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好興.....一定要呻下.
BB就黎出世,我地係同99+兩個姑仔一齊住,所以要掉左D野同,唔要張書台先可以放到BB床.我就比左張書台我大姑仔,令佢電腦台同書台合二為一,我就可以買個櫃放BB衫同我地兩公婆D雜物....

昨日個櫃送黎...99都冇講野,到左夜晚,老公同我講話佢個細妹覺得個櫃太深色,我聽左就算都冇理佢...
點知我一早起身,99叫我攞個櫃去換淺色D...我話係訂造冇得換,佢冇再出聲.之後我同老公講,佢訓緊,冇咩點理我....之後我打去問佢99有冇同佢提換櫃嘅事,原本真係因為佢個好唔中意:;pppp: ,所以話要換...我即刻嬲都飛起,

一個櫃係我比錢,二係我用,佢憑咩一句唔中意就叫我換呀,唔好話冇得換,有我都唔會換...99成日當佢個女係千金小姐係佢嘅事,冇可能佢一句唔中意就要全世界就晒佢...

[ 本帖最後由 JOEYCMY 於 09-5-13 11:55 編輯 ]

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Tell the truth, I don't like her.............
=>當正人地屋企係自己渡假屋 !!
She just think it is her house. She ask my parents to prepear a room for her daughter. It is because my kids have a room each!!!!!!!! Therefore, her daughter should also have a room here.....

Therefore, I heat people to put their belongings in my flat/house! (Even my house is larger or not)

原帖由 牛精仔 於 09-5-23 00:18 發表

呢d人又真係幾乞人憎wor, 當正人地屋企係自己渡假屋 !! 睇黎樓主屋企都好大下, 先引到呢d生番入屋 ! 仲要帶d細家具黎, 算點先 ?!

比我, 我一早叫佢搬走d垃圾 (esp 果d同自己屋企唔match 果d ) ...

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其實樓主都好無奈

我哋支你

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樓主算啦，有咩唔開心咪上來呻下發洩下。咁多人住一間咁細既屋就一定會有摩擦的。

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原帖由 ac321 於 09-5-22 10:40 發表
Agree!!!!!
I also want to share my experience (similiar case).

My sister in-law (my brother's wife) always live in my house in weekends (frequently, usually come on Friday, and go on Sunday).
Last F ...

呢d人又真係幾乞人憎wor, 當正人地屋企係自己渡假屋 !!

睇黎樓主屋企都好大下, 先引到呢d生番入屋 ! 仲要帶d細家具黎, 算點先 ?!

比我, 我一早叫佢搬走d垃圾 (esp 果d同自己屋企唔match 果d )

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[quote]原帖由 JOEYCMY 於 09-5-13 13:11 發表

其實而加99已經冇咁寸架啦,開頭識我C6時,我係做美容架,完全係睇我唔起,因為佢兩個女都係大學生.第一次同我飲茶就係我面前講佢D親戚是非,話咩最少都要讀到中七喎...

心諗我讀到中五咋伯有...
我同我99嘅野真 ... [/quote

原來佢兩個女係大學生, 老人家會覺得大學生好叻,好識野,所以你99禁聽你姑仔話咯. 可以搬嘅話,就辛苦Ｄ都搬咯, 費事自己唔開心. 生ＢＢ係一件開心事嚟. take care!

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I forgot to say that:
My sister in-law also bought a lot of small 傢俱 and place in my house!!!! They are all useless (to me).............
And now, I ask her tomove them out of my house.

原帖由 CYT0408 於 09-5-21 15:17 發表
我又覺得, 係...錢係妳出, 但...話晒係公家地方..
係唔係都問下大家意見?

好似話果個熱水煲...
我又覺得99不無道理, 可能佢廚房既擺位,
真係唔岩放個大既呢...

可能佢地有個願望, 想慢慢換過晒d傢俱既color.. ...

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Agree!!!!!
I also want to share my experience (similiar case).

My sister in-law (my brother's wife) always live in my house in weekends (frequently, usually come on Friday, and go on Sunday).
Last Friday, she came again with her daughter.
However, I have told her don't visit us on that day as we have friends to visit us (and may live in our house).
However, my sister in-law came (with her daughter) without notice. I saw her in the living room when I back home with my friend at night (Friday night). I was angry about her. However, she hadn't say sorry to me, and just said that she came to visit her 99 ( not me). And she ask her daughter does she want to live here with her grandparents (but not ask me can she live in my house).

Most important, she wanted to sleep in the guess room that night (I had a friend, and want him to sleep in the guess room that night). And I told her to move out and sleep in another room (this room haven't install air conditioner, it is the playing room/area for my kids). She showed her angry face, and then complain about this to my mother. (I ask her move out of the guess room)

She have already put a lot of her belongings in the guess room (a little each time, and it seems that it is her room)...............

Then next day (Sat.), I ask her to take all her belonging out of my house, and I told her I won't allow her to live in my house anymore!

P.S. It is my house, my parents live alone (7x years old), I prepear a room for them in my house. And now, they like to live with me (and haven't back to their flat for a few months).

原帖由 CYT0408 於 09-5-21 15:17 發表
我又覺得, 係...錢係妳出, 但...話晒係公家地方..
係唔係都問下大家意見?

好似話果個熱水煲...
我又覺得99不無道理, 可能佢廚房既擺位,
真係唔岩放個大既呢...

可能佢地有個願望, 想慢慢換過晒d傢俱既color.. ...

