1) You should not go to Macau to pick her up, why not through agent? You and your BB travel so far, to paid a HELPER up? Sound unappropiate and attitute unappropriate. You make her feel, she is the master, more than you are the master.
2) You get in trap obviously. You should not just let her go like this, no matter you need her stay at your home for 1 month OR give you one month noice by lieu of notice. You also need to process this procedure. Now she can say you kick her out, without one month notice OR by lieu of notice.
3) Why need to buy her gift lei?? Why need to provide fruit lei?? For me, if have, then eat lor!! And depends on is it expensive fruit, if expensive, don't touch it, even I don't eat.
yes, it is my first time. we just want to treat her well and treat our baby well.
那天我地問佢係咪欠財仔, 佢自己認仲話無野講要辭職. 白紙黑字簽名自己即走仲要無一個月通知我地. 我話唔使佢賠. 可以執野走. 總之唔想煩. 而家佢同工會仲屈我地欠佢一個月仲要話無借我地錢. 告我地.
都怪我地太好人. 船飛,電話費...咩都唔同佢計. 呢次係庭一定撐到底!
Now your problem still not solve out. You need to make the Judge to believe that, you are so kindness to let her go.
So sorry to tell u that, the favour is quite on her side.
Next time, do not let her go like this, Need One Month Written notice OR by lieu of notice.
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The judge might say, she want to go and you said no need to pay one month, then the out come will be: You want to terminate her without notice.
Poor you. Hope you ok on this case. Please update your status time to time in here ok. Quite worry you.
The judge will not consider your friends' wording, because that will have bias. But if your friend is a lawyer OR police force etc... some related to highly discipline career conduct, then the Judge might accept his wording.
If not, you can save your friend's time.
Next time, if have such circumstance again, you better use the video recorder. The judge might not read or accept it. But at least, let your helper know you got some thing to proof the real situation on that day. One more things to protect yourself.
back from labor dept, send her back to home and no need to give her 1 mth salary. Empolyer pls take notice when yr maid resign. Keep all receipts are very important. The best thing is have witness or keep video. They have nothing to say at all.
原帖由 henry1997 於 11-3-8 13:27 發表
back from labor dept, send her back to home and no need to give her 1 mth salary. Empolyer pls take notice when yr maid resign. Keep all receipts are very important. The best thing is have witness or ...
i did same as you. At the labour dept, i told her i had witness and did not mentioned the video. Then, she said nothing at all and admitted that it was her resignation instead of i fired her.