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I have great difficulties in breast-feeding my second child who is a 34-weeker and 5 weeks old now.

I have an almost-6 daughter who was breast-fed until 3. This was not because I got much milk to feed her, but I insisted on doing so. I fed her more than 12 times a day when she was just born. She took milk for 10 minutes and fell asleep and could never be waken up until she woke up by herself. I pumped no more that 4 oz a time 6 years ago.

But my experience helps me nothing. My son was born 5.5 weeks before the EDD. He weighed 4.5 pounds and was tube-fed for the first 2 days. Then he was bottle-fed during his stay at the hospital. I asked if I could breast-feed him and was rejected. The nurses said although breast milk was good but breast-feeding didn't do him any good, as he would use all his energy to suck. I was encouraged to pump the milk.

I know myself well. My experience has told that my milk would stop if I pump only. He has been home for 2.5 weeks. I have tried to breast-feed during the daytime but most of the time, I fail. When I hold him to my breast, he'll cry and push himself away from me.
Even fortunately, he is fed for a few minutes (one success in 2 days) after 30-minute hard time, then latches off and cries.
Both of us are exhausted and at last I gave him bottle.
And he takes the milk very slowly as he is really tired.

My questions are:
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I don’t know how to increase milk production.
I have tried all kinds of soup.
2.
How can I train him? Nurses said nothing can be dome except feeding him more often.

I am quite frustrated but I don’t want to give up.
Please help.

:-( :-(

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唔緊要啦, 餵得幾多得幾多啦, 最緊要你要有耐性同埋信心, 你BB一定好快會學識响你度飲奶架啦, 唔好放棄呀, 努力加油呀....:lol:

原文章由 TszChingMaMa 於 07-11-9 11:35 AM 發表
Thank you for your patience.

Maybe you have misunderstood me. I mean 350 ml per day, 60-70ml per pump. This is my 6th week already.

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你泵五次0乍0番, 算係好成績0架啦~ 同埋你仲要湊大女添, 咁辛苦, 仲有奶出都算0力, 人地話休息唔夠好影響奶量的, 我估如果我係你, 可能一早「香銷玉殞」 lu~

你咁錫仔仔, 咁辛苦都盡量俾仔仔食人奶, 母愛真偉大!

原文章由 TszChingMaMa 於 07-11-9 11:35 發表
Thank you for your patience.

Maybe you have misunderstood me. I mean 350 ml per day, 60-70ml per pump. This is my 6th week already.

@ 如果有錢有社會地位先至會被人喜愛，呢個世界就太可悲了 @

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Thank you for your patience.

Maybe you have misunderstood me. I mean 350 ml per day, 60-70ml per pump. This is my 6th week already.

原文章由 李小B太太 於 07-11-9 10:31 發表
漏左話你知, 我初初果個幾星期, 0的奶係一滴一滴咁出, 電泵30min 都係得 20-30ml 0架0乍, 即係, 得果一啖咁大把! 所以你有 350ml 真係好0力0架啦!!!

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漏左話你知, 我初初果個幾星期, 0的奶係一滴一滴咁出, 電泵30min 都係得 20-30ml 0架0乍, 即係, 得果一啖咁大把! 所以你有 350ml 真係好0力0架啦!!!

@ 如果有錢有社會地位先至會被人喜愛，呢個世界就太可悲了 @

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小笨初生時我每日泵8次, 每3小時泵一次, 日以繼夜, 半夜都照泵, 每次每邊泵 30min, 泵左差不多一個月至開始「夠貨」俾bb 食, 但都係「monk monk 緊」0乍!

你要湊大女, 無可能好似我咁唔訓覺日日攬住個胸黎泵奶, 唔緊要啦, 仔仔知你盡曬力0架啦, 有 350ml 都好0力0架啦!

仔仔太細, 唔知「媽咪個奶奶係用黎啜同埋有奶出的」, 你試下餵之前擠少少出黎個乳頭度引佢, 又或者佢「萬一」含住左個乳房時你就即刻用手擠、等0的奶射入佢口仔度, 等佢知道「呢個野係出奶的」。佢乜都唔識0架, 要慢慢學, 你千祈唔好放棄啊! 俾0的時間佢, 佢會慢慢學識0架! 加油!!

