compare with my husband's brother, yours is not so 賤.
What my husband's brother did in the past 20 years:
His brother is 2 years younger than him (my husband). He always tell my 62, 99 that he had no $ to give living expenses for them. In the past 20 years, he paid for 1 month, and didn't pay for another 2 months. Therefore, my husband should 擔起哂 the hold families (another brother still studied in university at that moment). He used all his $ in the families. All his girl firends went away as he have no $ to get marry and built another family. When we got marry, I pay all the expensives. We need to buy / rent another flat as my husband's flat was given to his families to live. However, we need to pay everything for 2 flats. Therefore, we don't want to have any kids in the first few years. It is because we know that when we have kids, we cannot affort the living expenses for 2 families.
Some years later, his younger brother have stable income. He shares the living expenses of thier parents with my husband. Then, we decided to have kids. At that moment, my husband was already 40 years old!!! No one want to be a parent in that age. I think you are young. And you have 2 kids now. We also want to be a parent in your age (too old now). However, due to his other brother's selfish, we have no choice.
His brother (not the younger one) looks like your husband.
And my husband looks like your 2伯.
Therefore, remember to tell your 2伯 don't get marry and don't have any kids.
Hope you 2 will take your resposibility for your 62, 99. And remember if 1 day, your husband have work and earn $, pay more to your 62 99.
You are lucky as you have a nice 99.
原文章由 ac321 於 08-10-16 10:47 發表
Lucky your 2伯未結婚....... Remember to tell your 2伯 don't get marry. If not, I am sure there will be 1 more 不幸 sister here. It is because her husband need to 擔起哂 2 families, his family + his par ...
原文章由 ac321 於 08-10-16 10:47 發表
Lucky your 2伯未結婚....... Remember to tell your 2伯 don't get marry. If not, I am sure there will be 1 more 不幸 sister here. It is because her husband need to 擔起哂 2 families, his family + his par ...
Lucky your 2伯未結婚....... Remember to tell your 2伯 don't get marry. If not, I am sure there will be 1 more 不幸 sister here. It is because her husband need to 擔起哂 2 families, his family + his parents' family. It is because his brother (your husband) tell him that they 幾個月收入唔多,俾唔到錢99. Therefore, 2伯就講,屋企(我62、99屋企)唔使我擔心,佢會擔起哂 2 families........ His brother's wife always 搵大佬著數.....似吸血鬼咁黎吸2伯d錢 !!!
I think all sons/daughters should share their parent's expenses!