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如果有朝一日你個仔咁樣,你會唔會唔理個仔?? [複製鏈接]

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話說我個叔仔係菠羅雞à一味靠黏.之前欠咭數要99俾.成30歲人每月俾$1000家用
帶理個女友返嚟住,每日包三餐(lunch pack lunch).食反飲茶咁多年一次都冇俾過錢.自己收埋收埋ｄ錢就去旅行,買波鞋,買电話!!!
佢同99講到明一儲夠$就即搬??!!

佢條女係經典!嚟到屋企呃我哋錢
我老公帮佢買傳銷產品十幾万.我真係想死呀!!! 我老公自己都要負好大責任

但我最唔明白点解佢哋成屋企都只係覺得係女友的問題?人哋又唔係同我哋有親.佢呃我哋我只好話佢貪錢. 最有問題係pk叔仔.引狼入室.自己屋企人都呃都揾笨.呢Ｄ叫無恥!!!!!!但冇人覺得佢有問題喎???
99每次話 ”唔通唔理個仔咩”但自己次次都激到生蝦咁跳
我未做mommy.我好難理解呢家人搞什么??!!!

本來我都好尊動99.但呢ｄ事會我對佢好滿!!佢身為一家之主都唔出聲

[ 本帖最後由 imconfusing 於 09-1-15 16:13 編輯 ]

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原帖由 PINK0717 於 09-1-16 14:01 發表

睇完你既post..我個腦就諗起梅媽媽...同梅x明~~~

你地重記唔記得..梅媽媽曾經講過一句說話...."我做人呀媽...我養我養個仔唔得既咩??"

我諗以後每次我為呢件事開心我都耍諗起呢句
99要養仔ス点到我理

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However, my brother's wife may think that my mother is a very 'bad' 99........

原帖由 tungtsz 於 09-1-16 14:14 發表
你媽媽處理得非常好啊...

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你媽媽處理得非常好啊...

原帖由 ac321 於 09-1-16 12:49 發表
Not all the mothers are like her.
My mother is not.
My brother want to 'put' her daughter in my family last month. It is because: her wife complain that my brother give too less living expenses for h ...

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原帖由 A.C.C. 於 09-1-16 12:22 發表

我個case係, 叔仔之前為大機構主管一名, 粘住我地住, 水電煤有線電話房租伙食全部唔分擔(我同老公當時租屋), 成30歲人每月連$100家用都唔俾, 連佢隻狗嘅dog food都係我地買, 收埋D錢去買跑車.....之後覺得辛苦唔要 ...

睇完你既post..我個腦就諗起梅媽媽...同梅x明~~~

你地重記唔記得..梅媽媽曾經講過一句說話...."我做人呀媽...我養我養個仔唔得既咩??"

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大部份既父母, 都會認為自己既仔女無錯, 自己既仔女係最辛苦, 人地既仔女 (新抱/ 女婿) 就唔辛苦既, 呢d叫切肉不離皮, 好難會好清醒咁發現自己個仔女有問題架！

希望呢度各位爸爸媽媽, 包括我自己, touchwood如果自己仔女咁有問題, 都唔好當局者迷！

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原帖由 imconfusing 於 09-1-16 13:17 發表

ac321,你個case簡直係誇張

边有唔耍自己仔女的阿媽架??

no la...

個女人唔係唔要自己個女，係想人地幫佢養埋個女者。

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She always say she help my parents (and my brother) to give birth of a granddaughter.
As my brother can't earn as much as before this year. She complain that my brother only give her about 5k per month (my brother pay mortgage for the flat monthly). It is not enough for living expenses of 2 people. (My brother work in mainland China and back home once a month). She believe that her daughter is my parents' granddaughter. My parents or my family have the responsibility to give $ to her daughter...........
P.S. My brother (and his wife) never give 1 cents to my parent since they got marry.

原帖由 imconfusing 於 09-1-16 13:17 發表

ac321,你個case簡直係誇張

边有唔耍自己仔女的阿媽架??

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-1-16 12:49 發表
Not all the mothers are like her.
My mother is not.
My brother want to 'put' her daughter in my family last month. It is because: her wife complain that my brother give too less living expenses for h ...

ac321,你個case簡直係誇張

边有唔耍自己仔女的阿媽架??

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Not all the mothers are like her.
My mother is not.
My brother want to 'put' her daughter in my family last month. It is because: her wife complain that my brother give too less living expenses for her. So that she would place her daughter (5 years old) in my family so that my yan yan can take care of her in the coming years, with my two kids. She won't pay any cents to me..........
I refuse her. And when my mother know that, she called my brother and said:
If you (or your wife) 'put' your daughter in your younger sister's family and run away, I will take her to the police station as lost kid. If you want to find her some years later, then contact the social worker. Don't ask me then!

原帖由 tungtsz 於 09-1-15 16:32 發表
睇到樓主99既事都感到好無奈...作為媽媽唔通真係係仔女有事既時候唔幫佢地咩...但係有時幫佢變成害佢...而且而家件事又牽涉到個仔既女友...自己個仔都話唔聽...咁人地既女又點出聲呢?? ...

[ 本帖最後由 ac321 於 09-1-16 13:34 編輯 ]

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原帖由 imconfusing 於 09-1-15 16:04 發表
話說我個叔仔係菠羅雞à一味靠黏.之前欠咭數要99俾.成30歲人每月俾$1000家用
帶理個女友返嚟住,每日包三餐(lunch pack lunch).食反飲茶咁多年一次都冇俾過錢.自己收埋收埋ｄ錢就去旅行,買波鞋,買电話!!!
佢同99講到明 ...

我個case係, 叔仔之前為大機構主管一名, 粘住我地住, 水電煤有線電話房租伙食全部唔分擔(我同老公當時租屋), 成30歲人每月連$100家用都唔俾, 連佢隻狗嘅dog food都係我地買, 收埋D錢去買跑車.....之後覺得辛苦唔要番工, 番去同奶奶住, 做隱蔽中年一做就4年, 日日就上網打機瞓覺

我大伯仲神奇, 結婚生仔離婚再結婚都係問阿媽攞錢, 雖然唔同阿媽住, 但水電煤有線電話房租伙食爆咗卡數全部阿媽俾錢, 成40歲人一蚊家用都無俾過

街外人睇到一定覺得我奶奶好可憐, 兩個仔都唔生性, 自己屋企人都揾笨, 但其實我奶奶覺得呢兩個仔先叫好仔孝順仔, 因為佢地好需要阿媽嘅照顧, 我奶奶覺得咁先叫一家人

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