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發表於 08-8-21 12:05 |只看該作者 |正序瀏覽 |打印

事情既發生如下：

20/8
01:30
朋友P打比我老公話佢知我地明晚(即20/8晚)去我老公返工既地方食飯

08:45
我出門口返工(當時99未醒，得62起左身)

11:00
我打比我老公叫佢17:30同bb去同到中環
咁早d食完早d返屋企
老公回應：你返左屋企先啦

17:15
致電老公問佢可唔可以留位，因為抱住阿b等位好辛苦
老公回應：阿b同祖父母上左山頂喎
我既回應：點解你唔早點話我知
老公回應：
我起身既時候佢地已經出左門口，你打比佢地睇下佢地係邊

依一刻我開始火都黎埋

17:30
我打比99問佢地係邊
99回應：我地岩岩先係山頂食緊野咋喎
我既回應：
我今晚約左朋友P食飯喎，咁你地幾點返落黎呀
99回應：我都唔知喎，我到時再打比你啦

打住咁多先
大家有無覺得我完全唔似阿b個阿媽？
無人話比我知佢會上山頂，我老公仲問番我有咩問題
咁如果我真係返到屋企咩人都無咁我可以做得d咩呢

我99已經唔係一次家啦
之前有一次要過澳門，佢都叫做好一點，叫做前一晚通知我
但今次完全無人話我知lor

後來找食完餐飯返到去我一句野都無講過

究竟係我唔識做後輩定係我99同阿仔出街係根本唔駛同我交代呢~?

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supernew

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發表於 08-8-30 17:53 |只看該作者

回覆 #33 nataliekyn 的文章

Dear Nataliekyn,

Pls chill out and don't be so uptight. I just want to explain one thing to you. For example, if you are a full time nanny and you live with your 6299. No doubt about that you are the one fully responsible to take care of your lovely B. One day, you had found your lovely B was missing, you had no idea where he was, your 6299 was not at home also. What was in your mind? Later, your 6299 went home and they told you that they 'd just bought him to the Disney Park. What would you do ? Would you blame your 6299 didnot inform you to take your B out ? I am not sure . You better think it yourself.

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發表於 08-8-29 11:29 |只看該作者

我初初都係咁佢地帶亞b出去就得,我帶亞b出去佢地就問長問短,最鬼煩就係我99,有幾次約咗朋友行街我99居然話要一齊去,攪到我唔帶亞b去,忍咗佢幾次都費時再忍鬧鬼佢,鎖匙問題我覺得佢地過份咗囉邊有可能唔俾鎖匙你呀,如果有一日佢地個個夜返你未無門口入囉,我當初搬咗入去幾日佢地已經俾鎖匙我

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發表於 08-8-28 09:49 |只看該作者

IaMMoYY,
我唔係唔比我個小朋友去見下依個世界
我好樂意

但如果倒返轉,我同bb出去,要同佢地交代清楚去邊同邊個去
連返阿媽屋企都係咁

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supernew

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發表於 08-8-28 09:46 |只看該作者

一宗好奇怪的事情。第一，既然俾得6299照顧，你當然係信得過佢哋先會咁做啦，咁佢哋响照顧你小Ｂ期間帶佢去下街都好正常呀，亦都無理由次次向你報告，如果是任何事都向你報告，你又會覺得佢哋煩啫。第二，鎖匙問題，我始終唔明你C6唔幫你配而要等其他人做。不過從你以上所講，你個C6都係有啲問題。

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發表於 08-8-28 01:13 |只看該作者

Natalie, honestly, not a big deal for your husband and in-laws. I frankly say you having problem in your thinking process. First, your in-laws are doing you a favor. But you expected to be treated as a boss. That's ungrateful.

Also, if you want to know their roundabouts. Can't you open your mouth and ask. It seems you are a bit controlling.

My kids are having their summer vacation with my in-laws. Do I want to know where do they go and what do they do? YES - but I don't expect my in-laws to report to me. If I want to know, I call and ask.

