nillie,
i'm totally with u ... as my son is also a daddy's boy and actually he always said he hates me. so my husband always told me to take care of myself first and not to sacrifice too much for my son, as we both expect that he won't take care of me when i get old. again, especially boys ...
however, for girls, they will understand and love their mothers more when they have their own kids.
so far i haven't sacrificed much for my son except that i haven't worked since he's borned. sometimes i'm not even sure if it's worth it to do so when i looked back. that's quite a lot of money if i had worked for 5-6 years, and more importantly it's kinda hard to get back to my career as technologies change so quickly.
i don't think my son and even my husband would appreciate it. my mom kept saying her friends and relatives said what a waste that i don't go to work since i'd studied for so many years.
so, that's good for you if u can handle both work and family lives at the same time.
[ 本帖最後由 SY_Mom 於 09-2-28 10:53 編輯 ]