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babycookie


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發表於 07-9-28 10:23 |只看該作者
大B3歲半,小B亦巳經14個月大了,由小B8個月起我只係全泵,佢而家唔識埋身食了.我每日一早6:30起身泵一次,7:40出門囗返工,午飯時間有時可以泵多轉,有時唔得,夜晚返到屋企早極8:15至8:30,好多時9:00,一星期有1至2晚會過11:00或12:00.由於想保持奶量,返到屋企都唔會等太耐就會泵多轉.加埋食飯同沖乾淨涼,可以陪小朋友的時間巳經只會淨返半個鐘至1個鐘左右,有時我只係負責泵奶,小朋友變了只有姐姐湊,如果自己湊完先沖涼泵奶又會太夜,唔夠精神,加上哥哥而家有行為問題,需要多D時間,所以我好唔夠時間用.

我地一家人好耐未試過出去遠D的地方玩,又或者出一整日街,比如沙灘啦,戶外郊野啦,成年幾都只係留係屋企附近或者CLUBHOUSE.因為我要返屋企泵奶,每次一個鐘.哥哥就快悶到發癲,鍾意跟其他人多過我地,點算好?係唔係陪小朋友重要過泵奶?我C6巳經唔贊成我泵奶,因為用好多時間而且小B巳經過了一歲,於是我又迫佢幫手睇住D仔,我唔想成日都得姐姐理佢地.

究竟有咩解決方法呢?想轉工,但$又會少一大半,到時想買下衫仔書仔比BB都冇多餘$,我C6好孤寒架,我多數自己比$買等佢冇得話我!

你地比D意見我啦!點做好呀?停唔停泵呀?好大壓力啦!而家小B每日兩餐媽媽奶,一餐奶粉.哥哥有氣管敏感,有時會喘,我又怕細佬會有,所以想比佢食人奶耐D,希望有D幫助.但與此同時,小B又超細碼,而家睇落只有10至11個月大!唉!真係煩死我啦!
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chunyatmama


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發表於 07-9-28 10:50 |只看該作者
I have bf my boy for 2.5 months and then fully pump it out for him up to now as I have to work and my boy is too lazy to be direct feed. I think you have to strike a balance to your family and pump milk. To have a happy children is not just from breast milk. Give them more time and play with them is equally important! So, you have to decide on your own. Don't give too much pressure to yourself.

原文章由 babycookie 於 07-9-28 10:23 發表
大B3歲半,小B亦巳經14個月大了,由小B8個月起我只係全泵,佢而家唔識埋身食了.我每日一早6:30起身泵一次,7:40出門囗返工,午飯時間有時可以泵多轉,有時唔得,夜晚返到屋企早極8:15至8:30,好多時9:00,一星期有1至2晚會過1 ...
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Jolly


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發表於 07-9-28 13:04 |只看該作者
i think you already did a great great job to nurse your 2 sons and breastfeed them for a long time. i thank they get the best from you already.
since you said you don't have much time left to accompany your both sons and now the elder son got behavioural problem, and because of pumping milk, your husband and you have less rest time and even no leisure time. in my opinion, you can stop now.
time is limited. time is treasure. and time flies. you can use time to pump milk. you can use time to play with your sons. you can use time to rest more. and you should prioritise the use of time. i think now the relationship with your elder son and husband is juaperdising by pumping milk, so why not stop?
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nikitac


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發表於 07-9-28 14:52 |只看該作者
似乎你都要睇返客觀環境, 既然你兩個小朋友咁需要你, 比多d 時間陪佢地, 陪佢地成長都好重要. 而且現在你小朋友都唔係靠食奶, 唔泵奶都無問題嘅, 可試下每日泵少一次.

[ 本文章最後由 nikitac 於 07-9-28 16:42 編輯 ]

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chiuchristan


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發表於 07-9-28 15:04 |只看該作者
For your case, you may try to keep one meal of expressed milk for son first(Pumping less, not quitting immediately), instead of two meals a day. Your feeling may not feel so sad.

Decreasing a meal can save more time for children. Bonding & together time with children is very valuable & wonderful! Your husband also treasure more family functions together, such wonderful family time is Great!

You may progressively adjust the pumping frequency & duraction, then quitted step by step. If pumping for one meal for son is not so burdened for you, may keep it on!!!:loveliness:


Take Care!
Hayes mama
Hayes had been breastfeeding for almost 3 years, then naturally weaned by himself！

Wish Hayes with Love, Peace & Joy！！
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