Why can't you see it as a positive experience that you in-laws brought your baby to the peak to "see the world"? Why you have to be picky in a positive situation?

I just found out my in-laws brought my kids to the zoo yesterday. Yes, without me knowing. But, so what! I only feel happy to hear that my in-laws spent their time and energy to bring my kids out to see more.

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發表於 08-8-28 01:03 |只看該作者

原文章由 nataliekyn 於 08-8-21 12:05 發表
究竟係我唔識做後輩定係我99同阿仔出街係根本唔駛同我交代呢~?

Why do you expect them to report to you? They arn't your paid staff. They don't work for you. It sounds like they are doing you a favor of taking care your baby when you are out working.

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發表於 08-8-25 18:06 |只看該作者

我想你要好好地與c6溝通吓, 為何要配一條home key都這樣困難? 你都是家中的一份子, 6299這樣對待你, 我覺得有點兒過份!

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發表於 08-8-25 17:19 |只看該作者

我唔係想離間妳地/講野令妳唔開心，但仔都生埋，咁都唔肯配條鎖匙比妳，佢地係唔想妳單獨係屋企?要有人係度妳先可以係度? 驚妳搞佢地d野?

如果返工唔舒服/肚痾想返屋企休息，班友出晒街咁點? 如果大吉利是同老公嗌咬，佢地會唔會唔開門? 到時連個仔都見唔到?

完全唔理人感受....

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發表於 08-8-25 17:10 |只看該作者

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發表於 08-8-25 17:03 |只看該作者

其實我99話要去返灣仔配
我老公係我99無批准下佢唔會去配

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發表於 08-8-25 10:25 |只看該作者

我同c6講左好多次啦
佢既回應係遲下先

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catherineleungg

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發表於 08-8-24 15:24 |只看該作者

你下次要帶阿B去街時, 就預早通知你99, 費時佢帶走阿B.

至於配匙方面, 有咩可能會無匙架, 嗰個係你住所吖MA, 我覺得你99和C6都有問題, 你試下平心靜氣同你C6講多次, 睇下佢點回應你.

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2024年龍年勳章 BK Milk勳章畀面勳章

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發表於 08-8-24 15:03 |只看該作者

你99直情當你係工人都不如呀...
你c6又係一個好唔體貼既丈夫.
要配有幾難, 放工去大部份既街市都有配啦。

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發表於 08-8-23 13:41 |只看該作者

原文章由 nataliekyn 於 08-8-23 12:04 發表
鎖匙既問題一年前已經講緊
但我老公話佢媽會遲下配家啦

嘩‥‥‥配條key都要成年時間，又話唔願出街，又話太遠，咁‥‥‥點解又會肯帶阿 b 出街，仲要上咗山頂又唔覺遠既

諸多借口，睇吓有無心啫

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發表於 08-8-23 12:04 |只看該作者

鎖匙既問題一年前已經講緊
但我老公話佢媽會遲下配家啦

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發表於 08-8-23 11:59 |只看該作者

各位媽媽
我承認今次係溝通上出現左問題

至於鎖匙既問題
我已經都係個到住左一年
我開頭都有問過老公
但係佢既回應係：
我之前試過唔見鎖匙，我阿媽都要半年之後先配得番比我，加上我媽唔係好願出街
要去灣仔先有得配，遲下會有家啦

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好媽媽勳章

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發表於 08-8-23 09:57 |只看該作者

樓主, 如個係我會預早通知62, 99 今晚會大約幾點鐘回家接bb去街, 麻煩佢地准備出街用的東西, 溝通最重要, 至於 key 的問題, 責任在c6身上。請問你同62, 99 同住左幾耐呀, 62, 99係末吾老架, 至於難聽的說話, 一定要c6出口, 因父子無隔夜仇。至於92, 66 帶bb去山頂玩係未唸住樓主你們吾返屋企食飯, 今晚吾駛煮, 可以去遠的, relax 下

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