該作者

Re: 你們有沒有後悔過做全職媽媽?

Hellomummy,

我而家返左工之後係屋企都好busy,唔係經常可以上綱,唔好意思!!!

出番黎做野係有d唔習慣,但係唔會感覺好怪,可能我而家間公司d人好好,好nice,而且好多同事都結了婚有小朋友,大家都好多時好多事情都心照,真係十分好彩 :mrgreen: :mrgreen:
你點呀???
打工同全職媽媽 ?-( ?-( ?-( 你想做邊樣呢???

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pingukiwi

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發表於 05-2-2 11:22 |只看該作者

Re: 你們有沒有後悔過做全職媽媽?

easonkinki 寫道:
我仔而家仲未滿月,可能我餵全人奶所E比較累同唔夠訓啦!
當我仔食得密時我會發"蚊"架!個刻我會想過放棄餵人奶!仲會小後悔咁早生BB,(我20歲咋!)早知玩多幾年啦!話晒E前係美少女,加下變左肥C9...(但當然唔會真係後悔啦!)

你放心啦!後生生bb唯一好處是收身快,我21歲生仔仔修身得好好......當然餵人奶係好辛苦,我只餵咗3個月,因醫生吾比我再餵人奶,因bb食得吾好o
不過最慘係無得再出去玩,但都有試過抱bb去唱k,嗰時bb得9個月咋!但現在信主後無之前咁貪玩,但現在最煩的是仔仔9升小一........唉!做媽咪真辛苦......

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IYYY

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發表於 05-2-3 17:11 |只看該作者

Re: 你們有沒有後悔過做湊全職媽媽?

我老公所講

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WAIMAN

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發表於 05-2-12 12:26 |只看該作者

Re: 你們有沒有後悔過做湊全職媽媽?

都無後悔,仲覺得好值得,因為唔想錯過佢成長每一個階段,亦可以自己比心幾教佢地,我係想生第2個bb先決定做全職媽媽,因為已經錯過了大仔的成長,都幾後悔,現在自己湊佢都好我,我老公好贊成,我放棄每月萬1、2人工連雙糧花紅,若再出來做都幾難搵返,但見佢地開心都值得。
(大仔快3歲,細仔快4個月)

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CHUCHU

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發表於 05-2-13 10:36 |只看該作者

Re: 你們有沒有後悔過做湊全職媽媽?

我現在處於後悔與不後悔之間.

我做全職媽媽大約7個月左右,我兩個囡不是bb,可能湊bb會好開心,睇住佢成長.或者我一直以來都認為小學階段係好緊要,由其是性格開始要定型,盡量要教好及協助佢地行正確的路,仲要特別留意佢地成長情況,因為好可能上到中學已經唔到我理,見到有問題,佢未必接受我意見,到時朋友親,媽咪係冇親(母親),爸爸係苦親(父親).

大囡一向好跟我同聽我話,因為只有星期六日親子,現在見得多咗,態度開始差,可能開始大個啦,而我對佢多咗EQ低咗(有d後悔,係米見少d好 :cry:

細囡剛上咗小一,我同佢關係一向少見,因為顧大多d,佢性格原來我一直睇錯咗,初初覺得佢好難湊,現在對佢時間多咗,知道佢有學習問題,對佢教法要唔同大囡,所以反而對佢了解加深,尼個係最大收穫(嘻嘻,原來佢D性格好似我細個