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930米芝蓮


民房

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發表於 08-10-21 12:35 |只看該作者
我叔仔份人好cool,每次見到面都當我透門唔會叫我一聲話曬我都係佢亞嫂呀..我同c6到結婚都有8年,可能叔仔早幾年前係外國讀書, d性格好我行我素咁, 初時我有同c6講佢好無禮貌,有次我c6同99講諗住會話下叔仔啦..點知我99話佢係禁架啦..叫我唔好怪佢喎,嘩..我一聽到火都嚟埋,咩叫做佢係禁呀, c6同得你講即是叫你話下佢呀..好算啦d樣嘢唔再講...禁我地有班fd大家都好多年朋友, 禁c6見叔仔係hk無咩fd, 所以有時都會叫埋佢一齊玩, 有幾次佢帶埋條女出嚟, 正常都會叫下我同c6, 無架幾次見面無同我地兩個say hi同講嘢架...但同我地d朋友無嘢會有嘢講, 連個女仔都禁無禮貌, 禁我咪同我d fd講, 我話唔多like個女仔, 我唔係好想見到佢地, 相反我d fd話佢無問題, 話我佢唔同你say hi, 禁你咪同佢say囉, 我聽到之後佢地好似唔明白我禁, 點解要我同佢say hi呀, 佢地都無專重過我同c6...每次出嚟我都會好唔開心, 連d fd都幫佢禁...
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mikitten


子爵府

積分: 11724


33#
發表於 08-11-7 14:48 |只看該作者
我叔仔都係永遠唔會叫人，返到屋企反而係62叫佢先，咁佢唔叫我我都冇乜所謂，不過因為佢又係比屋企縱到成個大少咁，又唔識理人感受，所以我唔鍾意佢，99又係話佢係成個細路咁，叫我唔好嬲佢，咁大個人唔係一句係咁，就乜都得，你地d屋企人忍到佢，但係我忍唔到囉。

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2on


別墅

積分: 746


32#
發表於 08-11-7 14:36 |只看該作者
哈....唔好為左咁唔開心la...
我老爺個性格同你叔仔差唔多....
成日叫佢都唔理你...
我初初都以為佢唔鍾意我..
但我老公話佢對個個都係咁...
根本你都改變唔到你叔仔...
無謂再為左佢一聲而咁火la...
佢唔同你say hi....你開口say hi囉....
咁人地都知無禮貌係佢唔係你...
做好自己....人地唔理一件事...
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Cat1218


大宅

積分: 1690


31#
發表於 08-11-6 14:10 |只看該作者

回覆 #1 Cat1218 的文章

就等於我地同99咁,如果D99唔係扮曬皇太后咁,我相信唔會有咁多可憐嘅新抱...大家nice d,就可以和睦共處了

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Cat1218


大宅

積分: 1690


30#
發表於 08-11-6 14:05 |只看該作者
嘩,樓主夠膽叫c6嚮99投訴叔仔吖 會招惹好多煩惱架,通常d99會記係個心度,積積埋埋就....
不過dABC係咁架,佢地通常扮有性格,如果你當佢係朋友唔係你叔仔,無輩份之別先可以同佢地溝通到...仲可以同你好FRIEND...
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Misskat


複式洋房

積分: 151


29#
發表於 08-11-6 13:32 |只看該作者
My C6's two younger brothers and the wife of one brother do not respect me and C6. I used to take the initiative to say hi and call their names. They just said, "huh". After I had given brith to my baby, C6's sister-in-law beacme very impolite to me. She and her C6 did not say any congrats to me and C6. It is OK. One time I went to 6299's apartment (the younger brother and sister-in-law) and said hi to the sister-in-law by calling her name. She pretended she did not hear me and look the other way Ever since, I would not take initiative to say hi to them.

The other brother is very impolite too. He lived in our apartment for a while. I cooked a lot of meals for him. One time he stayed in our house during Chinese new year, he did not say happy new year to me and C6 when he saw us on the new year day. When our common friends came over, he said happy new year to them. I had been nice to him and I did not deserve this kind of treatment.

So I almost ignored them from then on...
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wmpl


大宅

積分: 3000


28#
發表於 08-10-24 04:29 |只看該作者
哩個年代,仲有咩叫唔叫阿哥阿嫂吖,當然,對方對你有一個尊重嘅稱呼係會開心啲嘅,不過做人又唔好太執著,如果人哋係唔尊重你嘅,就叫乜都係"銀"耳~~

