I usually keep myself busy with my two children. I try to spend as much time as possible to feed them, clean them , change the nappy..etc just to avoid having to talk to 99. I don't help to cook. In fact, I don't want to see how she prepare the food. Her kitchen is messy and she is not very clean with food handling. I bring my own food for my children. I usually don't each much at all at her place.