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janlady

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發表於 13-11-15 09:54 |只看該作者

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I have 1 - 5 year old and 1 twins - 15 mths. They are taken care by my 2 helpers everyday. One of helper is smart and good at time management. The other one is not smart but is willing to take instructions. They both love my kids.

They have taken care the 3 kids since the twins were born. So far, it is ok but I am not a picky one. The not smart one does not like to take my elder one to the interest class though it is a comparatively easier task. She prefers stay in the house everyday. It is fine when the babies were small.

Now, they grow up a bit and become very very active. I am going to change the not smart one because they really need someone who has better time management skill and can bring them to playgroup.

All in all, I am a lucky one and my helpers are good and can serve my purposes so far.

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testingabc

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janlady 發表於 13-11-15 09:54
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I have 1 - 5 year old and 1 twins - 15 mths. They are taken care by my 2 he ...

我而家有兩個姐姐，其中一個照顧開我3歲大仔，清潔煮飯等都冇問題，但孖B出世後佢好明顯唔想掂有關BB既野，唔想做多份，睇都唔睇BB一眼。。叫佢餵奶換片佢都唔識唔想做。另一個我想佢主力湊孖B，但佢都係麻麻地，做野求求其其，甚至開錯大仔奶粉俾對孖B。我會換左第二個湊孖B既姐姐，但其實只靠佢有冇可能睇兩個B？我明明有兩個姐姐，如果第一個肯幫手，咁孖B喊起上黎都有兩對手，我怕第二個湊孖B既幾叻都好，有時都要人幫下手？如果要換第一個湊大仔做家務個個，改為一個又肯湊孖但可以清潔煮食冇咁好既姐姐，會唔會太博呢？如果REPLACE個個唔好，我唔想連本來湊大仔都影響埋。。

大家可唔可以幫我諗下可以點做。。。THANKS

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janlady

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Yes, a bit of too risky. But it is quite impossible for 1 to take care twins all the time. If the twins are crying/sick at the same time, it need the others to help.

You better talk to your first helper and ask her to offer helps when necessary. I did pay more to my smarter one. You may consider that too. Secondly, you may ask your helper to refer someone that she can work with and is willing to take care twins. By doing that, they will cooperate with each other.

That is my strategy so far and hope it helps.

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testingabc

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janlady 發表於 13-11-15 11:42
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Yes, a bit of too risky. But it is quite impossible for 1 to take care twin ...

thanks for your suggestion..
有D人又話唔好請兩姐妹，因為會互相包庇，但兩個合作唔到既，又變左推黎推去。甚至我問其中一個D BB衫有冇放落洗衣機洗呀？佢答我冇，轉頭就見第二個係洗衣機拎出BB衫，我再問第一個工人佢就話唔知另一個點，佢自已就冇。唉！

成日換工人都唔係辦法。。。最近見左個都OKAY既，佢同我推廌佢阿妹，未出過國做野，搏唔搏得過呢。。

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WANTBB88

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發表於 13-11-19 12:19 |只看該作者

我對龍鳳 9.5月大了，回想頭3個月，真係黑暗時期，每晚只有我、老公及工人輪流湊。由出院第3星期開始，每晚由9點喊到凌晨4點，喊到 3 個月大就開始好了，夜奶也戒了，大家先可以連瞓4小時。當時我都好灰，但不斷同自己講時間總會過去，每晚從複又從複的捱過3個月。

根據醫生講，初生 BB 剛剛來到世上，初次使用口進食及腸道輸送奶奶，他們的腸是會痛的，每天也有一段特定時間痛，大約痛 3 個月左右腸道就會習慣。所以中國人也有嬰兒百日哭的說法。腸痛其實有藥可以食，但忍到最好忍住，始終初生不而使用藥物。

湊孖 B 預左辛苦，即刻到現在我的 BBS 9.5月大，我也不是每晚都可以一覺瞓天光，佢地半夜都會突然大喊大叫﹗ 一齊努力吧﹗

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WANTBB88

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發表於 13-11-19 16:31 |只看該作者

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初初係咁架，肚餓喊食飽又喊，仲要兩個一齊喊，完全唔知可以點做。我都係自己湊，2~3個鐘食一餐，人都癲，夜晚就一定要老公幫手，唔係真係搞唔掂……

宜家我對孖囝2個月大喇，好感恩佢地好湊咗好多，只係日頭比較扭，夜晚11點飲完奶都會乖乖地瞓到5點先再喊食。日頭就4個鐘一餐。

諗返轉頭，bbs大得咁快，日日成長，我又好掛住佢地初初出世嗰時。。

加油啦！

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testingabc

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發表於 13-11-20 12:05 |只看該作者

我孖B兩個星期大，我覺得自已有D抑X，一方面我係WORKING MUM，唔可以唔做野，屋企人又冇人幫到手，而家咁樣加埋大仔我兩個工人睇唔掂佢地。。好擔心。。
另一方面我成日都諗如果呢胎唔係孖B，好多問題都可以解決。。點解第二胎先要中孖？中左孖連我大仔生活都好受影響，我覺得好對佢唔住。。
我諗到我產假完後都未換到工人的話，係咪就要咁樣俾我3個小朋友佢地睇住？係咪點湊都唔好理咁多。。總之生存到就OK？
我真係好DOWN。。好大壓力。。

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