我叫我兩個阿哥都係叫名,咁佢哋又從來都冇覺得我唔尊重佢哋喎,反而我大哥以前有個女朋友就會好多事咁規定我哋幾個妹要叫阿哥,仲一定要叫"大哥"...[而家諗返,可能其實係想我哋叫佢做阿嫂,唔好叫名啦!]終於咪乞我哋憎又惹我阿哥討厭囉,事關我哋叫阿哥做阿哥佢哋都唔識應我哋,真係唔係講笑,叫幾百次都冇反應,我哋叫唔慣又硬係叫到怪怪咁,終於我阿哥咪又係要求我哋叫返名算數,大家都舒服啲,佢女朋友...唉,真係法國大餐.....~~

我C6啲細佬妹都唔係次次叫我,有好多時都係我主動打招呼,不過我又唔覺得咁樣係有問題,又唔會覺得好唔開心噃,佢啲細佬妹都唔係次次叫我C6,而家諗返起,仲好似係我C6主動叫細佬妹嘅多,我亦唔覺佢啲細佬妹咁樣係唔尊重佢大佬,因為尊重係喺心裡面,同埋,人哋啲家庭習慣我係唔會干預!!

人哋唔叫你,你可以叫佢先,你又明知佢同你朋友玩得咁埋都仲同你朋友講你叔仔女友唔好,咁你今次真係自掘陷阱嚟跳,係你自己攞嚟唔開心la!!

放開啲,嗰個只不過係人哋細佬妹,唔駛咁緊張!!

[ 本文章最後由 wmpl 於 08-10-24 04:31 編輯 ]
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NYmom


大宅

積分: 1724


27#
發表於 08-10-24 03:41 |只看該作者
我姑仔都唔叫人架，不過我又無所謂wor。因為家教不同。
我老爺奶奶唔識教，男家d人唔識叫人架，我都教o左老公好耐，先識一入門口大聲叫我 daddy & mommy

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fungwongphie


珍珠宮

積分: 46803

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26#
發表於 08-10-23 11:01 |只看該作者
樓主(930米芝蓮),

Don't feel upset la ~~ you can't control what other ppl think and how they behave. Just like typing your comments in a thread. Some ppl may overlook, some may interpret them superficially and some may even mis-interpret them tim.

You have done your part really good ga la. If they don't say hi, you don't need to say hi to them purposely. Just a smile is good enough. Sometimes, it is not necessary to do this 門面野 too much. Easy ~~

原文章由 930米芝蓮 於 08-10-21 14:21 發表
我都有問我c6係咪我得罪左佢..上兩個月叔仔生日禁我地同d fd幫佢搞左個生日party, 切cake後禁我好主動同飲柸同佢講生日快樂, 點知佢無應過我, 當時我c6係我隔離都睇到佢無應我, 禁我咪再同佢講多次, 點知佢行開左去同d fd玩, 無理我之後我都好無穩..唉我都唔知點解會禁, 其實我都係想大家關係好d姐...

[ 本文章最後由 fungwongphie 於 08-10-23 11:06 編輯 ]
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何謂不誠實使用電腦??
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sandy1425


珍珠宮

積分: 41032

好媽媽勳章 大廚勳章


25#
發表於 08-10-22 09:08 |只看該作者
我見到我ah哥都係點下頭,我同佢由細到大都係叫名,我吾叫阿哥又代表我無禮貌嗎？？？
莫名其妙
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sandy1425


珍珠宮

積分: 41032

好媽媽勳章 大廚勳章


24#
發表於 08-10-22 09:05 |只看該作者
原文章由 Vca 於 08-10-21 19:33 發表
根本樓主一開始就擺出個阿嫂款!

既然妳唔鍾意叔仔條女，咁咪唔好再同叔仔佢地一齊出去同自己朋友玩囉! 冇必要同朋友講個女仔既不是~~~

妳朋友同妳講係啱既 - 佢唔同妳打招呼，妳可以先同對方打招呼! 只係妳一早已經有 ...

同意！！！
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alik


公爵府

積分: 25507


23#
發表於 08-10-22 08:01 |只看該作者
我叔仔都唔會同任何人打招呼, 所以我都唔恨佢叫我, 我都唔同佢打招呼, 但唔會嬲佢(佢叫我做亞嫂既話仲好似叫老晒咁, 佢年紀大過我). 我只會覺得佢父母以前無家教, 仲縱到佢生骨大頭菜咁. 加埋佢性格問題, 唔係好夠膽同唔熟既人傾偈, 打開話匣子(好彩我老公唔係咁, 再粗魯都識少少禮貌), 要佢廿幾三十幾人去改, 係難d.


亞嫂唔係大晒, 同兄弟姊妹屬平輩, 唔使下下擺晒大嫂款, 明知佢係咁既, 你又唔甘心主動同佢打招呼, 咪唔好理佢當佢透明囉, 咁介意盞自討沒趣.

