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我個老公今晚去night club [複製鏈接]

幸福小婦人

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發表於 05-1-13 15:30 |只看該作者

Re: 我個老公今晚去night club

如果他做咗d對不起我的事情 :evil: 我會叫他快d走, 越快越好 :evil:

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爾淳小主

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發表於 05-1-13 18:01 |只看該作者

Re: 我個老公今晚去night club

其實你都話佢係好老公，好爸爸，而佢又主動同你講，唔駛太擔心啦，而且佢真係要去搞女人嘅，邊度都搞到啦．．．你都講啦，要擔心都擔心不來．．．不過我都明，想同做都係兩樣野嚟嘅，始終都好難控制到自己唔諗，但既然要諗嘅，唔好介意，不如諗埋touch wood真係有咩問題嘅時候，你而家可以做啲咩準備（無論心理上還是物質上）

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幸福小婦人

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發表於 05-1-13 20:37 |只看該作者

Re: 我個老公今晚去night club

爾淳小主
你都講得對, 我心理上從來都準備不來(根本不可接受,因他對我太好,未來的十世都希望嫁給他), 物質上不用準備(生活ok,我們未結婚他已經把他所有財產給了我<他自已無份>), 我好清楚就算他可以不要我, 他都一定要他兩個寶貝仔, 而兩個仔就一定是跟我(他是個今日在香港,明天的北京,後天在美國,....從不安在一個地方), 因為他從來不相信後母要對非親生的仔女好。

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~DREAMY~

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發表於 05-1-13 22:39 |只看該作者

Re: 我個老公今晚去night club

我老公前2晚都係同人傾生意，跟住直落去左dup骨！
原本只係話出去飲酒傾生意，點知飲完成2點....d partner仲話去dup骨！佢去果陣打比我話我知！
雖然有d唔高興.......但另一方面卻開心佢識打電話返黎話我知佢做乜去邊！
我個人好易滿足架！
佢識打電話返黎，我已經覺得佢尊重我！咁我就滿足架喇！

I'm not a yogi,but a yogist!

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幸福小婦人

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發表於 05-1-13 23:08 |只看該作者

Re: 我個老公今晚去night club

DREAMY,
你老公經常會去到咁夜

我老公第一次話要出去玩, 本來他在05年1月開始升職, 我真是好開心啦

但原來升識要有付出, 以前他放工立即返家, 就算工幹都不會咁多, 最近兩個月差不多只是星期六及日(都不一定)在香港, 星期一必走, 現在還要去應酬班老板, 又要飲好多酒(怕他酒後XX), 晚上打電話他又像很倦 :-( 以前他很主動同我講, 現在 :exclaim: :exclaim: :exclaim: 我都知現在他的壓力很大, 我都不敢咗他工作, 你們認為一個男人身在外地是不是很悶呀

是不是很容易做錯事呢

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bbmamaj

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發表於 05-1-14 18:10 |只看該作者

Re: 我個老公今晚去night club

We cannot think too much. I have a similar situation like yours. My hubby always work late and need to go out 'entertain' his clients or socialize with his working partners. Everytime he comes back home very 'early' in the morning (next day) and got drunk. But since we had the baby he starts to change. He'll still go out but usually comes back before 1 or 2 am and will not get too drunk. I can only trust him. I also tried to leave him before (we lived together for many many years) but finally we know we love each other so we got married & have a baby now. Although he's not a standard good husband but now I trust he only has me as his woman. I can only give a warm family to him to make him stay home more la.....Sad? Depends on how to look at the matter law.

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vhunghk

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發表於 05-1-16 16:06 |只看該作者

Re: 我個老公今晚去night club

My hubby went to a nighclub once only. He needed to go with his nasty clients. On that night, they ordered some girls to sit with them. But my hubby said," We can drink but no need to touch me". After my hubby came back home, he described his experience to me. I belive him not doing wrong because I trust his honesty.

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幸福小婦人

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發表於 05-1-17 11:41 |只看該作者

Re: 我個老公今晚去night club

vhunghk,
我老公同我講他的同事(在大陸,全部男同事<間公司好少女同事>)差不多個個都有份到外面玩, 有些上身, 有些是玩吓, 不一定有關係, 但抽水就一定有, 老公講這些是男人的秘密(她們的老婆無一個知),叫我千萬不要同他們老婆講, 因為個個扮正經。我有同他其中一個同事的老婆談過, 他太太好相信他老公, 還同我說他老公有去night club但無找女孩坐過, 後來我同我老公講他景說個個都知那同事有玩, 還玩到上身(有第二個女人叫他老公)。 :-(
男人真是不能相信的嗎

:cry:

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vhunghk

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發表於 05-1-17 22:30 |只看該作者

Re: 我個老公今晚去night club

幸福小婦人,

I fully understood your situation! I know your heart is not comfortable about your hubby going to the night club. But at least he told you about this. You know, there are many men going to the night club or going to SZ but their wifes don't know about this. When they are addicted to it, it is too late!!

If you are not feeling comfortable, try to express your feeling to your hubby. See what he will do. I think your sincerity can make him think about you before doing something wrong.

It's ture that good men are becoming less and less. There are so many temptations in the world!!