原文章由 TszChingMaMa 於 07-11-9 09:33 發表
I pump 5 times a day. The total amount is 350ml. But my baby needs 630ml. It is not enough.

I tried to let him practise every day. The problem is that he pushes himself away from me. Even he can ...

@ 如果有錢有社會地位先至會被人喜愛，呢個世界就太可悲了 @

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I pump 5 times a day. The total amount is 350ml. But my baby needs 630ml. It is not enough.

I tried to let him practise every day. The problem is that he pushes himself away from me. Even he can get the nipple, he 'throws it away' immediately and then cries. The point is that he doesn't suck at all. Or even by chance, he does so, it's just for 1 minutes.

This is the reason for my frustration.

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係唔一樣架, 食人奶BB 要伸出脷去舔乳暈, 刺激乳汁分泌再去吮,
而食奶樽只需要稍稍用力吮就會有奶流出, 比起埋身食人奶, 簡單同無咁需要用力, BB 好懶架, 食過奶樽就會唔願意用力去食人奶, 所以未滿月前的BB 易有乳頭混淆.

不過亦有些例外, 例如有心臟病的唐寶寶或premature baby, 因為食奶的運動量太大對身體有影響, 所以先用奶樽餵人奶.

[ 本文章最後由 nikitac 於 07-11-8 16:33 編輯 ]

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講真, 我唔知阿b suck nipple 同suck bottle咀係唔係一樣..
um.. 我就用 nuk 奶樽&咀.. seems NUK 's design simulates the nipple of mother wor~

my BB does not have nipple confusion.. but I dunno if the other BBs will have confusion after using bottle nipple..

我每日都比bb埋身食下, 初初, 我都係希望佢唔好唔記得埋身食呢一樣嘢.. 佢初初咁細, 根本都唔夠力食.. (佢得5磅3安)
連食樽都慢呀..

不過, 經過兩個月嘅不斷嘗試, 佢愈來愈叻, 見到佢有 progress, 我已經好開心喇..

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仲有, 我食花生, 飲花生鱆魚湯, 食鯇魚尾都會多奶0的, and, 飲多0的水~! 我都係窮媽媽, 但係靠媽咪0的愛心湯水, 小笨都勉強可以全人奶~~~

@ 如果有錢有社會地位先至會被人喜愛，呢個世界就太可悲了 @

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1. 響 bk 見好多媽咪都係日日俾BB試埋身, 試試下會突然成功 (有0的試成兩三個月...), 所以 never give up, 日日試下囉, 當同BB玩遊戲「錫錫媽媽奶奶」, 咁樣心情會輕鬆0的0架~~ 可以叫埋家姐仔入去睇 and 打氣添, 當係親子活動囉~~

2. 我個B係足月出生, 但因為黃要照燈, 又唔夠奶、初時得一滴滴、要用樽 + 奶粉, 住院一星期, 出院頭一個月都有 nipple confusion, 啜到我好痛、損, 健康院姑娘教用 cup, 但因為太煩加上 BB 黃、累, 吃得很慢 and always 昏睡, 很難用 cup 餵, 所以我仍然埋身.

方法是: 每餐首半小時埋身, 之後30-45min 餵樽 (冰奶或奶粉).

如果佢整得我太痛就抽出黎再俾佢含過, 唔太痛就由得佢. 大約一個月多0的, 佢就可以全埋身 and 無乜 nipple confusion, 到兩個月就幾乎完全無 confusion 啦.

之後我返工, 佢日頭用樽、夜晚或假期埋身, 冰奶、雪奶、奶粉咩都識食~~ 0力~~

所以你都得0架, 你仲有第一個的經驗添呢~~~ 加油加油!!!!

@ 如果有錢有社會地位先至會被人喜愛，呢個世界就太可悲了 @

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不要用奶樽餵, 用cup feed 補奶, BB 仔天生鐘意吮吮呢個動作, 無得吮奶樽會令BB 更想去埋身餵.