[ 本文章最後由 alik 於 08-10-22 08:04 編輯 ]
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930米芝蓮


民房

積分: 6


22#
發表於 08-10-21 19:42 |只看該作者
原文章由 Joanna.L 於 08-10-21 15:02 發表


This is good suggestion. 我叔仔唔叫我都算,佢帶條女返屋企,竟然唔識叫我c6,叫聲哥哥都唔識,咁佢又識叫我6299,佢條女仲親我同c6唔係屋企,走入黎我房玩電腦,因為叔仔未買,咁我又唔會咁小人之心lock門啦!點知我返到 ...


Joanna 同我諗既一樣, 每次佢帶條女出嚟都唔會叫我c6&我, 我c6都係大仔, 好似你講得啱叫聲亞哥都好呀, 佢又係識得叫6299喎, 所以覺得佢地一d禮貌都無...唉..不過算啦, 鬼叫把口生係人地到..原來都有人好似我禁既..我會明白&唔會唔開心啦~..多謝各位!!
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Vca


男爵府

積分: 5681


21#
發表於 08-10-21 19:33 |只看該作者
根本樓主一開始就擺出個阿嫂款!

既然妳唔鍾意叔仔條女，咁咪唔好再同叔仔佢地一齊出去同自己朋友玩囉! 冇必要同朋友講個女仔既不是~~~

妳朋友同妳講係啱既 - 佢唔同妳打招呼，妳可以先同對方打招呼! 只係妳一早已經有"我係阿嫂~ 我大過你..." - 依個咁既觀念，先覺得有問題! 需知道~ 嫂唔嫂都好，妳同佢都只係平輩!
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晞玥


珍珠宮

積分: 34110

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20#
發表於 08-10-21 18:59 |只看該作者
反而我叔仔幾好,佢有叫我做阿嫂,但我細姑仔就冇喇~大姑仔叫我個名,細姑仔當我透明,見到我唔會叫!
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魚肉


大宅

積分: 4934

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19#
發表於 08-10-21 16:42 |只看該作者
m......................
我個叔仔同姑仔都係從來冇叫過我一聲亞嫂喎
咁我初時都有小小介意過既,咁又諗深一層
唓,你唔叫咪唔叫囉,我又唔會痕唔會痛既
況且我同佢地都冇乜2句,我唔會當佢地係fd囉...

但係我自己個亞嫂呢,我都冇叫佢亞嫂架喎,
我地都係叫佢名既,咁佢又好似冇介意到喎,
仲同我家姐幾fd添,因為佢地住得近,成日一齊去街既
同我地e邊人都幾融洽架而家,有講有笑咁...
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Ginsa1008


大宅

積分: 3894


18#
發表於 08-10-21 16:38 |只看該作者
原來都都幾多人重階級觀念...mouth:
都係打聲招呼ja~
如果連say hi or主動同佢講野都唔理ga...如明顯佢係唔妥你...你都無需要為呢d野而怒氣...

我返去最多都係叫我男朋友呀ma...多數都唔會叫佢呀哥同佢女朋友...大家都覺得無咩問題架wo...
其實係呀哥呀嫂都好...大家都係平輩ja~
除左長輩外...表哥表姐、fd、男朋友家姐呀哥(佢地d男女朋友)都好...全部都係叫名....~
我男朋友都係最細ga...如果要我做細嫂做到好似做妹仔咁無乜地位...我會好唔妥lo...
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juicypig


珍珠宮

積分: 30278

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17#
發表於 08-10-21 16:36 |只看該作者
我返到奶奶屋企見到大伯都係無打招呼架喎,,,,但係有野都會搭嗲囉, 又唔覺得咁大問題喎
一個人之所以快樂,不是因為她擁有得多, 而是因為她計較得少
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leopak


侯爵府

積分: 22657


16#
發表於 08-10-21 16:15 |只看該作者
原來"樓主"都同我一樣幾介意自己係男家弟妹面前既稱呼既.
我仲慘啦, 姑仔夠膽死同我老公講, 因為佢係澳洲讀個書, 所以跟外國人一樣, 除了父母外, 其餘既人都叫名喎,

PS. 但係衰在佢係澳洲讀個個一年書咋喎, 重要係未畢到業個種, 就為了當時男朋友就飛番來lu.(所以我同老公講, 叫佢畢到業先同我講, 佢係外國人啦), 都晒氣.:;pppp:
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icyling


大宅

積分: 1072


15#
發表於 08-10-21 15:58 |只看該作者
依家既人都好少理d禮貌架喇...
唔好話見到你唔say hi...見到自己阿媽阿爸都未必會嗌佢地喇...所以我覺得樓主唔使咁耿耿於懷囉...
而且我諗你同你叔仔年紀都唔會相處好遠既啫...你唔使下下都當佢你叔仔,可以當佢係你既fd之一...咁你漸漸就覺得say唔say hi都唔係好大件事...其實有時真係唔使長輩觀念咁重,如果大家可以用朋友既形式相處咪大家都開心d囉
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