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Siuchoi


珍珠宮

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發表於 09-3-4 13:26 |只看該作者
呢度咁多姊妹比男家恰~ 身為媽咪既你:

1) 點保護囡囡唔比男家恰?
2) 比男家恰時你會點做?
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jwmae


大宅

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32#
發表於 09-3-6 20:38 |只看該作者
講到尾其實都好睇個女婿咩表現,就算家門長為女打開,唔通做父母想見到個女唔開心到要返外家咩

有個UNCLE講得啱呀,千祈唔好嫁女入豪門,揀女婿最緊要就得佢個女。佢個女就爽啦,有個咁有見地同實力的老豆 。結婚時有豪宅做嫁妝,生BB又有股票收,換車換樓全部女家照起 !

禮金,禮餅,酒席全部都有要,UNCLE話呢D係禮數,佢養到個女咁大當然受得起.
至於6299只有頂住條氣話個仔嫁咗人囉.

另一個實力UNCLE主張木門對木門,以為個女嫁入大戶做闊太就幸福,但當有錢仔遇着有錢女,互不相讓之下,受苦咪係粒孫同自己個女囉




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chanwendy


伯爵府

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31#
發表於 09-3-6 10:16 |只看該作者
本身我同男家關係唔差, 只係唔特別 close 啫, 不過我個囡在男家就好受歡迎, 因為男家不論外孫定內孫都係男多過女 (五男兩女), 但對上一個女孫都已經超過 20 歲喇, 所以我個囡就好受歡迎, 個個都爭住想同佢玩. 所以我就冇呢個問題, 只有弟婦個仔想日想鍚同攪亞囡, 每次都搞到亞囡好驚啫.
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Cat1218


大宅

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30#
發表於 09-3-6 02:06 |只看該作者
如果我第時有個女,我都會儲定d錢俾佢,第時唔好俾d99睇少,好似我而家咁就可憐了,無阿媽撐腰........

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EVA222


禁止訪問

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發表於 09-3-5 17:50 |只看該作者
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A.C.C.


大宅

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28#
發表於 09-3-5 11:19 |只看該作者
原帖由 Siuchoi 於 09-3-4 13:26 發表
1) 點保護囡囡唔比男家恰?
2) 比男家恰時你會點做?

1. 一定要囡囡學識經濟獨立, 就算佢想做全職太太/媽媽, 都要教曉佢有自己嘅收入

2. 接囡返娘家
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jwmae


大宅

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27#
發表於 09-3-4 22:29 |只看該作者
叫老公為咗個女再努力搵多D錢,咩事都有老豆照住,唔係咩呀,




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麟媽媽


王國長老

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26#
發表於 09-3-4 20:30 |只看該作者
如果我有個女，
教佢兩個一定要經濟獨立先好結婚，
千萬唔好大左個肚先入門，
如果無能力，又要同奶奶住，
又要人幫佢揍BB，
大左個肚佢地覺得你仲走得去邊？
咁樣自己唔爭氣實比男家睇死架嘛。
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Cat1218


大宅

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25#
發表於 09-3-4 19:28 |只看該作者
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-4 13:41 發表
男家 can't 恰 my kids.
你會點做?
I never give any change for 男家 to 恰 us (me and my kids).
What I did is:
1. never live with 男家 families, include 62, 99, and his brothers/sisters.
2. never ask fo ...

咁我諗我仲勁d,我自從搬左之後,無俾99上過來,搬去邊都唔會通知佢
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一家的太陽


男爵府

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24#
發表於 09-3-4 18:40 |只看該作者
如果我有囡,我會從小就教佢做人道理,
教佢要學識獨立(包括經濟及其他),堅強.
如佢能做到,勿論去到邊度,都唔使驚比人蝦.
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Aline


複式洋房

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發表於 09-3-4 18:05 |只看該作者
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-4 06:41 發表
男家 can't 恰 my kids.
你會點做?
I never give any change for 男家 to 恰 us (me and my kids).
What I did is:
1. never live with 男家 families, include 62, 99, and his brothers/sisters.
2. never ask fo ...

YES! Also, I'll tell my daughter to keep a distance with the in-laws since the first day shd'll know them so as NOT to give them any hope of 'close relation'! :;pppp:

I don't have any daughter for the moment but 1 son.
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lauretta


子爵府

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22#
發表於 09-3-4 17:07 |只看該作者
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-4 15:28 發表
However, their is a kind of tradition of we Chinese is: 62 99 can treat their daughter in-law as a bun bun. It is because they think that they (or his son) have already pay for the daughter in-law's p ...