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我又覺得, 係...錢係妳出, 但...話晒係公家地方..
係唔係都問下大家意見?

好似話果個熱水煲...
我又覺得99不無道理, 可能佢廚房既擺位,
真係唔岩放個大既呢...

可能佢地有個願望, 想慢慢換過晒d傢俱既color..

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間屋仲要有姑仔...可知姑仔比99更難對付...樓主都係自己take care 好 ! 可以嘅話, 搬離現場就最perfect

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原帖由 JOEYCMY 於 09-5-13 12:36 發表
我個櫃係放廳嘅,住公屋有咩DESIGN可言喎,所以成間屋咩色嘅家私都有,連彩色嘅櫃都有...我都唔係嬲我姑仔,我都知佢都只係講唔會叫我去換咁過份.
我只係嬲我99個女一句唔中意就叫人去換,仲要係叫我去換而唔係叫我老公, ...

櫃放廳, 戶主又唔係你老公, 一間屋又住咁多人, 粗身大細, 天氣又焗, 應該忍讓下。

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原帖由 JOEYCMY 於 09-5-13 17:49 發表
唉...比佢呃左都冇計啦,佢又唔係對我唔好,唔通日日夜夜為左搬同佢嘈咩,如果到時連個c6都企係佢阿媽個邊,我就真係一個人走得啦(唔係...係兩個,我一定帶埋BB走).

...

樓主,我比你幸運,我一開始結婚都係同99一齊住,
佢地個大單位,我話知住幾多人啦,
99,大伯,姑奶,姑奶兩個小朋友,再加埋我地兩公婆,
一屋七個人,雖然佢屋企係大單位,其實生活上我同佢地係冇問題,完全相處,但係結婚住左一個月,我最後都係搬,
因為我真係唔習慣咁多人一齊住,
唔想日日返到屋企都係入房,
你老公講o既問題,都唔係問題,
都搬出黎,女人多數都會做家務,好似我咁咩都做哂,
我老公依然繼續做大少,bb照可以俾錢俾99湊,
我租屋兩年,同老公慳慳地儲到差不多20萬,
夠買個居屋,依加自己叫有個家囉

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其實樓主你可否叫你c6取消現在的户籍,然後你們2人+bb再申請公屋呢?(據我所知bb在媽咪肚內over3個月+醫生証明,就可填落表格)

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學校我又未諗咁快,不過就唔僧讀名校囉,名校多有錢人,d小朋友已經識比較,我唔想我個bb有ed冇為嘅壓力囉.
我主要係想係佢入幼稚園時可以成功搬出,佢可以有自己嘅空間....

原帖由 pomanlife 於 09-5-14 11:16 發表

以我所知, 屋邨d學校冇咁好架, 為你個bb著想, 都係要"草"錢搬啦.

個bb讀唔讀到書係佢有冇天份, 而做父母既一定要提供好d既教育環境俾佢, eg. 搵間好既學校, 有佢自己溫書做功課既地方.

其實搵得多唔多錢, 好多時 ...

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我d野不嬲只係放係房架咋,連冬天放對毛毛拖鞋係廳都會比99掉番入房.但係bb就黎出世我就真係冇位先要放個櫃係廳,一早同佢地講左架啦,佢地唔係唔中意我放櫃,而係唔中意隻色...咁我覺得係我比錢我用,我點解人地一句唔中意就要我換先,我都知d 99一定係聽自己個女話,不過佢聽佢嘅事囉.好似e個case,我覺得係好唔合理,所以我會拒絕,我係同佢個仔結婚,唔係嫁入去就矮佢地一節.
唔好話今次我老公企係我個邊,就算佢唔幫我,我都會堅持....

原帖由 driedpork 於 09-5-14 11:44 發表
咁你地買個櫃之前有無同佢地商量下呀?
唉, 寄人籬下係咁架喇, 掉轉頭唸, 原本得佢一家幾口住, 到依家你搬咗入嚟, 嚟緊仲要生個bb, 又係迫好多的,
一家人, 互相忍讓下囉, 做ar 媽的, 梗係聽個女的話架喇, 好似我咁, ...

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原帖由 JOEYCMY 於 09-5-14 10:41 發表
係未有bb之前我同個c6都傾過好多次架啦,一時又話肯,一時又話唔肯.我都知bb大左都要有空間比佢玩同讀書.做得mami e樣野一定有諗啦,不過我地兩個學歷真係麻麻地,搵錢能力有限.而加唯有慳d洗,睇下 ...

以我所知, 屋邨d學校冇咁好架, 為你個bb著想, 都係要"草"錢搬啦.

個bb讀唔讀到書係佢有冇天份, 而做父母既一定要提供好d既教育環境俾佢, eg. 搵間好既學校, 有佢自己溫書做功課既地方.

其實搵得多唔多錢, 好多時唔係靠學歷架, 講真打份工每個月既收入真係有限, 而且有n咁多樣開支, 外面又有n咁多樣誘惑, 引誘你洗錢, hk地草錢真係好難喇.

你地3個人住, 又唔洗搬去好大地方, 3百幾4百呎, 有2房1廳, 租舊舊地都唔緊要個麻. 依家bb細, 你地暫時可以租係99附近, bb朝早帶去俾你99湊, 夜晚去湊返, 屋企清潔既問題, 可以請家務助理, 咁細地方, 一個星期請一次家務助理, 做2個鐘先100蚊, 一個月先400蚊之麻, 又唔係好貴, 又唔洗煩喇.