我識得有個BB 佢媽媽為了糾正奶粉嘴用左一個星期去教BB 食奶, 最終都成功, 所以你都得. Good luck and add oil!

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隨左努力餵, 努力泵外, 食多d飲多多湯水, 你試試牛秋魚湯啦, 我個婦科醫生教我架, 飲左d奶量真係明顯多左架.

我兩胎都係半人奶半奶粉B, 大仔餵左兩個月咋, 細女依家一歲都係keep住有人奶飲, 我唔係多奶型, 都可以keep咁耐, 你都實得.

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Tsz Ching Mama

My baby also come early (34weeks) and she cannot suck directly form my breast, so I pupm in the first month, but during the first month, I keep trying for direct BF, finally, 1 week after 1 month, she start to suck for 30 min until now (she is 4 months now), so don't give up, you'll success!!

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Thank you, all.

I love your encouragement.

When your baby sucked your nipple, did he/she use the way that he/she sucked the nipple of the bottle? Did the baby get confused because of the experience of using bottle?

原文章由 sjlam 於 07-11-7 15:02 發表
我都係泵得唔多架，起初都抱住餵都幾多得幾多的心態，唔好比太大壓力自己，我看見你已經好努力，同做得好好架啦，加油呀！

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我都係泵得唔多架，起初都抱住餵都幾多得幾多的心態，唔好比太大壓力自己，我看見你已經好努力，同做得好好架啦，加油呀！

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I am a 'pump' mama. My experience is,

開頭, 要keep住每4個鐘pump一次, 無論多少, 無論有無, 都pump at least 30 mins. 要keep住, 可能要成個月咖..

你試下幫自己record低每次pump左幾多係張spreadsheet度, 同埋記低果日食左啲咩嘢..

一至兩個星期後, 你應該會見到成績.. 同埋睇下你食啲咩, 會令你特別好奶

我個bb又係早左啲出世 (佢係36weeks), 開頭佢都係無力啜,
我都好沮喪咖..以為餵唔到..

endup, 我打定輸數, 豁出去啦, 擔心, 係唔會對我餵人奶呢件事有幫助, 總之, 同自己講, pump得幾多得幾多啦.. 就算只得10ml, 佢都有10ml人奶食啦..

點知, 我pump左一個星期左右, 我就覺得自己奶量有增加, 同埋, 你知道自己食啲咩係最有效..

而且, 我發覺, 如果我日頭出左街行街買衫, 果晚同第二日奶量就特別好.. (心情好), 所以你都要搵啲嘢令自己好開心..

我由開頭pump一次得幾滴.. 到家陣, 一日都pump到大約600ml..

而我個b, 初初係無力啜, 但我都唔理, 每日都比佢埋身食15-30min, 食唔食到都好, 跟手先比奶樽(人奶), 到兩個月果陣, 佢已經夠力啜喇.. 而且, 佢仲好似鐘意埋身食, 多過食樽添呀.. 佢埋身食完, 會'呀'一聲(好似透大氣咁), 之後就好冧咁瞓, 好似好滿足咁咖..

我唔知我嘅方法係你身上work 唔work, 不過, 你都可以試下..

[ 本文章最後由 CarmenK 於 07-11-7 14:21 編輯 ]

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Most BF mothers said that milk supply increased with their 2nd child.

Well, I was pumping exclusively for the first 3 months and then suddenly one day my little one suck the button of my pajama when I pat him to sleep, so I offered my breast and from that day he latched on till now (he's 9.5 months now). So I think when the baby get older, he can suck better and enjoy nursing MUCH MORE than bottle, at least my little one is.

So don't give up, and try to find a right time to nurse. Maybe when he's not too hungry, or when he's a bit sleepy. You are an experienced BF mom, so things should be easier.

I drank "South Date Water" 南棗水 and it helped - my fridge was alway full of frozen milk

until I decided to drop the production. Still, it depends on the body character to take different things (熱底宜飲通草，寒底宜飲南棗水)

add oil

識網友只限吹下水、交換下資訊、發揮網力，邊個認真就邊個輸。

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