我父母都冇拎過男家1分1毫,但99仍然想當我工人咁用(我地唔係一齊住,而且實則係我被佢點過n咁多次,最近唔得閒幫佢,佢就鬧),真係以為我好好蝦,我真係想同佢講....
99我唔係你想像中咁好蝦,只係因為我愛你個仔,唔想佢唔開心我先唔同你嘈,由得你鬧由得你話,等你鬧完話完,我就委屈到喊,好囉,而家連你個仔都睇唔過眼,覺得你野蠻,覺得你老馮,而且我父母養大我,我幫佢地忙係應份,但請你記住,你從來冇對我付出過d咩,我唔係應份一定要幫你嫁,只係因為我愛你個仔,所以我去幫你忙,但你就越來越過份,仲要講到好似我應該幫你而唔應該幫父母,如果唔係既話,我就唔0岩,就係錯,就係因為你唔講道理,你個仔對住你先咁勞氣咋

[ 本帖最後由 lauretta 於 09-3-4 17:19 編輯 ]
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chingbb


男爵府

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發表於 09-3-4 16:52 |只看該作者
我諗除了以上的"方法"外; 我覺得要自己的囡囡懂得基本的互相尊重, 要懂得原諒, 等等! 自己要做好本份; 我仲會同囡囡講, 有什麼事, 都可以同媽媽商量和談心事, 最緊要是媽媽的門, 真係永遠打開的!
Don't worry!Be happy!
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ac321


侯爵府

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好媽媽勳章


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發表於 09-3-4 16:35 |只看該作者
That's the main point I say: as a parents, don't take those (table/$$/cake) from your daughter.
It is beacuse, in the point of 99, his son is also a member of 男家. If his son give $ to your parents, i.e. 男家 give $ to your parents. (even some of the $ is your saving)
Therefore, I won't ask for 1 cents from my son in-law. That's what I will do to 保護 my daughter........


原帖由 心抱 於 09-3-4 16:20 發表


我都做齊你所講既野,(table/$$/cake those from me and C6's money) 但現實係,好多99吾臭米氣,佢地吾會諗你講既野,佢地只係覺得新抱係黎攞著數,不過好在我吾理佢地.

點精神protect囡囡都無用, 我地要為囡囡留定好 ...
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littlecarey


男爵府

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育兒性格勳章 畀面勳章


19#
發表於 09-3-4 16:23 |只看該作者
"點精神protect囡囡都無用, 我地要為囡囡留定好多彈藥$$$, 到佢嫁左都可以係男家大大聲講野."
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心抱


子爵府

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發表於 09-3-4 16:20 |只看該作者
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-4 15:28 發表
However, their is a kind of tradition of we Chinese is: 62 99 can treat their daughter in-law as a bun bun. It is because they think that they (or his son) have already pay for the daughter in-law's p ...


我都做齊你所講既野,(table/$$/cake those from me and C6's money) 但現實係,好多99吾臭米氣,佢地吾會諗你講既野,佢地只係覺得新抱係黎攞著數,不過好在我吾理佢地.

點精神protect囡囡都無用, 我地要為囡囡留定好多彈藥$$$, 到佢嫁左都可以係男家大大聲講野.

結婚買樓千其吾好用到男家$,後果真係不堪設想.
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ac321


侯爵府

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好媽媽勳章


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發表於 09-3-4 15:28 |只看該作者
However, their is a kind of tradition of we Chinese is: 62 99 can treat their daughter in-law as a bun bun. It is because they think that they (or his son) have already pay for the daughter in-law's parent!
Therefore, 62 99 always say that it is your (daughter in-law's) responsiblitly to take care of 62 99, ...........
I think that my parents is so clever. They won't take 1 cents from us when we get marry. They said that if they take the $/tables/cakes (ofcourse we pay, not my 99 pay), my 99 will think that his son have already paid for my parent to buy me. Therefore, I am their family's belongings. (ofcourse I don't think so, buy it is the traditional thinking)
My parents told to my 99 that: how much they pay for our marry, my parents will pay double for us. Ofcourse, my 99 won't pay 1 cents.

Until now, my parents always said that (in front of my 99): my daughter got married, but she never marry to my 99's family. She just built up her own family.

Thanks to my parents.

原帖由 mother904 於 09-3-4 15:14 發表

I think the parents have the right to asK for money, cake and tables when their daughter get marry, as their is a kind of tradition of we Chinese. However, I think these money should be paid by the ...

[ 本帖最後由 ac321 於 09-3-4 15:40 編輯 ]
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BBTWIN


大宅

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發表於 09-3-4 15:25 |只看該作者
唔好意思，冇睇清題目tim.

我都係受傳統家庭思想長大．我都會學我媽咪先教兩個女要尊重老人家．特別係老爺奶奶．不過我都知相見好，同住難呢個道理．所以我會提醒兩個女可以的話都唔好一齊住．盡量避免衝突．女大o左應該識點去保護自己，做媽咪只可充當聆聽及安撫的角式，我都唔想兩個女為o左婆媳糾紛而攪散自己個家，代價實在太大啦．
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mother904


翡翠宮

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發表於 09-3-4 15:14 |只看該作者
原帖由 ac321 於 09-3-4 14:37 發表
I find that most of the case in BK ...... when the wife complain that they are 俾男家蝦 have 1 or more conditions as:

1) live with 男家. (may be no $ to rent/buy her flat)
2) her parents ask for $, t ...



I think the parents have the right to asK for money, cake and tables when their daughter get marry, as their is a kind of tradition of we Chinese. However, I think these money should be paid by the one who get mary, not by their parents.
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BBTWIN


大宅

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14#
發表於 09-3-4 15:10 |只看該作者
我自己就冇老爺奶奶,同C6拍拖時佢地巳經唔o係度．不過如果佢地仲健在，又真係發生不愉快時．我媽咪都係會叫我忍．因為我媽咪係一個非常專重姻親o既人．佢成日教我要對大伯姑奶好．所以我知道佢一定會叫我忍，以頭家為重．
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