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其實佢地都做過後生, 有做過阿媽, 見到自己個B有D小問題, 點都會唔開心, 佢地唔會先安慰, 仲要落井下石, 踩多腳比你嘆, 我嗰刻聽到99咁講, 我爸我媽嬲到震, 我剩識係度喊(喺醫院大房), 好彩C6攬住我叫佢媽收聲

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無呀, e生話好小事, 1 yrs old 可做手術, 現在已經正常有10只小手指 (佢現在2 yrs old 啦). 不過當時比太99話真係好唔開心, 不過我已向c6投訴, 比我再聽到, 佢地唔洗再見亞仔.:;pppp:

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-2-19 10:44 發表
我隻99=> the same, 攪埋d小動作,
However 我真係插爆佢.........

Similar like Saaa's 99,
我坐月時99好無文化，She wanted to have our key so that she can 隨時用鎖匙直出直入，我 say no (directly in front of ...

男家d人點可以逼妳交出鎖匙? 真係唔講道理.

我唔係經常上BK, 想搵我嘅朋友請email: [email protected]

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太99一知道bb一出來是多左只手指 ????

原帖由 十一月 於 09-2-20 12:16 發表

我阿b陰囊積水, 好少事, 我開刀訓緊政府, 99話我都唔知點生, 佢生三個都唔會係咁

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原帖由 emily21921 於 09-2-20 11:04 發表
太99一知道bb一出來是多左只手指, 就問我"你快啲想吓你做過什麼嚟?個仔掂會攬到今", 當時我只係出左院一日. 後來坐月時食自己+自己湊b. 做到得半條人命. ...

我阿b陰囊積水, 好少事, 我開刀訓緊政府, 99話我都唔知點生, 佢生三個都唔會係咁

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I am sorry to hear that.....
Do you check the DNA of your baby?

原帖由 emily21921 於 09-2-20 11:04 發表
太99一知道bb一出來是多左只手指, 就問我"你快啲想吓你做過什麼嚟?個仔掂會攬到今", 當時我只係出左院一日. 後來坐月時食自己+自己湊b. 做到得半條人命. ...

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太99一知道bb一出來是多左只手指, 就問我"你快啲想吓你做過什麼嚟?個仔掂會攬到今", 當時我只係出左院一日.

後來坐月時食自己+自己湊b. 做到得半條人命.

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我隻9仲衰，大肚時問過佢湊唔湊，佢就話自已年紀大湊唔到，我叫媽咪幫我湊，湊到歲幾，識行識走，隻9又話：e+ 識行識走，我要湊返。

我采佢都傻

仔仔06-12-2003出世

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-2-19 15:34 發表
I see...........
Never 個仔比99湊!!!!!!

係, 雖然只係比佢地湊左半年, 真係好後悔,
你都唔知, 我初初湊返阿b, 唔止唔慣咁簡單, 我要返工, 每朝個仔五點半就起身, 其他野緊係好多手尾啦, 最對唔住係我媽, 佢真係幫我湊得好辛苦。
仲有嗰時阿b嗰段記憶好少, 因為99湊日夜, 好少機會抱阿b, 加上99唔比我抱呢

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I see...........
Never 個仔比99湊!!!!!!

原帖由 十一月 於 09-2-19 14:20 發表

我無同c6投訴99 62, 只是佢地試過係我面前同c6講我的不是, 我知道後就鬧返佢地, 跟住我抱個仔返屋企, 至始我見到佢地我就黑面, 同對佢地視而不見, 聽而不聞, 莫不關心, 嗰陣同我老公嘈係, 個仔比99湊, 我一直都唔 ...

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成日叫我去佢屋企食飯, 因為佢地想見粒孫, 如果我個女係咁痴住我, 佢兩老就會好唔高興, 哈哈哈, 不過盈盈由細到大最痴都係我喎！

初初又成日指指點點話我同埋我阿媽(盈盈係婆婆湊既)唔識湊孫, 但係盈盈湊到仲大隻又醒過佢地湊個對外孫喎！

叫我老公配我屋企條key俾佢, 一日都黑自出自入, 當正自己屋企咁！

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-2-19 13:17 發表
As your husband 唔幫佢阿媽or you now.
Then, don't 為99 62 d事同c6嘈. Don't complain any about your 99 in front of your c6.
Just let your 99 佢同個仔complain.
I can tell you that who complain more f ...

我無同c6投訴99 62, 只是佢地試過係我面前同c6講我的不是, 我知道後就鬧返佢地, 跟住我抱個仔返屋企, 至始我見到佢地我就黑面, 同對佢地視而不見, 聽而不聞, 莫不關心, 嗰陣同我老公嘈係, 個仔比99湊, 我一直都唔出聲, 等到我忍無可忍, 我一次過同c6嘈, 跟住抱阿b返阿媽度, 最後阿媽做和事佬, 兩公婆先無事, c6知我嘈得就括出去, 大不了就離婚, 佢唔想頭家散, 就唔會同我講佢兩老的事

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As your husband 唔幫佢阿媽or you now.
Then, don't 為99 62 d事同c6嘈. Don't complain any about your 99 in front of your c6.
Just let your 99 佢同個仔complain.
I can tell you that who complain more frequently, who will force the man stand to the opposite side.
Now, I won't tell my husband what happened with 99...... unless he ask for. If my 99 complain about me in front of my husband, my husband will only say 1 word to 99: you are always a trouble marker!

原帖由 十一月 於 09-2-19 12:53 發表

咁講, 我無比壓力我老公幫邊一邊, 我唔會主動同我99嘈, 因為我大多採取視而不見, 聽而不理政策, 假若佢比說話我聽另計, 如果係電話到的說話, 佢同個仔講我話佢咩咩咩(即使我係有講過, 我都唔會認, 佢阿媽都試過講左都話無講過, 我阿媽在場聽住)
其實我當然試過為我99 62 d事同c6嘈, 我鬧足c6 2粒鐘, 無重覆, 每件事都有根據, 有理據, 佢幫唔到佢阿媽, 至始我點做, 佢都唔理, 可能費事再嘈掛

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-2-19 12:07 發表
It is a good begining......其實佢偏幫邊一方, 佢都會比人鬧, 所以佢兩邊都唔理

I remember that ........
in the first few years, when I 嘈 with 99, I always remind him (my husband) 兩邊都唔理, go to toi ...

咁講, 我無比壓力我老公幫邊一邊, 我唔會主動同我99嘈, 因為我大多採取視而不見, 聽而不理政策, 假若佢比說話我聽另計, 如果係電話到的說話, 佢同個仔講我話佢咩咩咩(即使我係有講過, 我都唔會認, 佢阿媽都試過講左都話無講過, 我阿媽在場聽住)
其實我當然試過為我99 62 d事同c6嘈, 我鬧足c6 2粒鐘, 無重覆, 每件事都有根據, 有理據, 佢幫唔到佢阿媽, 至始我點做, 佢都唔理, 可能費事再嘈掛

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上一胎仲同6299住，生完99都對我好好，62就淨係理個孫，當左個仔係佢o既咁。今胎搬左出o黎住，仲未知到時會點，因為老公話唔俾我自己坐月........

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我6299都有我地屋企key & 試過唔出就自己走上黎
我就同我老公講, 叫佢同返佢父母講: "下次上黎前電個電話通知聲, 可能我地會出左架"
咁佢地之後就無試過自出自入喇

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It is a good begining......其實佢偏幫邊一方, 佢都會比人鬧, 所以佢兩邊都唔理

I remember that ........
in the first few years, when I 嘈 with 99, I always remind him (my husband) 兩邊都唔理, go to toilet or down on the street or back home.
It is because the argue is between 2 women. Men are better not involved in. One is your wife, one is your mother..... what can you do?
However, my 99 force him (my husband) stand on her side........ she always cry in front of him, as well as his brother/sister, request others (62, other brother/sisters) to give presure to him......
Some years later, my husband stand on my side. However, I always remind him don't involve in our argue.

And now, he support me (for everything I do for 99). He believe that all those argue are started by my 99...... she is a problem marker!

My experience is: Don't force your husband. Don't give any presure to your husband. Then, your husband will stand on your side.

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I want to share my story.
In the pass chinese new year, it happened again!

I got a call at about 9:00 pm. It is my 99.

99: What will you do tomorrow?
I: I have some friends they will visit me in the afternoom. We will have lunch together.
99: That's good. i.e. you will be at home. I will visit you in the afternoon, with 62, my younger son, his wife, his kids. My daughter + her husband may also join us, depends on the time.
I: Sorry, I have schedule in the afternoon.
99: I know. I am your 99, they are your families. You should introduce us to your friends. All your freinds should know who is your 99.
I: However, it is very impolite for me to do that (to my friends). You will disturb our meeting. May be you can come before 11:30 am or after 4:00 pm. It is because our meeting will start at 12:00 - 4:00pm.
99: I must visit you during that time. I should sleep in the morning. As you know, I won't wake up until 11 p.m. Do you think you are so important so that I should use my sleeping time in the morning and visit you? After 4:00pm, I should prepear my dinner. I will be busy for dinner then.
I: Then, find another day.
99: I tell you now, listen carefully. You are 'very very very very' impolite if you refuse us to visit you tomorrow in the afternoon. I am your 99, your husband's mother, your mother in-law. I can do what I want in your flat xxxxxxxxxxx
I: OK, you have the right to do what you want. However, I won't open my door for you.

Then, my 99 is very angry, and cut the call.

The next day, I told what happened to my husband. And my husband shout at me:

husband: You are too stupid! You should not answer like that. If my mother call you again next time, never tell her your schedule. You should ask her what do she want before give any responds to her. And you should only answer : yes, she can or no, she can't. And never explain your reason.

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